Nicolas King - Networking: Work Your Contacts to Supercharge Your Career

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The Internet is a great resource for anyone trying to network However, there are both good and bad sources of information online and the web is a constantly changing phenomenon. Be circumspect and bear in mind that websites change, so if you cant find the recommended link, do a search to find its new home.

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