Marcelle Perks - The Little Book of Big Os: Brilliant Ideas to Take You to the Limit

The little book of BIG Os

Brilliant ideas to take you to the limit

Careful now
Sex can be a risky activity. Its just much more fun if you dont have to worry about a potential unwanted pregnancy or picking up a sexually transmitted infection. So go easy, use plenty of lube and see your doctor in the first instance if you experience problems. Play safe!

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Brilliant ideas

Before we even think physical, we need to probe the most important bit whats on your mind.

Being able to get off alone means more intense orgasms with someone else.

Understand your body and tunes in to your natural cycle.

Dont let pictures of the beautiful and famous make you feel inadequate.

Dont think of foreplay as prelude to penetration, savour it as the main event.

Learn how to think dirty.

Being able to enjoy oral sex, as a starter or an act in itself, is a good way to ensure you have satisfying orgasms.

Ways to slow down the pace and get your partner to be more touchy-feely

Daring ways to take the lead in seduction and try a bit of role bending!

These classic sexual moves are here to stay, so make the most of them and modify them slightly for a little diversity

Its not just about how long, how hard and how thick.

Theres nothing acrobatic or difficult about the CAT and you could improve your chances of having an orgasm with it by up to 50%!

You can use vibrators all over your body or dive in and cut to the chase.

In a long term relationship its useful to continue finding new areas to make meaningful to your lover, and anal play is something you could both potentially enjoy.

If the clitoris doesnt do it for you, simply experiment and find out what tickles your fancy.

Here are some simple techniques to make you insatiable.

Heres how to drive your man wild put a few tricks up your sleeve.

Its not just your bum that you need to tone up Simple fitness tips to pep up your stamina and sort you out for the long hauls.

Let the cat out of the bag and express yourself to lovers, in your diary or under a nom de plume on the net.

Not enough hours in the day? Too tired? The most erotic place is the mind, so role play and snatch back time to salvage those precious moments

Ways to satisfy each other when you dont have time to go all the way.

Doing something as simple as looking at each other properly during foreplay and sex can increase intimacy and give you full-bodied orgasms.

The versatility of water makes it the ideal medium for adding the X factor to your sex life.

Flirting boosts your self-esteem and is uplifting. Even if its just harmless fun, its sure to put a spring in your step.

Porn star Stormy Daniels gives us the low-down on her job, her love life and her top sex tips.

Being intimate is a double-edged sword. Sometimes it brings you too close and you need to be a bit more sexually ruthless to enjoy getting off.

Fantasising is normal human behaviour. Once youve worked out what makes you tick, youve got a fast-track route to orgasms.

The jurys out on whether its better for your bush to be au naturel or not.

What can you do to pep up a flagging libido?

If you just never feel in the mood any more, reconnecting with your sexual self is the first stage.

Do you have a template that traces your sexual predilections?

Challenge yourself to lose one of your inhibitions.

A glimpse of the weird and wonderful world of pornography.

The road to excess leads to the palace of wisdom. Tips for the sexually adventurous (not for the faint-hearted).

Even if it works for you, doing the same thing every time gets old.

A simple blindfold can give you hours of fun, heighten your erotic potential and even doubles as a party game.

Sometimes staying at home is not where its at. Try visiting an alternative club, sauna, workshop or sex shop.

Anything from taking photos to making your own home movie can be an incentive to keep the passion flowing.

Sometimes touching, cuddling and kissing are more important than intercourse. Thats great for cats heres how to move it from cosy to rosy.

There is lots of evidence showing that delaying sex until you are ready for it makes for more satisfying orgasms.

Deep down its the thrill of no-holds-barred, testosterone-fuelled sex that that attracts us to devil-may-care types. Theyre assertive, exciting and glamorous do you want a piece of the action?

Steep yourself in the mysterious wonders of Tantric sex and relax into an amazing, pure energy orgasm.

Casual sex can be an emotional minefield so heres how to have the spark without getting burned.

Experimenting with the kinky can lead to mind-opening experiences.

The biggest stumbling block for women is getting in the mood in the first place. A sexy DVD goes a long way into kick-starting something that will inevitably lead to a bit of action.

Worrying about how you look, sound or smell can distract you from having that wonderful orgasm. It really is a case of accepting the rough with the smooth.

Quicker, harder, faster? How to come more easily.

How to increase your chances of simultaneous orgasm.

Bringing your partner off with your hand is a staple of a good sex life.

Two more techniques for manual dexterity.

How can a woman come just like a man?

What are the favourite clitoral pleasers?

If sex is such a natural

phenomenon, how come

there are so many books

on how to?

BETTE MIDLER

Theres no specific audience for this book. You have to be female because its aimed at women, but theres something for everyone whether youre still a virgin or an experienced seductress. Perhaps youre young, or maybe youre already a great-grandmother; some of you might have to push the boat out to work around your physical disabilities, others will have mental blocks that make their lives difficult. Whatever point we start off from, all of us have our positive points and shadow sides to wrestle with.

The main aim is to help you improve your sex life, and although we cant guarantee youll have an orgasm (about 10% of women say they never climax) there are lots of ideas here that will at least put some fun and interest back into the mix. There are plenty of practical tips and tricks for better techniques to help you along, but theyre accompanied by parts devoted to improving your mental outlook. Good sex really is a mixture of biology and psychology.