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When you are making love for the first number of times, you may feel awkward, wondering what positions you should try or what the other person may prefer. You may feel pressure to perform or to please your partner better than theyve ever been satisfied before. All of these thoughts are normal, but it is rare that a person will be an expert the first time or even the first ten times they do something new.

The great thing about sex, though, is that it is a natural act for humans to engage in, which means there will be some amount of innate knowledge you will have about how to conduct yourself in a sexual encounter. Keeping that in mind, you will need to be able to trust yourself and your body in order to make the most of your first several sexual experiences.

Things to Know for Your First Time

There are some things you must be aware of when it comes time for your first sexual encounter. Following the point that was just made above, the first thing to know is to trust yourself! At the most basic level, humans are animals. Just like any other animal, we are meant to have sex. This means that sex comes wired into our DNA and that we all have some knowledge of how to conduct ourselves during sexual intercourse.

This is because our body is able to take over and follow its pleasure, its arousal and its instincts. While you dont want to act like a complete animal in bed (unless you and your partner are into it), this is simply useful to keep in mind so you can keep your nerves at bay. If you let your mind take control, it will get in the way of and inhibit this natural instinct that you came built with.

This leads us to the next things to know, which is that relaxation and being at ease will make the encounter much more enjoyable for both of you. If you are able to relax and enjoy the experience, your body will flow much smoother, and pleasure will come much easier to both you and your partner.

The next thing to note is the importance of foreplay. In case you are unsure, foreplay is any and all of the sexual activities that come before the actual act of sexual intercourse. This can include making out and groping, a hand-job or fingering, as well as oral sex or anything else you engage in before penetration occurs. This part of sex is just as important as the rest of sex because this is when you become aroused and let your arousal build before beginning penetration. It is during this time that you can explore each others bodies and figure out where the other person likes to be touched the most.

Communication is the final thing to note for the first time. It may seem like there is an expectation to pretend like you know exactly what you are doing and that you have done it a thousand times before, but this is untrue. No matter who your partner is, they will be happy that you communicated and made sure they were comfortable all along the way instead of pretending like you knew exactly what they wanted. Being able to communicate in bed is more impressive than not saying anything and guessing the entire time.

Best Positions for Your First Time

We will now look at the best sex positions for your first time. With so many possible sex positions to try, it can be overwhelming trying to decide which ones to try first. In this section, I will explain and describe the best positions for you to use during your first several sexual encounters. Keep in mind as well, that many people continue to have sex in these positions well after their first time, simply because they find the most pleasure from these positions. These are by no means reserved for your first couple of sexual encounters, especially if you thoroughly enjoy them.

Missionary

The Missionary position is that classic position you have likely heard of a thousand times. It can sometimes be referred to as the basic or the starter position. It gets a bad reputation as the most vanilla of all positions. The missionary position, however, can actually be very, very hot, and quite intense if you make it so! Here, I will explain how to perform this position and how it can give you and your partner a world of pleasure.

To start, we are going to discuss what the Missionary Position looks like. This position is achieved when the woman lies down on her back on the bed. Then, the man lies on top of her, his face in front of hers. The man lies with his legs between the womans, and he inserts his penis into her from the front. Lying on top of the woman, and holding his weight up with his arms, he controls the movement in and out with his hips.