1. Embrace Your True Identity
2. Recovery
3. What Is Gods Will for My Life?
4. Questions to Ask When Navigating a Gray Area
5. Undulation
6. Your Love God Language
7. A Day of Rest
8. Let Your GPS Guide You
9. Compounding Interest
10. Freedom from or Freedom For?
11. Heres a Tip
12. Getting Away with It
13. The Power of Habits
14. A Day of Rest
15. The Lonely Generation
16. Your Top Five
17. Cant We All Just Get Along?
18. Unload the Weight
20. Time to Commit
21. A Day of Rest
22. Clearness Committee
23. Growing Young
24. I Choose Contentment
25. Before You Face Your Giant
26. Revolutionary Humility
27. Secret Agent
28. A Day of Rest
29. Worried for No Reason
30. The Antidote for Anxiety
31. The Warning Signal of Anger
32. If Its Not Good, Gods Not Done
33. Thats Not a Donut, Its Grace
34. Guard Your Heart
35. A Day of Rest
36. Power Along the Way
37. The Greatest Thing Youll Ever Do
38. The Power of Being Faithful
39. To Fast or Not to Fast?
40. Live for Eternity
41. Get in the Wheelbarrow
42. A Day of Rest
Introduction
As I was working on my book Welcome to Adulting , I hit a difficult spot. The book took off, which was cool, but I never anticipated it being so successful. Suddenly I found myself being invited to speak at more conferences and churches. At the same time my job responsibilities were changing, and I lost a valued coworker, which put even more responsibility on me. A loved one got sick while our kids activities cranked up. It was all too much and, for the first time in my life, I began experiencing anxiety.
The good news is that there is a lot of help out there for someone who is struggling. The bad news is that I didnt know what help to choose. The options were overwhelming, and I almost felt like that increased my burden.
Simplicity
Finally, I found what worked for me. Simplicity . Every morning I focused on just one idea. I contemplated that idea, I meditated on it, and I looked to apply it that day. That simple focus helped me to survive that day. Soon I was out of the woods, no longer just hoping to survive but seeking to thrive in the abundant life Jesus offers his followers.
My prayer is that this book can provide the same help for you. Youll find the format is similar to what I needed. There is one short, focused reading per day for the next six weeks. Each day youll also find a Bible passage to read, a question, an application, and a prayer. I hope this helps you put one foot in front of the other, allowing you to walk a path of faithfulness in the uncharted territory of adulting.
Real-Life Scenarios
Have you seen the survival guide for worst-case scenarios? It teaches you how to survive an anaconda attack and an avalanche. The chapters are interesting and humorous, but they present circumstances the average young adult will never find themselves in.
The book you hold in your hands (or are looking at on your electronic device) is filled with situations you will find yourself in. For each, you will find biblical advice based on a biblical worldview.
Pattern Recognition
For over a decade, I had the privilege of being the pastor of the largest young adult gathering in America. Ive been able to observe the lives of tens of thousands of young adults. Watching that many people, I started to recognize patterns. I saw some choices that led to devastation and others that led people to move successfully into young adulthood.
I want to help you make wise decisions that honor God and put you on a path of not just surviving but thriving. My goal is that the truth of Proverbs 16:3 will become a reality in your life. Commit to the L ORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.
Chapter
Embrace Your True Identity
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 2 Corinthians 5:17
W hen I was a kid, I lived on a farm. One day, my dad asked me to get him the fence stretcher.
The fence stretcher? I asked.
My dad explained exactly where I would find it in the garage. I ran to the spot and looked, but no fence stretcher. I went back and told my father he was wrong. I explained, The only thing there is my toy machine gun.
My father gave me a confused look and started walking toward the garage, where he picked up... my toy machine gun. He showed it to me. This is a fence stretcher.
I gave my father a confused look. I wanted to explain to him that, no, what he was holding was the make-pretend machine gun that I had used countless times to shoot make-pretend bad guys. But I didnt. I decided my father was wiser than me and was probably right.
Me
When I was a kid, I was thought of as a future farmer.
In my teens, as I got my ears pierced and got a tattoo, I became a rebellious future farmer.
In college, I became a partier.
After college, I started to pursue money and respect and I became successful.
The whole time, I didnt have much interest in God. I would show up at church (Im from Texas, where nearly everyone shows up at church), but I didnt have much to do with God. It was easy. Why would a rebellious, partying, successful guy want to have anything to do with God? And, I thought, why would God want to have anything to do with a rebellious, partying, successful guy?