Jodi Schuelke - I Just Want Out: Seven Careful Steps to Leaving Your Emotionally Abusive Husband

I Just Want Out

Praise for

I Just Want Out

I was fortunate to receive an advanced reader copy of Jodi Schuelkes fabulous book, I Just Want Out . And I say fabulous because I read the whole thing in one sitting. Informative, practical, and moving, all at once, this guide will tug at your heartstrings, empower you, and hold your hand and your heart. Jodi shares her personal journey and outlines a practical and thorough step-by-step process for moving out of an emotionally abusive marriage with preparedness and integrity, so that you can move into your amazing, independent future. Bravo!

Linda Bucher , Master Certified Life Coach and Coach Mentor

As a survivor of an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship of 21 years, I can say this is a brilliant, step-by-step manual for those who are in the same situation and want to make the courageous choice to get out. Not only does it deal with the emotional side of this brave decision, but it tackles the practical part as well.

When you are in an abusive relationship and you want out, the emotional overwhelm and chaos can make you forget about the practical and legal side of things. But, let me tell you, that is an essential part, as much as the emotional implications. When dealing with an abuser, you must be prepared on all fronts, because an abuser knows how to manipulate you and push your buttons.

In sharing her story and then giving clear, practical steps, Jodi has managed to create a book that will be an indispensable part of your support system, making the ride consider ably lighter. Jodi reminds you that youre not alone!

Christel Van Gelder , Certified Life Coach, 3CHLifecoaching

I started reading Jodis book and got through and didnt want to stop reading! I found it to be spot-on, and loved that it was written from her actual experience. I, too, went through a bad first marriage, and wish I would have found a book like this 20 years agothe advice and pointers are awesome. Its also very encouraging for women who are nervous about leaving what they know and are used to. Love the book!

Julie B.

I Just Want Out is a straightforward resource for any woman wanting to get out of their bad marriage. Jodi does an excellent job of making the reader feel they are supported and not alone during such a brave life transition. The reader gets a realistic walkthrough of the process and an organized approach to moving out of a bad situation. Its an easy read, with valuable insights!

Judith P.

Congratulations, Jodi, for having the courage to listen to your heart, for making the admirable choice to leave a bad marriage, and now for sharing your success story with the world. There are so many nuggets of truth that resonated throughout the book. I Just Want Out is a true gift from the universe that can help so many women who find themselves in similar situations!

Julie E. Cline , Life Coach and Guide, My One HAPPY Life

Thank you, Jodi, for sharing your story so openly. I firmly believe that the number of cases of emotional abuse within marriage is epidemic in our country. The difficulty comes in finding the courage to share it and finding others who can validate our experiences. You have done this beautifully in your book! I cannot wait to share it with others who are looking for additional validation.

Lynn Mclaughlin , Founder & Professional Life Coach, Dand Alliance LLC

In I Just Want Out , Jodi does an incredible job of describing how to differentiate between what we have been conditioned to believe and expect in an abusive relationship, and the realities of how a healthy relationship should function. Her words are raw and genuine, and empower women to grease and set the wheels in motion to get themselves into a safe and positive place. She provides the tools and draws from her own experiences to help with converting from feeling trapped and fearful to strong and empowered.

Kristen Genet

I Just Want Out really opened up my heart and mind to what many women deal with daily and feel there is no way of getting out of. All women have a choice, and it does matter. Jodi asks a great question: What do you want for your future, and your childrens? Her phenomenal book provided answers and helped me to better understand my past experiences, and to know that they were not my fault.

Cindy C.

I Just Want Out provides a Framework for how to go about ending an emotionally abusive marriage. Jodi guides you through what to do, and when and how to do it, as you prepare for this life-changing journey.

Linda Brandt

There are going to be a lot of women who can relate to this book! If youre experiencing emotional abuse, physical abuse, or both, I Just Want Out provides hope. Jodi is living proof that happiness is out therewomen just have to want it and have the heart to go get it. Jodi put in the hard work for a better, happier, and more successful life, and she and her kids are thriving now. Congratulations!

Rebecca Casey

This is a great resource book for anyone struggling to leave their unhealthy marriage. Jodi not only spells out what to do emotionally, she offers ways to protect yourself financially in the event of a divorce. I found I Just Want Out to be a very informative read. Jodi writes clearly and pro vides concrete steps from her life experience to help women smartly prepare for getting divorced.

Sherrie Erbs

I Just Want Out is excellent. Jodi put her heart and soul into these pages! I loved the thorough steps of her FREEDOM Framework process. Any woman needing to get out of their marriage, but who doesnt know what to do or expect, can learn from this book. One passage from the book that really hit home was: You dont need a spouse to make you feel complete. A spouse, or any relationship for that matter, should be like an accessoryyoure here to benefit each other. Amen, sister!

Dawn Radtke

Seven Careful Steps to
Leaving Your Emotionally
Abusive Husband

J ODI S CHUELKE

NEW YORK

NASHVILLE MELBOURNE VANCOUVER

I Just Want Out

Seven Careful Steps to Leaving Your Emotionally Abusive Husband

2017 J ODI S CHUELKE

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