Susan Carter - How To Save Your Marriage: Practical Steps To Saving Your Relationship And Making It Work!

How to Save Your Marriage: Practical Steps to Saving Your Relationship and Making It Work!

Overview

Who is this report for?

This is for anyone who feels like their relationship has come to an end but wants to save that marriage. The report goes through the common reasons for divorce and how to stop that D-word becoming a reality. It will also help you determine whether it is time for divorce and whether the marriage is worth saving.

What will you gain from this report?

You will gain the knowledge needed to save your marriage today. The report goes through the basic steps to helping to save your relationship and make it work for the long term. It goes through everything that you need to know.

What does this report cover?

It covers the basic steps on saving a marriage and making it work for the long term. It also covers the most common reasons why relationships do not work such as financial stress and adultery. The report will also briefly touch on when it is best to walk away from a relationship.

Table of Contents

Saving Your Marriage

As a relationship continues, the fire can go out. Arguments can start to happen and the people in the relationship and those around them become unhappy. They start to believe that separation or divorce is the only option. However, it is possible to save your marriage and if you are reading this, then it is likely that that is just what you want to do.

The truth is that all couples have disagreements and arguments. Anybody who tells you that they are in a happy relationship and never argue with their partner is lying or one of them just doesnt have their own opinion. We are all individuals; we all have our own thoughts and feelings. It is that individuality that causes arguments but without it, it would lead to a very boring existence!

When Things Get Tough

There are times when things will get tough. This could be due to an illness, a bereavement or financial stress. This leads to more arguments and you may feel like it has come to the end of the relationship. Something that many people forget about is the vow that they took when marrying their partner; for better or for worse. This vow means that you will stay together through the good times and the bad ones. It will seem easy to do during the good times but it is the bad that usually get to people.

With a few simple steps, you can start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. You will get through the tough times together and it can make your relationship stronger. Remember that every couple goes through bad times, whether it is due to financial stress, problems with the children or even just problems between each other. These are things that can be worked on and you can get over.

When Isnt a Relationship Worth Saving?

Youre probably wondering how will I know my relationship is worth saving? There are times that it IS best for the relationship to come to an end and for divorce to happen. However, this is in the minority. Surprisingly 50% of marriages end in divorce but only 1% or 2% of them really should.

So, how do you know when it is time to consider divorce? Just because your partner has cheated on you with someone else does not necessarily mean that it is time to throw in the towel on the relationship. There are times that a marriage can become stronger after an affair. The trust that is lost CAN BE built back and that is something to constantly remember. However, if your partner has numerous affairs and continues to have them in the future, it is time to leave and gain happiness somewhere else.

However, it is important to look into the reasons for the affair. This is something that will be covered in detail in a later chapter. Your partner will not have had the affair for the sake of having one; there will have been a reason there such as not feeling connected to you or something else happening in your married lives. This is something that needs to be dealt with and fixed before even thinking about ending the relationship as it will continue to affect relationships in the future.

While this is sometimes true, it all depends on the reasons for the divorce. Getting out of an abusive relationship is something that is better for you and your children but splitting up because of disagreements and arguments is not something that will be better for them. Arguing isnt good for the children either so it is important to tackle the problem like adults. Sit down and talk things through, even if it means hiring a professional to help you. The trick is to try and save the marriage and show the children that you are trying. At least then divorce is seen as a last resort but is unlikely to happen if you are both willing to save the relationship.

Divorce Isnt So Rosy

Before touching on whether your marriage is worth saving and how to save it, it is worth looking into the world of divorce. After all, 50% of marriages end in divorce. Many people believe that they will be happier out of the marriage but that is not always the case. The problem is that divorce brings other issues who will raise the children? Will joint custody be allowed? Whose fault is the divorce and who will gain the assets from that fault?

Divorce is extremely expensive and usually it is just the lawyers who win from it through their fees. It is a long process unless the divorce is an amicable decision and everything has been arranged beforehand and causes financial and emotional strain for both partners. The children also suffer as they witness their parents arguing over facts such as who will get the house and which weekends the children will spend with Mom or Dad.