Introduction
This book is unlike any other sex guide. It treats sex as ascience, hence the name The Science of Sex. As with any type of science, thescience of sex has rules. Simple rules that can be learned and understood. Andused in real life.
When you learn these rules, you will know what to do withwomen in any situation. Even when they resist and say no to you. Follow therules and everything will work out as you want them to.
This book will NOT teach you hundreds of things to do withwomen in bed. It will teach you the ONE right thing to do. You dont need tolearn hundreds of different things to do with women, because when you know therules of sex, you dont have to. Youll instantly know the right thing to do,without even thinking about it.
Sciences such as mathematics and physics are built on only afew simple rules, but these simple rules explain everything in the universe.The science of sex works the same way. Learn the rules, and you can do ANYTHINGwith women.
This book has three goals:
Goal 1:
Teach you how female arousal works, so you always knowhow to turn women on. (This is part 1 of this book)
Goal 2:
Teach you the natural sexual interaction between men andwomen. This interaction is a 5 step process, and its the same every time youwant to do something sexual with a woman. Learn this 5 step process, and youllalways know what to do with women. (This is part 2 of this book)
Goal 3:
Teach you how to make women do anything in bed. Or to bemore precise, teach you to increase your girls arousal, so shell happily goalong with everything you want to do in bed. (This is part 3 of this book)
The Science of Sex focuses on the sexual interaction in thebedroom. But the rules can be used in any sexual interaction with women, suchas during pick-up, on a date, during foreplay, or in a relationship as a whole.
The techniques in this book work with all heterosexualwomen. For practical reasons, your girl is the term used to represent women. Dependingon your lifestyle, your girl can be substituted with your girlfriend, yourwife, your fuck buddy, your one-night stand or your prostitute.
In other words, the type of relationship with a woman isntimportant. The rules of sex will always work. Or else, it wouldnt be science,would it
Chapter 1
Focusing on Arousal
Arousal is the most important factor in the bedroom. Whenyou want your girl to do something in bed, its her arousal level thatdetermines whether shes going along with it.
Its not about how much she likes you, or how nice you are.Its not about love, or any other feeling. And its not a rational decisionyour girls making. When it comes to sex, arousal is the determining factor.And therefore, your focus should be on arousal.
Women have few hard limits when it comes to sex. They saythey have limits, but these limits go out the window, one by one, when you turnthem on. Most women will do anything in bed, as long as you make them hornyenough.
You need to take control of your girls arousal. She doesntget horny by herself, and arousal isnt a magical thing that just happens. You,and you alone, are responsible for turning your girl on, and raising her arousallevel high enough, so she will go along with whatever you want to do in bed.
This is not difficult to do. You only have to learn howwomen get turned on, and how the natural male-female interaction works.
Three common mistakes
Mistake 1: Thinking that your girl makes rationaldecisions in bed
Sex is all about feelings. And arousal is the main feelingin bed. Your girl will go along with anything, as long as shes horny enough.
Mistake 2: Forget to turn your girl on beforehaving sex
Your girl will only have sex when shes aroused. Sex isimpossible without arousal, so your focus should be on arousal even beforehaving sex.
Mistake 3: Waiting for your girl to get in the mood
Your girl is never in the mood for sex, because womendont go around being horny. Its your job, as a man, to get your girl in themood.
Chapter 2
How Women Get Aroused
Women get aroused differently than men. In fact, the way menand women get turned on is the complete opposite of each other. Therefore, arousalis the defining factor that separates men and women.
This makes for a perfect match. And its why men and womenwant each other. The reason your girl chose you is because you have qualities sheslacking. And the reason you chose your girl is because she has qualities yourelacking.
These qualities are called masculinity and femininity. Menare sexually attracted to femininity, while women are sexually attracted tomasculinity.
When you want to turn your girl on, you have to use yourmasculine qualities. If you use your feminine qualities in a sexual interaction,it will always be a turn off. There are no exceptions to this. Only yourmasculinity can turn your girl on.
(You will learn how to use your masculinity in the nextchapter. This is a practical book, and youll learn how to be masculine in thebedroom.)
However, theres another way men and women get turned on.And that is by becoming more of what they already are. Men get turned on when becomingmore masculine, and women get turned on when becoming more feminine.
When you become more masculine, by for instance feelingassertive or strong, youll feel arousal as well. And when your girl becomesmore feminine, by for instance feeling beautiful or sexy, shell also feel arousal.
(The two ways for women to get aroused will be explained inchapters 3 and 4.)
When you know how you can make yourself more masculine, andyour girl more feminine, then there are no limits for how much you can turnyour girl on. And this means, in turn, that there are no limits for what yourgirl is willing to do in bed.
Three common mistakes
Mistake 4: Thinking that your girl is turned on the sameway you are turned on
Women choose men because theyre men. Your masculinequalities turn your girl on. Your feminine qualities, such as your looks, haveno effect on female arousal.
Mistake 5: Believing that men and women are equal
Equal rights and opportunities dont mean that men and womenare the same. Men and women will always be different from each other. And thedifference is that men are sexually attracted to feminine qualities, whilewomen are sexually attracted to masculine qualities.
Mistake 6: Thinking that arousal is a choice
Arousal is a feeling. And all feelings are triggered bycertain stimuli. The stimuli for female arousal are masculine qualities andbehaviors. They turn your girl on whether she wants to or not. She has nochoice. Its an inborn automatic response.
Chapter 3
Female Arousal and Masculinity
How women can be turned on by men is probably the biggestmystery when it comes to seduction and sex.
Most men are clueless. Out of frustration they tryeverything, including being super nice, giving compliments, buying gifts,helping out, looking cool (or trying to), using cologne, wearing an expensivewatch, going to the gym, and so on.
The problem is that all of these examples are femininebehaviors. Theres nothing wrong with them, except they dont affect femalearousal. Only masculine behaviors turn women on.