Young - Daddy: a Memoir

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Publishers Cataloging-in-Publication data

Young, Madison.
Daddy : a memoir / Madison Young / with a foreword by Annie Sprinkle.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-1-940207-31-5

1. Young, Madison. 2. PornographyUnited StatesCase studies. 3. Sex-oriented businessesUnited StatesEmployeesBiography. 4. Bondage (Sexual behavior). 5. Fetishism (Sexual behavior). 6. Sex customsUnited StatesCase studies. 7. Fathers and daughtersBiography. 8. FeminismUnited States. 9. Sexual minoritiesUnited States. I. Sprinkle, Annie. II. Title.

HQ472.U6 Y68 2013
363.4/7dc23

For the quiet girl in the corner waiting for the moment
to sound her voice. Follow your truth.

We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.

Anas Nin

Foreword

H i. Im Annie Sprinkle and Ill be your guide into the journey that is this book. Think of me as your sparkly good witch welcoming you to a magical, kinky kingdom where a beautiful feminist porn princess, Madison Young, tries to win the heartand cockof a handsome, charming, sexy prince, Sir James Mogul. There are no lions, tigers, or bears. Thats kids stuff. This kingdom is for adults only. There are sex slaves, bondage babes, and fire breathing green-eyed monsters. Oh my! We are going way, way, way over the rainbow. Just wait until you find out who is really running the show from behind the curtain! And its not Daddy!

So why did Madison Young ask me to be the one to welcome you into her life story and first book? First, I am Madisons kinky fairy godmother, and she is my darling porn-art daughter. We met nine years ago when she was curating an exhibit for her very own art gallery, Femina Potens. She called me up and asked to show some of my work. I loaned her a large photograph I had made of a naked woman with a full beard, crucified on a cross. We have been collaborating in art, and in life, ever since, and have become family. I adore her! Second, a long time ago (1973-1995), on the isle of Manhattan, I was a reigning Queen of Kink. I made porn movies, fetish videos, and worked at the Hell Hole Hospital as a dom, sub, and nasty nurse. On weekends I haunted the Hell Fire Club where I cast many sexy spells. Eventually I transitioned into a life of experimental art, sex education, and doing theater about my life. You see, I helped pave the kinky brick road that Madison would follow, follow, follow early in her career. Madison has since paved an all-new kinky brick road uniquely her own. Its a vastly improved, high-tech super highway, which many newbie pleasure artists today follow, follow, follow. Madison has gone from a bondage princess to todays reigning Queen of Kink, and a premier body based performance artist and successful gallerist of edgy art. She carries the fiery torch with great pride, wisdom, and grace.

So, before you slip into this bedtime story and fondle its sensuous pagesbefore you savor its juicy detailsallow me to make a few suggestions. Take what you like and leave the rest.

Have no expectations. Because this book probably wont be what you expect.

Keep an open mind. Taboos will be broken. Gettin all judgmental is no fun, and it doesnt feel good. So try and keep an open mind, at least until you get to the end of the story.

Open your heart and feel Madison Youngs love flow from these pages. This book is Madisons gift to you. Let yourself receive it.

Savor the naughty bits. Warning! Parts of this tale/tail are sexually explicit! Go ahead, enjoy em!

Be grateful for your freedoms. There are plenty of countries whose governments absolutely would not allow this material into the hands of its citizens. How privileged are we?

Dont let this book make you feel sexually inadequate. Few people can outkink my darling porn daughter! Shes a fierce BDSM gladiator, boldly going where few women dare. James is a master alchemist of sexual ecstasy. Do not compare yourself. Few of us are at their level.

Wear sexy outfits while reading this book. Especially glittery red high heeled slippers you can click together. Or simply wear rope. You will feel like you are there!

Check out Madison and James work online. You can actually view the erotica, porn, and art Madison writes about. You will know the real life back-stories.

If after you read this book, you would like to meet Madison and James in the flesh, check out their workshops, appearances, and performances. Mail them a card, pop them an email, offer them gigs, send them presents! They are mythic characters but relatively accessibleif you are worthy.

Do not try these advanced BDSM techniques at home, unless you are properly trained. They can be dangerous! This said, the training is a helluva lot of fun, so sign up!

Now just follow the kinky brick road, and see what happens. Can Madison Young win the heart of Sir James? How does Sir James get so many women to kneel at his feet and submit to his titillating tortures? How does James magic camera spin digital images into gold? Can Madison maintain her feminist identity and woman of power status while bottoming to a man? Will Sir James drink the potion and fall down the rabbit hole? What will Madison do when she gets pregnant? A baby in the life of the royal couple of kink? Thats really edgy! Whos Daddy anyway?

This is a story about sexual fantasies becoming realities. It is a rare peek into the life of one very special woman who has made sexuality her lifes path and work. This is also very much a story about family, self-awareness, and about gaining wisdom through excess. I can vouch for its authenticity. I was there. This story is honest, and true.

It has been my honor to be your good witch to welcome you on this journey. Now go! Before the Wicked Witch shows up.

Annie Sprinkle

With Your Consent

I will take you on a journey. We will journey together, giving and taking, experiencing pain and pleasure; you as the reader, I as the read. I lay my heart bare, simple, raw, beating, human, and emotional with truth of honesty and vulnerability, fear and heroism. I offer you myselfa piece of me, not all of mea slice to connect with, to touch, to feel. I cannot hear the consenting yes seep from your lips, but by the simple turn of this page you will be physically consenting to this journey, to this scene, between me and you. I feel your eyes upon my words. Consider carefully the risks, the beauty, the parts of your psyche that you will be allowing me into; the energy that you will be sharing with me as you clutch these pages in your damp, sweaty hands and go further, exploring your depths and mine. Know that this is a carefully constructed container in which you and I are equals. We play different roles and have different histories written on our hearts, but in the construction of this, here in these negotiations of consent, we are equals. If in your reading things get too intense, if you want to slow down, if you need to dog-ear my pages and get a drink of water, do so. Listen to your body; we will pace ourselves as we explore our edges. If you need to use a safeword, do so, close the book, leave the room, go for a walk, and breathe deeply. I will not take offense. Instead, I will respect you even more for knowing yourself, for communicating your needs and meeting them. I give of myself in these pages with trust, honesty, intimacy, and respect. I write because I am a writer. I speak because too many are silent. I make space for human error because we are flesh and blood. With love we grow.