SPIRIT MESSAGES
How to Contact Your Loved Ones
By
The Abbotts
A Beacon of Light Book
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Copyright 2015, The Abbotts
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Table of Contents
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Introduction
Dear Friend,
We have all experienced the heartache of losinga loved one to death and while we know that they have gone on, to abetter place of love and are free from pain, we do miss theirphysical presence and would like to somehow, keep the connectionbetween them and us alive.
As clairvoyants and mediums for over thirtyyears, we have discovered ways of making spiritual contact withthese dear friends, loved partners and family members and foundways of easing the grief that their leaving causes.
This is what this book is all about, teachingyou, in easy to understand and develop methods of making safe,loving contact with your deceased loved ones and communicating withthem in a caring, forgiving and understandable manner.
We hope that you will read this book with anopen heart and open mind and that you find the answers to thequestions that you are seeking. We shall add comments from thehigher Ascended Masters (such as Mother Mary, Jesus, Buddha etc.)who help us in all our work and add stories from our own clients(names changed) to show you how others cope with losing loved onesand overcoming their grief.
Blessing to you,
Love and Light,
The Abbotts
Tony Abbott and Robyn Abbott
Eden Park, 2015
Chapter One
Why We Grieve
It is natural that when someone we deeply careabout dies that we grieve for losing him or her. They have been amajor part of our lives and then suddenly they are gone. We areleft bereft and feeling lonely, confused and vulnerable.
Many of us feel that we are in a state of shock.Our minds are muddled and our bodies ache with pain. Yet peopleexpect us to be brave and carry on with funeral arrangements,daily work and somehow, get on with life after the initial impact.But many men and women find this extremely difficult to do and theyhold on to their grief and pain, years after their loved one hasgone.
It doesnt seem to matter if the loved one was amother, father, lover, son or daughter or a dear friend, we stillmiss their presence and feel abandoned and lonely without them.Birthdays, anniversaries, religious holidays and Mothers day orFathers day seem to accentuate the loss and many people feel thattheir current life has little meaning.
Some people in their confused loneliness thinkof suicide and joining their loved one, wherever they have gone.The absence of communication with the person that they loved sodearly makes them feel morbid and apathetic to life. They worrythat their precious child, partner or friend is sad and lonelywithout them or has somehow, ceased to be.
Nothing could be further from the truth, butuntil you truly know, how do you cope with missing them? Somepeople give into their grief and have emotional breakdowns orrefuse to look after themselves or turn away from well-meaningfriends and family members who try in vain, to cheer them up andthey often they carry their sorrow throughout their entirelives.
But what if you could communicate with yourloved one? Speak to them and hear their voice again? Feel theirlove and experience their presence, again? Well, we have asclairvoyants and mediums spoken, seen and felt the energies ofthousands of spirits who once lived on Earth and we believe with alittle study, you can learn to do the same and contact your lovedones, again!
By contacting your loved ones, you will findmeaning in their deaths, feel elated by contact with them, losemuch of your grief and become ready, to move on to a new chapter ofyour life. Life will be more understandable and have meaning,again.
Remember, as you are working to see, feel andcommunicate with your loved one, once again; they are also workinghard to make contact with you. This is a two-way experience.
They want you to be happy once again. Your lovedone wants you to make contact with them and release your deep griefand find life exciting and wondrous, once more. They may have goneto another dimension, but they can still hear and see us and wantwhat is best for our souls development. They still love us andcare for us, but they dont want you to live with the dead andbecome obsessed with them, when you have so much living, to do!
Many people find that they leave stringsunresolved with loved ones who have died before they were able tosort out disagreements or disputes. You may be wanting forgivenessfrom a person who you emotionally, mentally or physically hurt orthey may owe you an apology for some harm that they did to you.Unresolved issues of forgiveness can haunt a person through lifeand death.
By making contact with a loved one, you canresolve your differences, ask for forgiveness or forgive theperson. This will give you a greater feeling of inner peace andcomfort.
One man, Jeff had an ill mother in England andhe flew back several times in three months, from Australia to seeher. Each time she was expected to die, but bravely hung on, untilhe arrived. Finally, as he was in mid-air returning home, on hislast visit she died. Jeff felt very guilty that he had not beenwith his mother when she died and wanted to say sorry to her.
We arranged a mediumship session, for him but tohis surprise, she thanked him - for not being there! She had hungon to see him each time, prolonging her own pain and it was notuntil he was far enough away, that she thought that she couldfinally let go! He had done her a good turn, not a bad one!
We have encountered this same situation manytimes, when a spirit wont let go of a body when a loved one isnear, while others go easily to Heaven without a qualm, while theirloved ones are nearby.
We shall explore this issue of forgiveness,later in the book. But be comforted that anything done on Earth canbe forgiven in Heaven. So while your guilt, need for forgiveness,pain and suffering may be very raw at the moment, you can lessenall these negative feelings and find absolution when you makecontact with your loved one.
Understanding why we live, die and where we go,after death is a huge subject, but let us now examine some of themore important aspects, before we make spirit contact with yourloved ones. Knowledge is power!