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Michael Smalley - More Than a Match: The Five Keys to Compatibility for Life

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Prepare Yourself for Lasting Love

Youve searched a lifetime for that special person, but how can you be absolutely certain that youve found The One? And more important, how can you hold on to that love for the rest of your life?
More Than a Match explores the compatibility factor, demystifying the science behind matchmaking and giving you the tools you need to find the love you want. Youll learn how to apply the specifics of good compatibility to a prospective date or mate, as well as how to break things off when you find yourself in the wrong relationship.
But since great relationships arent built on compatibility alone, marriage experts Michael and Amy Smalley also delve into the forever factor, giving you the skills you need to turn your romance into a lifelong love affair. Youll learn how to deal with conflict, how to develop a healthy sex life, and how to recover when you inevitably hurt one another.
Fantastic marriages begin long before the exchange of the rings; they start when two people in search of love commit themselves to learning to how to love welland forever. Because finding and keeping the love of your life is about much More Than a Match.

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Praise for More Than a Match You wont meet a more authentic couple than - photo 1
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More Than a Match

You wont meet a more authentic couple than Michael and Amy Smalley. There is help and encouragement on every page.

J IM B URNS P H D, president of HomeWord and author of Creating an Intimate Marriage

I love Michael and Amy Smalley! Their wisdom and energy are only matched by their grounding in the sound principles of what truly makes couples work. For anyone searching for the secret to lasting love, I highly recommend you heed their advice.

D R . K EVIN L EMAN , author of Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage

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Foreword

If youre familiar with my books, you may know that Michael will always be a living memorial of Gods mercy to me. What you may not know is that Michael donated one of his kidneys to me in 2003. To see him now coming into his own, with his beautiful bride Amy by his side, fills me with a fatherly pride I cant deny.

As I said in Making Love Last Forever, the first step toward achieving the satisfaction of a lifelong love with your spouse is learning to love life itselfevery part of it. My son Michael has always had that in abundance. So when I heard he and Amy were writing this book, More Than a Match, sharing the story of their love for life and each other, I was thrilled. This new book is nothing short of a full marriage course on how to win, keep, and sustain the lasting love every starry-eyed bride and groom dreams about.

If you want to find that perfect someone, get on a better path, or learn the secret to building a marriage that can stand the test of time, Michael and Amys ideas and advice will help you get there.

I can think of no greater message for young people looking toward marriage today than the one put forward in this book. Read it, live it, and find yourself the deep satisfaction that comes in discovering More Than a Match.

Gary Smalley

Note to the Reader

In More Than a Match, we tell several stories about Amy Smalleys relationship with Jeff Miller (not his real name), to whom she was engaged to be married before that relationship ended.

As painful as the episode was for the both of them, Jeff has agreed to let us talk about that time in the hope that it will help you avoid the pain of a broken engagement. We thank Jeff for his courage and willingness to help others.

Elsewhere in this book, we have used pseudonyms for people we have met in our counseling sessions.

M ichael Falling in love for all the right reasons was turning out to be a - photo 13

M ichael: Falling in love for all the right reasons was turning out to be a real chore. Straightening up in my chair, I ran a hand through a thatch of hair and contemplated the bluish glow emanating from my PowerBook. The eight-hundred-pound gorilla in the cyber world of online dating, eHarmony.com, couldnt wait to match me with the woman of my dreams, but getting to the altar was taking some time. No sooner would I finish clicking my responses to one set of questions when another fresh set would leap before me.

Please use the scale below to rate how well you believe each of the following words generally describes you, the screen directed.

In the left-hand column, fifteen adjectives were listed, including these four:

  • content

  • humorous

  • efficient

  • perfectionist

All I had to do was click a number on a scale of 1 to 7 with 1 being not at all and 7 meaning very much so.

Lets seecontentIm pretty contented these days. Thats a 6. Humorous? People do say Im funny. Im going to give myself a 7. Efficient. Cant say Im a world-record holder in that department better give myself a 2. Am I a perfectionist? Thats an easy callnot in the least. Ill take a 1.

And so it went. But after a half hour of point and click, I was only one-third of the way through eHarmony.coms self-personality test. The electronic information gathering was getting more interesting, though. On one screen page, I was asked to rate myself on another 1 to 7 scale regarding the following statements:

  • I enjoy mingling with people on social occasions.

  • I like reading everything I can about a subject.

  • I have a high desire for sexual activity.

Oh yeah, Im a 7 on all of those!

Ninety minutes later, I finished answering the last of 436 questions. I sent my completed eHarmony.com profile into cyberspace, where a massive server churned my reams of personal information for several nanoseconds, seeking to match me in twenty-nine areas of compatibility with the millions of eHarmony.com ladies in its database.

Several minutes later, some very good news was waiting for me in my in box. I had some matches! An eHarmony.com e-mail informed me that five totally foxy women were waiting to hear from me, but before I could see what they looked like or read their profiles, a little business had to be contracted: a payment of $49.95, which would give me access to eHarmonys little black book for the next month.

Amy: If you dont know who John Bobbitt is, just Google his name. Im glad Michael wandered through the garden of online dating, though, which these days is more like the size of Central Park than a backyard plot. According to the research firm Pew Internet, 11 percent of all American, Internet-using adultsabout sixteen million peoplesay they have gone to a dating Web site or another site where they can meet people online, making online dating one of the most lucrative Web businesses out there. (Unfortunately, porn is probably number one, but those revenue figures are hard to track.)

In addition, men and women are meeting each other through community Web sites like MySpace.com, Friendster.com, Facebook.com, and Bebo.com, which are free services that use the Internet for communication through an interactive network of photos, chat rooms, Weblogs, and user profiles.

The more serious-minded gravitate toward online dating sites to find a perfect match rather than just a date, and some serious matching has gone on: Pew Internet said that 26 percent of American adultsfifty-three million peoplehave gone on a date with a person they met through a dating site.

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