200 Text Messages Your EX Would Love to Receive
How to Get Your Ex Back by Sending Text Messages
By A. Robbins
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Introduction
I want to thank you and congratulate you for downloading the book, 200 text Messages Your Ex Would Love to Receive . This book contains proven strategies and text messages that you can use to get your ex back.
I hope you enjoy it!
Table of Contents
Chapter 1
The Deadly Sins
Text that You Should Not Send to Your Ex
Consider text messaging as your second chance to win back the spot as a lover in your exs life. If you really want to have him or her back, you would do everything not to waste this chance. So, be careful in what you text your ex. Think of text messaging as a vessel to let your relationship sail again. Your relationship had already sunk, you would probably not want to see it go deeper under the ocean floor. Therefore, avoid these deadly mistakes that can guarantee of rejection (Seiter, 2014).
Rule #1: Do not send your ex a pointless text
Pointless messages are those that may seem awkward and difficult to give a decent response to. Like:
Hey Yo! Wazzup? I miss you . Heyyyaaaaa! Kindle cannot express smiley face but the text is a smiley face image. ???? asdfghjkalsdssjkhfsk
Rule #2: Do not send your ex a drunk text or even a pretentious drunk text
It may sound sweet to know that you are thinking of him or her despite being alcohol-induced, but it is not cute. It does not only show how poorly you text but it also shows your ex how messed up you are and that would only repel him or her from wanting to have you back. Additionally, do not even try to fake a drunken text, most especially when your ex-partner knows your iPhones autocorrect sticks to do its job.
HGeey.,., Wasndaa hiokk uop??? I ;lobve yytuo CooomE HewrTee NiCew AsSSs, BAbbeeee Hahahsaj asshjkhoel
Moreover, it would quite be impossible to drunken text when your smartphones autocorrect continuously checks your message. Pretending to drunk text would even take a lot of effort with this new advancement in technology.
Rule #3: Do not call and text all the time
You can convince yourself these messages and calls are just casual ways of communication. But flooding of messages is a red alarm for desperation. Your messages may only be a product of your raging emotions. Allow yourself to cool down first for a month or so before you ready yourself to engage in a conversation again with your ex.
Hey! Heyyyyy!!! Are you mad at me??? Why wont you reply? Hello??? Is anybody there?? Hi?
Rule #4: Do not mention your feelings or intent of wanting to get back together
Not only will these kinds of messages prevent you from winning your ex-lover back but these will be etched on his or her mind as well. Your ex may always remember you as the desperate ex. Maybe you just want to gain his or her love back but to be openly vulnerable is not the key, composure is. So, avoid messages like:
I miss you so much... I cant live without you Im still in love with you I will never get over you I am so miserable without you If you do not come back to me, you will never get to see me again! I will kill myself if we dont get back together! I cant imagine the rest of my life without you Dont you understand? I need you here with me Im begging you please come back to me.
Rule #5: Do not start to pick a fight
Never start to argue with your ex over text. Instead of drawing him or her closer, you are only giving an affirmation that your break-up was probably the best thing to do. He or she may have had his or her lapses but bringing the issues up over text messaging will not help solve the problems, instead, it would only worsen the situation. Do not send messages like:
If only you have tried your best to fight for me, we would probably still be together right now! Just so you know, you are a very sloppy kisser. I wish you never became part of my life. Its your fault our relationship ended. If only you werent so insensitive, we would probably still be together right now! Fuck you! You asshole!!! Youre easy. Slut. You are a motherfucking liar. I hope you dont breed! Youre such a filthy scum!
Chapter 2
The Knock on the Door
First Step to Coming Home
When you create a text to send to your ex, make sure that the message will not be the ultimate end of whatever is left of your relationship. Your text message must not contain blatant expressions of your feelings, no matter how miserable you have been. Your goal here is to associate your messages with a positive affect and not something that would make your ex want to throw his or her phone away. There are different texting strategies that you could use in order to get your ex back. You know your ex well so you can make use of the tactics that you think will most likely be effective on them.
Perhaps your ex have decided to close his or her doors on you already, you can use the Knock on the Door texts to re-open the relationship and re-establish rapport. The connection must not be rooted on deep and sensual ways. This is not for begging, booty calling, and blackmailing. You do not use this tactic to cause your ex distress; instead, use this strategy to create a positive image of yourself in your exs mind. If you do so, there will be higher possibilities of your ex responding to your text message and the doors will gently be opened again. This is the very first text that you send him or her when you have not communicated for a month or so, so it is quite a big deal to this right. Knock on the Door messages are designed in a way that would let your ex know that you he or she is in your mind and that you do not have negative feelings towards him or her. Here are a few instances in which you can base your messages on:
I was flipping through the channels on TV and I saw [his or her favourite sports team]. The game is pretty intense. Im quite sure you must be so stoked right now. Hope you are doing great! I just stumbled upon an old photo of us taken at [name of place or occasion]. This can always make me smile. Hope things are going great for you! I just passed by [place we used to have dates at] and I remembered you. Hope you are okay! I remember its your [family member you have met] birthday. Send my greetings. Hope [he or she] is doing great! Hope youre doing great, as well! I just had [breakfast/lunch/dinner] at this [name of restaurant]. They have really delicious [name of food]. I remember how much you like [name of food]. If you want you can visit this place some other time. Hope you are doing fine! I just finished [name of movie/TV series]. I realized how great the plot twist are. Have a great day! Was that you that I saw in [name of place]? You looked amazing! Hey there! Sorry to bug you right now but I just want to ask, do you remember the name of the mechanic you recommended to me once? My car is dying! Hi! I heard [name of your favourite artist/band] is going to have a gig tonight at [name of venue]. Just thought you would want to know. I remember how much you liked them. Hope all is well! I just stumbled upon a copy of [exs favourite book] and I remembered you. Hope things are doing great for you! I just watched the second part of the [name of the film]. I remember I spilled my drinks and food on your shirt then but you were still calm and nice about it. Well, hope you are doing great! I just heard the song we slow danced to one time during [name of event] and I remembered you. Hope you are doing fine! Hey! I just finished the [name of book series] you told me to read. Thanks for not spoiling the ending for me. I enjoyed it so much. Have a great day! Hello! I just passed by this old restaurant we used to have dinner at. It looks like they are having a promo of your favourite dish. I just remembered you. Hope you are doing great! I just did a general cleaning and I found a copy of the film we watched together for the first time and I remembered you. It has been a while. I wish you all the good luck!
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