CUNNILINGUS
TECHNIQUES
A Guide to Becoming a Muff Diving Champion
Becky Moore
Copyright 2014 by Becky Moore.
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Important Note
The material in this book is for educational purposes and is intended to provide helpful guidance concerning human sexuality. Neither the author nor the publisher is engaged in rendering medical, psychological, or any other professional service. If you have questions concerning the application of the material and advice described in this book and its affect on your health and Well-being, it is your responsibility to consult a qualified professional first.
Any use of the techniques used in this book is at your own risk. The authors and publishers cannot be held responsible for any error, omission, professional disagreement, or outdated material in this book. The authors and publishers are not liable for any upsetting reaction, damage, injury, infection, fatal disease, or other adverse outcome as a result of applying the information or engaging in any activities suggested in this book.
This book was created for adults age 21 years or older only.
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Introduction
C unnilingus, as Im sure you know, can be a fun, exciting, and pleasurable experience for both men and women. Some study the art as a hobby, others would rather avoid it all together. But whether you like it or not, cunnilingus should be something you engage in on a regular basis. I believe that every sexual encounter must satisfy everyone who takes part in it, and unfortunately many women never experience an orgasm during penetration, which leaves a big gap for many who expect to be as satisfied as their partner.
Some women enjoy it more than others, and for some, cunnilingus can drive them over the top to a mind-blowing orgasm. For others, it could be a source of anxiety for a variety of reasons, and they may not enjoy it as much. But whatever your case might be, trying to improve your cunnilingus skills and becoming a muff-diving champion will greatly affect the quality of your love life and the level of sexual happiness and satisfaction of whomever it is youre sleeping with. So, whether this is your first introduction to cunnilingus or you have been doing it for years, we think youll find great value in this book and hope you share the message and get other cunnilingus-enthusiasts to get this book for their loved ones.
Most men are eager to be good lovers and are willing to work hard to make their woman happy. Most develop their techniques by experience; the ones who have no experience develop their techniques through porn, which basically means that they have no technique at all. Cunnilingus in porn makes life a little harder for those who count on it to improve their performance. The camera can only show so much and men tend to forget that the woman is acting. So even if her co-star is terrible and does all the wrong things, shell still reach a full-body, head-to-toe (fake) orgasm on camera.
So, before we dive into the specifics of oral techniques, weve decided to include this section for the men who have yet to gain the experience that years of cunnilingus can provide. Here we will review some of the things you need to keep in mind before you actually practice any of the tips, tricks, or techniques mentioned in this book.
The Foundation
1) Shave! Regardless of how appealing you think your beard is, you need to keep it away from her sensitive genitals. You might be unaware of it, so let me be the first to say it - beards hurt, they dont help! They can also cause burns for those of us who have sensitive skin which probably wont give you any points for performance or effort. Before you dive in, make sure your skin is shaved well.
2) Stay focused: Nothing is a bigger turn off than seeing your eyes wander towards the TV or worst, your phone (Yes, I wont name names but some people do that). And while maintaining eye contact is great from time to time, keeping your eye on the prize itself is even better. If you dont make eye contact, your partner wont feel obligated to make eye contact with you, which will leave her more time to focus on her orgasm instead of thinking about you. So stay focused.
3) Try Harder: Many men act as if cunnilingus is a form of repayment for a (blow) job well done by their partner. They forget the ultimate purpose of the act itself and will either quit before they achieved their goal or act like theyre doing her a favor, or both. Remember that she has a certain expectation, just like you did. Lovemaking is mutual, and you need to work as hard giving head as she does. You may not realize this, but blowjobs are a strain on her neck and jaw, but she does it anyway - so be a team player, try harder.
4) Stay consistent: How would you feel if a woman gave you a blow job, and then right when she hit the right spot, she changes her technique and does something that doesnt cause as much pleasure or can even be construed as annoying. Not so hot, is it? Well, consistency is the name of the game when your woman loves something youre doing right. So, keep doing it, dont change it. Dont try to shove a finger in there and pretend like you know what youre doing. Just keep moving at the same pace and if you happen to push a button she likes, push it again and again and again until she either gets off or shows you that shes not into it anymore. Remember - the buildup is what brings on the orgasm. Start slow and build up. The steadiness of the pace and consistency without switching techniques for a certain period of time will do the trick.
5) State of Mind: Needless to say, a grouchy approach to cunnilingus is something you should never indulge in. Instead, smiling, giving a sensual look, kissing her in the right places, and overall playfulness plays a big role in the mood you set for yourself and for her. Eating pussy with gusto, thrill, and excitement will be a very good start which will only increase your desire for each other. Telling her she tastes good, and making your best effort to be focused on her pleasure will put you both in the right state of mind. Remember, many women are self-conscious about oral sex and therefore, seeing you do it with a certain level of excitement and enthusiasm will help them get rid of that mental blockage and become truly free to enjoy your performance.
6) Take your Time: Men get aroused quickly and sometimes come even quicker. For most, the sense of urgency is still present and they feel as if they need to move a little faster. Patience is a virtue, especially when cunnilingus is involved. When you take your time and when youre truly patient, you tend to give a better performance. Your whole energy becomes focused on giving pleasure instead of receiving it. I think some men are worried that they may get too aroused and get to the point of no return too quickly if they take their time and experience stimulation for a long period of time. The interesting fact is that if you practice long enough you can bring her to orgasm faster, but still - the goal is not to get there, but rather to enjoy the experience itself. Getting there is the destination, and the real pleasure is in the practice itself, not just in the final destination.