Wendy L. Patrick - Red Flags How to Spot Frenemies, Underminers, and Toxic People in Your Life

Acknowledgments

I would like to thank a small, special group of people for their selfless contributions to this work. These people include fellow prosecutors Summer Stephan, Gary Schons, Kate Flaherty, and Bryn Kirvin, dear friends Don Cole and Craig and Linda Barkacs, and in particular, my sister, Jennifer Patrick and my mother, Elizabeth Patrickfrom whom the best ideas come.

ALSO BY WENDY L. PATRICK

Reading People: How to Understand People and Predict
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