Every Young Adults
Breakup Survival Guide
Tips, Tricks & Expert Advice for Recovering
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Every Young Adults Breakup Survival Guide: Tips, Tricks & Expert Advice for Recovering
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Title: Every young adults breakup survival guide : tips, tricks & expert
advice for recovering / by Atlantic Publishing Group, Inc.
Other titles: Breakup survival guide
Description: Ocala, Florida : Atlantic Publishing Group, Inc., 2015. |
Audience: Grade 9 to 12. | Includes bibliographical references and index.
Identifiers: LCCN 2015035611| ISBN 9781601389855 (alk. paper) | ISBN
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Quick Reference: How to Have a Healthy Breakup
E ven if breaking up is the right thing to do, it is not easy. Here are some tips that can help you get through your breakup, no matter what side you are on:
- You can cry. Even if you think of yourself as tough, the emotional pain you are going through can bring anyone to tears. You might also want to call or text a friend or family member to offer you a literal shoulder on which to cry. You need to accept that it is fine to feel bad about the end of your relationship.
- Find new things to do. Now is the time to take the art class you have been thinking about or try to make your way through all of the Harry Potter movies. Maybe you can enroll in a taekwondo class or join a hockey team. Being depressed makes you want to sit around and mope, but resist the urge. The more you are active, the more things you will find to fill the emotional hole your ex left.
- Talk to other people. Try not to wear out your friends and family, but do not keep your feelings to yourself. Talk to other people and get those feelings off your chest. However, you will want to watch what you say, especially if you have mutual friends. You can talk about how you feel the relationship was not working, but do not badmouth your ex. Be as honest as possible. Keep your opinions and drama off Facebook, Twitter, Vine, etc.