Gay Hendricks - Attracting Genuine Love: A Step-by-Step Program to Bring a Loving and Desirable Partner into Your Life

For most of us, living without true love is not an option. What that true love looks like is ultimately up to us, but anyone can create a close, loving relationship, no matter what their past history or current situation is, if they understand certain key principles and learn a few skills. In fact, most people in the course of their day-to-day lives meet more than enough potential relationship candidates. The fact that they do not find that genuinely loving relationship indicates that there is another problem. Some blame it on the busy and fragmented lives they lead. Others point the finger at television, sports, and the image-obsessed institutions of society such as fashion and advertising. The wiser ones have grown weary of finger-pointing and know that the real problem resides within.

Whether you are single, divorced, or even currently in an intimate relationship, you are probably tired of making the same relationship mistakes over and over again. Kathlyn and I feel a great deal of empathy for anyone in this situation, because we have been there ourselves. Before we found each other, we had begun to sink into that same kind of despair. We were afraid we would never attract the kind of love we really wanted. Until we discovered the tools and insights you will learn in this book, we would get out of one painful entanglement only to find ourselves bogged down in a similar version of it a few days later.

Fortunately we found a way to make the changes necessary to move from the intense pain of unconscious relationships to twenty-nine years of the most blissful and creative relationship we could have imagined. In this program, we will show you exactly how to make those inner shifts yourself so that you can draw genuine, lasting love into your life. Kathlyn and I use everything you will learn in this book in our own relationship, and although we have been together for a long time now, every year has been richer and better than the one before because of what you will learn here.

What we discovered, in our own lives and through research with thousands of others, is that there are several principles and techniques that people must learn before they can create the kind of relationship that they truly desire. In fact, without realizing it at the time, Kathlyn and I used the very same principles to make important shifts in how we related to ourselves and others that became the foundation on which we created our own relationship. We had to learn those principles the hard way, by making a lot of relationship mistakes in our twenties and early thirties. Once we figured out these principles and techniques, it only took a month to meet each other. That was more than thirty years ago, and since then we have had the pleasure of teaching these skills to more than twenty thousand people around the world. It has been very satisfying, because almost every day of our lives we get letters and emails from people who have mastered these skills and gone out and created a brand-new conscious relationshipone that satisfies their deepest desires for genuine love.

After all is said and done, it is really genuine love that makes all the difference in the quality of our lives. Without genuine love, human beings feel constant longing. In Attracting Genuine Love, we have created a program that gives very specific answers to the question, How can I attract genuine love into my life? It is a program that has been carefully refined in working with thousands of people over the past decade. Our program includes eight guided practices on the referred audio link that are the most powerful techniques we have found for creating the kind of real change in your life that will erase even a lifetime of unsatisfying relationships. If you follow these steps, you will discover what has been holding you back from getting the kind of love you really want and need. You will know exactly how to bring genuine love into your lifeand how to keep it.