How well we see and what we see matters because we are the ones who direct our glances and, by so doing, determine how vibrantly we will live.
In my work as an interior designer, Ive found that most people go through life half blind. Few really know how to see and as a result are unaware of the majesty and beauty around them. But seeing can be learned, and to those who learn to see well, the world becomes an entirely different place. Life is suddenly rich with promise, full of light, color, texture, and harmony A trained eye leads to an awareness of beauty and a way to find pleasure in all things.
Seeing is democratic. We can all do it. My aim is to help teach you to see. The principles, exercises, and lessons in this book will help you to open your eyes wider and wider to all possibilities.
Seeing well saves time, energy, and money. You will learn not to be dependent on other peoples eyes. You will avoid costly mistakes while experiencing the enrichment of all the moments of your life at home or anywhere else. You will learn to bring more harmony into your home with better scale, proportion, order, symmetry, and balance. I hope this book will inspire you to look and really see that your life can become a work of art, a life of significance.
It might be good to open our eyes and see.
T HOMAS M ERTON
Whenever we want to learn to do something well, we have to go into training. Just because weve been given eyesight doesnt mean we know how to use our eyes to look and really see.
We have to train ourselves to look at all things and see things well. We must not be limited by the familiar but must instead look and look again. Seeing well is a process of opening our mind as well as our eyes. We will be intrigued and curious, but in the beginning we also need to discipline our mind and eyes and discern through practice.
Begin where you are now and embark on a seeing journey with me.
Open Your Eyes: 1,000 Simple Ways to Bring Beauty into Your Home and Life Each Day is my attempt to open you up to a whole new way of seeing the world, a whole new way of living your life. As an interior designer, Im well aware how much you care about the way your surroundings look and feel to you, your family, and loved ones. You want to live in inviting spaces where the energy is positive, where the colors are uplifting, where the scale and proportion are harmonious, where your objects are arranged in attractive compositions. You want to feel elevated by the refinement and artistry of your possessions. Above all, you want to see and feel the rhythms that lead you to a more meaningful life day by day.
In order to see, you require basic tools that will be the keys to the life you want to live. This book gives you all you need to learn in order to look and see well beyond the ordinary. You will be able to train your own eyes to see with a fresh new vision. If I can help you to perceive depth in the space in front of you, you will in turn be able to live with more depth in other areas, because you will see more divine order in the universe.
When I was sixteen, my aunt took me around the world, exposing me to every kind of seeing experience imaginable. I saw poverty, illness, and death, as well as natural beauty and architectural wonders. In order to see well and discover beauty, you have to expose your eye to everything there is to see. With training, you will be discerning, refining what you see toward beauty. Seeing well not only brings more joy and pleasure to every day but also transforms mere existence into the art of living.
Seeking the Ideal
Proportion and Scale
Beauty and art pervade all the affairs of life like some friendly genius, and embellish with their cheer all our surroundings.
H EGEL
Making the most of our lives, preserving harmony in our surroundings, and loving what we have and see is the most satisfactory way to live. Just as the satisfactory relationship of one person to another results in comfort, peace, and joy, so does the satisfactory relationship of ideal proportion and scale. As in relationships, there is stability in proper proportion and scale that leads to pleasure and sensible living, health and ease. My aim in this chapter is, to transform the way you see everyday life, as well as what you do and how you live as a result.
There are none so blind as those who cannot see.
J ONATHAN S WIFT
Awe is what moves us forward.
J OSEPH C AMPBELL
The difference between living and half living is seeing well, looking for associations between things, seeking the connections, being aware of scale and proportion. If it is true that what you seek you find, then it is also true that what you see you find. When you see well, you enjoy the beauty of the world rather than seeing only half the treasures around you.
Proportion and scale are the tools for achieving this harmonious ideal. Their benevolent effects are all around you. Not too much, not too little. Not too high, not too low. Not too fat, not too thin; not too sweet, not too sour; not too loud, not too faint; not too busy, not too bland; not too garish, not too dull; not too extravagant, not too stingy. We know the world is not perfect. But if we can see ideal proportionthe relationship of things to themselvesand if we can see scalethe size of objects on their ownwe will be better equipped to see that a rich life is out there, ours for the seeing and learning. When you seek the ideal, understanding the relationships among people and objects around you, beauty is wherever you are.
At any given moment, I open my eyes and exist.
U GO B ETTI
Let scale and proportion help you to become a seer, with your eyes and brain answering to your own highest conception of the ideal.
Proportion
Proportion is the part considered in relationship to the whole. The essence of proportion is the connection among objects (or parts of a single object) in regard to size, dimensions, and character. All things, from simple two-dimensional shapesa rooms floor plan or a tabletopto more complex three-dimensional objectsa carved mantel or a Ming vasehave proportions. If one part varies, the other parts are affected, and the original harmony of the whole is disturbed. Every object has several individual components that come together to make up a whole. The proportions of an object are determined by its distinctive measurements, form, line, curve, and design details. When there is a harmonious relationship among the parts that make up the whole, aesthetically pleasing proportions result, delighting the eye. When something is not in proportion, when there is no integration between the parts, it lacks unity and is jarring, disturbing to the eye. Recognizing ideal proportion and correcting what is awkward is a fundamental skill for seeing well. Mastering it requires training the eye.