Nyrae Dawn - The Hook-up Doctors Guide

TheHook-up Doctors Guide

Nyrae Dawn

Copyright 2012 by Nyrae Dawn

Smashwords Edition

Copyright 2012 by Nyrae Dawn

THESEBASTIAN HAWKINS

HOOK-UP DOCTOR

GUIDE

Disclaimer:

The Hook up Doctor Guide is a work ofFICTION and not meant to apply in real life. Sebastian and all ofthe situations in this book are fictional and for entertainmentpurposes only. This should not be used as a real self-help book.This advice is not meant for readers use, but for a fun, fictionalread.

Dedication:

To Allie B. This book would never havebeen without you. Thanks for

All the support.

SEBASTIAN AKA THE HOOK-UPDOCTOR

Whats up? Sebastian Hawkins here andthis is my guide to help girls grab their dream guy.

Okay. I totally know whatyoure thinkingis this guy for real? Let me just let you knowright now that yeah, I am. Im totally doing this. If youve readmy book, WHAT A BOY WANTS, you know I like to talk and like to givemy advice. Now, I have to figure out how to get through thiswithout giving away any spoilers, but yeah, Im going there again.Its my last hurrah, if you want to put it that way. I begged Nyraeto let me do something. It took some convincing, but she caved. Impretty sure its because she knows my advice kicks ass.

Okay, okay, so I know it might notalways go 100% as planned, but you have to admit, I have a goodrecord. Im pretty good at this if I do say so myself and theres alot of advice left for me to give.

Im going to admit a littlesecret to you (yeah, I know, its not really a secret if its in abook, but whatever). I digressback to my secret. I actually likedthe Hook-up Doctor gig. Who wouldnt? You get to tell people whatson your mind without holding anything back. People come to you and ask foryou to tell them what to do. Its friggin golden.

That was secret number one. I haveanother one too

Looks over my shoulder to make sure noone is around.

The whole Hook-up Doctor thing isntjust about getting a car. Or getting to hear myself speak. Peopletell me I like that a little too much, but I dont think theresanything wrong with that.

So yeahwhere was I? Oh yeah, money.It isnt only about my fundage.

People think since Im young I haventseen a lot. Theyre wrong. I have. Ive seen people get hurt andpeople screw uprinse, wash, repeat. Ive learned a thing or twoalong the way and this is me, sharing that with you.

Im taking a few of my tough cases asthe Hook-up Doctor, mixing them with a few new ones. Ill throw insome of my rules toostuff that I think is particularly good adviceand deserves to be repeated or its own section. Check me out. Imtotally organized. My girl would be so proud.

Alright. Here we go. Time to jump in.Enjoy.

CASE NUMBER ONE:

Hey Hookup Doctor,

So, there is this guy... I am surethat's how all of these things start for you, hey? Anyways, thisguy is perfection. He is smart and funny and cute and kind... Andmy math tutor... I know he probably thinks I am a huge idiot butwhat scares me more is he is a senior, 2 years older than me, andprobably way more experienced, you know, at hooking up. How do Imake him see me as more than just some dumb, inexperiencedkid?

Me(you x advice) + him = us

Me + Him = Us,

First, if he thinks yourean idiot than he is. Seriously. I can tell you I dont discriminate girls ontheir math grade and any guy who does, is lame. In the grand schemeof things, there are way more important things than how fast yousolve an algebraic equation.

Second, and this is where things get alittle sticky I have to tread lightly with this one. My mom and mygirl will kick my butt if I dont put this out there though Areyou sure hes not so much more experienced that you shouldnt gothere? Im not trying to be a downer here and Im not saying thatyou should forget about him for sure, Im just throwing that outhere. Its something to think about.

Growing up with a single mom andhaving Aspen and Pris to look after gives me a little differentperspective on that. I dont care if it makes me sound like achump, but girls have to be careful and if guys push too hard thantheyre not worth your time.

So, if you decide hes a cool guy andgoing to treat you right, there are a few questions I have for you.Do you guys have anything in common? Hang out with any of the samepeople? Its hard to give advice when I dont have all the info.Most of the time I tell girls to try and find that middlegroundsomething you guys can both talk about or whatever. Itscool to have a few things youre both into, but its cool to bedifferent too.

And I have to say itwhen all elsefails, flirt. Some of you are probably rolling your eyes at me nowand when I say flirt, I dont mean throw yourself at the guy.Theres a huge difference, but a little flirty can go a longway.

Hope that helps.

Hook-up Doc

SEBASTIANS RULES: Control

Alright, this is where I turn into oneof those guys who no one expects me to be, but yeah, I dont reallycare about that. I tell it how it is and say what Ifeel.

Control is important. When I saycontrol I dont mean bossy or running the show all the time, but Imean being in control of yourself, who you are and what you do.Its really hard to give examples about this without givingspoilers away about my book, but control is important. Ive seengirls end up in bad situations. Ive seen something that seemsokay, change quickly.

I also want to say that I knowsometimes shit happens. That you can do everything right and a guyjust ends up being a douche.

It sucks.

I dont know this chicks math tutorand he could be a totally chill guy, so this isnt only directed athim. Im not even saying its directed at only math girl and guy inparticular because one of them is older than the otherthis messagejust reminded me of the control rule and its something I reallywanna throw out there.

Stay in control, if you can. Rememberwhat you want and who you are and dont let someone else push youinto anything. I used to get shit all the time about girls. Illfully admit to seeing a bunch of them in the past, but the thingis, we were all on the same page. Know your page and dont letsomeone make you turn into a speed reader if you dont want to beone.

Its a big sea out there with a wholelot of fish. Youll find another one.

CASE NUMBER TWO:

Hey Doc,

I may just give you your biggestchallenge yet, because not only am I 'the friend' but worse is I am'one of the boys'. Don't get me wrong, I am totally a chick, a fullblown, full figured chick, but I am more likely to punch him thanhug him and challenge him to a seven hour Halo session instead ofmake out session. Who is him? That's not really the point here. Thepoint is I don't know how to make him see me as a girl withoutdoing that pink dress crap. It also doesn't help that I have toremind him on a regular basis that I am a girl and I really don'twant to hear about the girls he is hooking up with. Is there amiddle ground?

Later,

Not just one of the boys

Not just one of the boys,

Shit. This is a hard one. I mean, Itotally know what to tell you, but youre in a toughspot.

Its hard because theres the part ofme who wants to say, regardless of how he sees you; he totallyknows youre a girl. I dont care if my girlfriends are justfriends; I totally know theyre of the female variety. Im a guy,Im visual, and I notice things.