Dance first.
Think later.
618 rules to live by
Kathryn & Ross Petras
Workman Publishing New York
Contents
Introduction
H ow should one live life?
Could you answer that question in one sentence or two?
One night, we were watching TV and saw David Letterman ask rocker Warren Zevonwho was diagnosed with terminal cancer at age 55what hed learned about life and death.
Enjoy every sandwich, Zevon said.
That totally knocked us out.
The idea was refreshingly honest and unashamedly simple, yet deep. All too often in this rushing world, were harangued with practical advice about money or success or getting ahead. And we lose sight of the big picture. The big picture expressed by Warren Zevon in one small phrase.
Enjoy every sandwich.
The phrase got us looking for other, equally pithy but profound rules to live by. In your hands, youre holding the result of our search618 nuggets of big picture wisdom. Street-smart insights from poker pros and insightful observations from poets. Quirky truths from comedians and evidence-based truths from scientists. Secrets of success from business moguls and secrets of enlightenment from philosophers. Dance First. Think Later. is packed with knowledge culled from writers and speakers who range far and wide but share one common characteristic: They know how to live life well.
We hope you enjoy this book.
And, of course, we hope you remember to enjoy every sandwich.
Kathryn & Ross Petras
Rule No. 1
The first and great commandment is: Dont let them scare you.
Elmer Davis
writer
Rule No. 2
Sing in the shower. Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something.
Kurt Vonnegut
writer
Rule No. 3
Never make a credit decision on a beach.
Victor J. Boschini
college administrator
Rule No. 4
Believe in life!
W.E.B. Du Bois
sociologist/civil rights activist, in last message to the world
Rule No. 5
Do not wait for the Last Judgment. It takes place every day.
Albert Camus
writer
Rule No. 6
Dont panic.
Douglas Adams
writer
Rule No. 7
If youre alone in the kitchen and you drop the lamb, you can always just pick it up. Whos going to know?
Julia Child
chef
Rule No. 8
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle.
Ian Maclaren
writer
Rule No. 9
Do stuff you will enjoy thinking about and telling stories about for many years to come. Do stuff you will want to brag about.
Rachel Maddow
political commentator
Rule No. 10
The only dream worth having... is to live while youre alive and die only when youre dead.
Arundhati Roy
activist/writer
Rule No. 11
It depends is almost always the right answer in any big question.
Linus Torvalds
software engineer
Rule No. 12
Spend the afternoon. You cant take it with you.
Annie Dillard
writer
Rule No. 13
Remember, you dont owe anybody any explanations, you dont owe your parents any explanations, you dont owe your professors any explanations.
Bono
musician/activist
Rule No. 14
Laugh. Laughter is immeasurable. Be joyful though you have considered all the facts.
Wendell Berry
writer/farmer
Rule No. 15
If you cant get what you wish for, forget about it.
Antonio Pierro
world war i veteran
Rule No. 16
Dont forget that some things count more than other things.
William Saroyan
writer
Rule No. 17
Create a posse of dead people. Create an entourage of heroes. Put their pictures on your wall, and keep them in your mind.
David Brooks
columnist
Rule No. 18
A little money helps, but what really gets it right is never I repeat never under any condition face the facts.
Ruth Gordon
actress/writer
Rule No. 19
Never refuse a chance to sit down. And never refuse an opportunity to relieve yourself.
Edward, Duke of Windsor
Rule No. 20
Nothing important was ever accomplished without chutzpah. Columbus had chutzpah. The signers of the Declaration of Independence had chutzpah. Dont ever aim your doubt at yourself. Laugh at yourself, but dont doubt yourself.
Alan Alda
actor
Rule No. 21
Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.
E. B. White
writer
Rule No. 22
Never trust someone who cant eat a meal alone at their own kitchen table.
Ellen Barkin
actress
Rule No. 23
Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.
Oprah Winfrey
media magnate
Rule No. 24
Just because you like Jimi Hendrix doesnt mean you can play like Jimi Hendrix.
Anthony Bourdain
chef
Rule No. 25
Never spend money before you have it.
Thomas Jefferson
statesman
Rule No. 26
No matter how big or soft or warm your bed is, you still have to get out of it.
Grace Slick
singer
Rule No. 27
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
Arthur Ashe
tennis player
Rule No. 28
If you dont get what you want, its a sign either that you did not seriously want it, or that you tried to bargain over the price.
Rudyard Kipling
writer
Rule No. 29
Work hard each day.
Rainbow Rule
posted in mrs. foltzs first-grade class, waterboro elementary school, east waterboro, maine
Rule No. 30
Never practice two vices at once.
Tallulah Bankhead
actress
Rule No. 31
When you see a good move, look for a better one.
Emanuel Lasker
chess master
Rule No. 32
Live your life the way you want. Youll figure it out.
John Grisham
writer
Rule No. 33
Never kick a fresh turd on a hot day.
Harry S. Truman
statesman
Rule No. 34
Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you?
Fanny Brice
comedian
Rule No. 35
Better to do a little well than a great deal badly.
Socrates
philosopher
Rule No. 36
Question everything! You never know where a silly question may lead you.
Derek Abbott