Dr. Aziz Gazipura - 7 Tips To Becoming A Conversation Master

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Gazipura, Aziz

7 Tips To Becoming A Conversation Master

ISBN: 978-1-61339-724-4

1. SELF-HELP / Communication & Social Skills

2. SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem

3. PSYCHOLOGY / Interpersonal Relations

You Are About To Discover The Secrets Of Mastering Conversations So You Can Comfortably Talk To Anyone, Anywhere

Welcome to Seven Tips to Becoming a Conversation Master.

In this eBook, you are going to learn how to take your conversation ability to the next level.

First and foremost, you're going to learn how to start a conversation with anyone, in any setting, at any time, in a way that is comfortable, natural, and organic.

Youre going to learn how to break through that layer of small talk that can be boring or stilted.

By the end of this eBook, you will know exactly how to take the conversation to a deeper level, so you can actually connect with the other person and truly enjoy the conversation.

You're also going to learn how to break into groups of people who are already talking.

Have you been in this situation before?

Youre at a party or gathering and you see a group of people talking and youd like to jump in, but you end up feeling stuck on the outside, unsure of how to proceed.

In this eBook, you're going to learn exactly how to get into that group, become a part of that group, and have people enjoy talking to you in the process.

The skill of conversing with people is absolutely essential. Lets face it, if you cant talk to people well, then you arent excelling in your life.

It might be socially, in dating and relationships, or in your work and career.

If you can't start conversations with people, it can be really difficult to expand your social network, to meet people and develop friendships, or to talk to women and create romantic relationships.

In addition to your social life, if you cant create good conversations, then your business life is thwarted as well.

Even if you're really good at your technical skill in business, such as accounting or performing in the courtroom, youve probably discovered that is not enough to get ahead in your career.

You need excellent conversation skills to chat with your boss, interview well, or build relationships with colleagues by getting lunch and spending time together. If you can't have a comfortable conversation with them, if you're not a master of that conversation, then you lose those opportunities.

I dont want that for you and thats why I created this eBook.

In it, you are going to learn the exact skills you need to excel in conversations.

You are going to learn how to shift your self-concept so you can start to see yourself as good at creating conversations.

You're also going to learn the secrets of modeling and how to rapidly accelerate your progress using social learning.

You will also discover the art of engaging questions so that people enjoy talking to you. They leave a conversation with a positive impression of you, thinking, Wow, what a really cool guy. I really enjoyed that conversation.

And finally, you're going to learn one of my favorite thingsThe Steamroll Techniquewhich will help you to break through those first 60 seconds of conversation so you never get stalled out by awkwardness again.

You're going to be able to just move on through and go to the next phase of the conversation, where you can really connect with the person.

One last thing before we begin. I want to quickly share the origins of this material, so you can see just how powerful it can be for you.

I was working with a client in private Confidence Coaching to help him take his career to the next level. He was already a high-power professional in Washington, D.C., but he recently accepted a job at a world organization in Europe. This was a high moment in his career and in his life.

However, he had a checkered history of poor conversations with co-workers and bosses over the years. He was excellent at his trade, but struggled in social situations. Whats worse, his new job required frequent outings with foreign diplomats, conferences, and what he called schmoozing.

He told me he had high faith in his ability to do his job well, but that he had avoided these kinds of social interactions for much of his life.

Im terrible at them, he told me in one session. I have no idea what to say or do.

And so we jumped into coaching, covering all aspects of creating outstanding conversations. This eBook and the 7 Steps that youll discover below were born out of these sessions. We broke down every element of conversationsfrom the mindset beforehand, to starting them, to breaking into groupsover a period of four months.

He was paying me $5,000 per month for private one-on-one coaching, so this is a $20,000 training!

It turned out to be absolutely worth the investment for him. He went on the excel in his new job there, so much so that he is being considered for the head of his department, just 6 months after starting there.

All this from using the exact techniques you will learn below.

Lets begin!

The first tip is to transform your "I am". What do I mean by changing your I am"?

Right now, in your mind, you have a perception of yourself when in regard to talking to other people. You have an "I am".

Most likely, if you're struggling in this area, it's a negative "I am". You say things like:

• I am incapable
• I am no good in conversations
• I blow it when it comes to talking to people who are important
• I am awkward and I make the people around me feel awkward.

These might be your "I am's" right now. If thats the case, how do you think you're going to approach your next conversation? Awkwardly, right? You will expect failure, act nervous, tighten your body, and otherwise make yourself and those around you uncomfortable. Lo and behold, the failure we expect ... happens.

To transform your abilities to change the way people see you and to master the art of conversation you must transform the way you see yourself.

So how do you create an alternative "I am"? How do you know what to tell yourself about your conversational ability to give yourself confidence and make yourself more comfortable speaking with others?

Start by imagining someone who's supremely confident in conversations; ask yourself, What does this person probably tell himself before he speaks?

This may seem strange at first, but stick with me here. How does this person think about himself? What is