Donaghue - Rebel love: break the rules, destroy toxic habits, and have the best sex of your life

This book would not have been possible without the people who have lifted me up, inspired and transformed me, and at times just sat with me when I thought I couldnt push forward. Its often the more subtle support that creates the needed foundation to do something like write a book.

To all the rebels and radicals who live bravely outside the box, always loudly pushing forward when the world says to conform and to be silent and small: you are all my heroes.

Thanks to Conner Habib, one of the smartest human beings I know: your brilliance and deep care and thoughtfulness inspire me, but also model for me what truth and full authenticity would look like were I to ever fully get there. You live your life so honestly, and that continues to make me feel less alone in all this. Your mere presence transforms me. More thanks than I could express.

Deep thanks to Ron Robbins, for doing the emotional labor of both making me laugh when needed and calling me out when I think I know it all. Your love and friendship is definitely part of the bedrock for the creation of this book. You have far more creativity and power than you realize, and Im thankful you share that with me.

I am grateful to Tim Lewis, my friend and also a brilliant writer. You are always a safe, smart, and thoughtful mind to turn to when Im struggling or needing inspiration. Thanks for continuing to fight the battle alongside me and never tiring. You carry a big heart and remind me to always show up with mine.

I have to thank Wesley Woods, always a superstar to me, who loved me even when I couldnt love myself. Its been a journey of growth and pain, but so full of beauty, too. Thanks for loving all of me, especially my less lovable and complicated parts. We took on the world together, and we continue to do so now in our own ways. Always in my heart.

Thanks to my work wife, Amber Rose, one of the strongest women I know, who moves through the world with power and so much compassion. You have taught me how to build a career that I can be proud of with strength while also using so much heart.

I thank my mom and brothers: in a world where so many lack a tight family unit of support, Im blessed to have you three. Though geographically far away, you are all always close when I need you. Mom, your presence and continued love of this punchy radical keeps me feeling held in love and motivation. Thanks for always understanding and pushing me forward. Jay, the other most intelligent person I know, thanks for stepping up and stepping in; otherwise we would all drift. You are an anchor, and so loved for it. You have always loved me, all of me. Tim, you colorful and wild radical. You also show me what truth and authenticity look like. The world demands conformity, and you throw up the finger and live your truth. So much love to you.

To have that one person who is always so excited to hear everything that is happening in your life is one of the greatest gifts. My dad is that gift, and I still think to call him each time something exciting happens for me. Looking back now, I can see how his full love and support for everything I did not only saved me but also empowered me. I know you are still beside me and cheering me on. Miss you.

Harriet Duncan, my great friend and publicist extraordinaire, thanks for always having my back, whether its with love or career, for being my date to events, and for always believing in me.

Thanks to my cowriter, Laura Barcella. Your wit, humor, and artistry shaped my ramblings into an actual readable book. Working with you has been a seamless gift. Im grateful that you dived into my mind, work, and politics with deep respect and helped me make something that I hope can help heal the world a bit. Im so thankful to have had you with me on this journey.

To my agent, Brandi Bowles, deep thanks for taking me on. The bumpy road of trying to get this book together ended as soon as you entered the process. You know your stuff, and you delivered. This wouldnt have been possible without you. Its a gift to be able to let go and trust that those on your side truly are. I look forward to more.

Its fair to say that a lot of the credit for getting this book published belongs to Tina Dunca. Thank you for helping this book land in Brandis hands and for always showing up with all you have to help me. Im moved by your interest and continued support of my work.

Thanks to Jordana Tusman and Running Press for taking me and my work on and for seeing the value in my mission. To find a home for your book where you feel fully accepted and celebrated is a huge blessing. I love what we have developed together and am grateful for your support in getting it out there.