Is He Cheating?
Crack the Cheat Code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats , and what you need to do next .
By Lisa Daily
www.lisadaily.com
Copyright 2012 Lisa Daily
All rights reserved.
Disclaimer:
Some of the techniques and/or equipment may not be legal in all states, countries, and jurisdictions. While it is generally legal to search or record data from any property owned or jointly owned by you, such as computers, residences, or automobiles; before you proceed with using any of the methods or equipment detailed in this book, you should obtain qualified legal guidance on relevant laws in your area. The information entailed in this book is provided as is without warranty of any kind. The entire risk as to the results and the performance of the information included in this book is assumed by the user . In no event shall Lisa Daily or SKH Publishing be liable for any consequential, incidental, direct or indirect damages suffered in the course of using the information in this book. The information in this book is intended as an informative guide only. Although the author and publisher have made every effort to ensure that the information in this book was correct at press time, the author and publisher do not assume and hereby disclaim any liability to any party for any loss, damage, or disruption caused by errors or omissions, whether such errors or omissions result from negligence, accident, or any other cause.
Table of Contents
: Hed never do that. Would he?
: What is the Cheat Code ?
: The types of men most likely to cheat
: Cheat Code & the Decode: Signs hes cheating
: How to find out right now, for sure . Gathering evidence
: Is porn the same as cheating?
: The real reason why hes cheating on you
: How to be a human lie detector
: The confrontation
: Can y ou r eform a c heater? Should y ou s tay or s hould y ou g o?
: Letters from other women going through the same thing you are
: How to deal with your Fifteen Minutes of Shame
Every woman on the planet has felt it at least once. The nagging feeling in your gut that something isnt quite right, that w hat hes saying feels a little off. And even though you might have no reason in the world to suspect something is going wrong, you do .
You might feel confused because he says one thing and does something else. You might feel like youre going crazy. You might start to actually believe all the things hes been telling you that youre neurotic , or sexless, or depressing, or too fat, or that you ask too many questions. Or the worst, that youre just crazy and insecure and jealous and that all of this is about whats wrong with you , not anything that he might be doing.
And you might be afraid to learn the truth. After all, if your worst fears are correct and you at last learn what you really dont want to knowwhat then ? What happens to your life, your home, your family? You probably feel humiliated , you may be too ashamed to tell your girl friends or your family or your minister. What does this say about you? How could he do this to you ? Why would he do this ? What does she have that you dont? Why arent you enough for him?
The worry and fear you feel is keeping you up at night, making you doubt whats real and whats not, making you feel scared and humiliated and alone. The fact that youre reading this book means your relationship is in trouble. And no matter what you learn when you discover the truth, you cant continue on the path youre on. If it hasnt already, eventually the stress of this situation will spread like a cancer into every other area of your life your job, your self-esteem, your other relationships, your children. You cant go on this way.
And you dont have to.
I want you to know that this is NOT your fault and youre not alone in this. Im here with you every step of the way. And the first step is figuring out whether your worst suspicions are true, or if this really is all in your head.
The truth will set you free.
Men are idiots when they cheat. Not just because theyre selfishly willing to sacrifice your happiness and stability for their own (although there is that) , but because m e n everywhere follow the same tired, predictable patterns when they do it.
I call this The Cheat Code basically, all the things men do, say, and think when theyre cheating. Or thinking about cheating.
Men are shocking ly predictable when they cheat from how they justify their behavior to themselves to what they tell the other woman to how they hide their trail of deception. There is no originality in infidelity.
All men, even smart men, behave in the same predictable way when it comes to cheating.
The good news is that cracking the Cheat Code makes them easy to catch if they are cheating, and easy to vindicate if theyre not. And thats what you need to do if youre ever going to put your mind at ease and get on with your life. Its the waiting, suspecting, not knowing that kills you.
While youre figuring this out, I want you to do t hree things:
1) Pretend like everything is normal. If he knows youre suspicious, hell work harder to cover his tracks (which will, in turn, make him harder to catch.) Keep your chin up and your suspicions to yourself for now. We want to find out the truth quickly, and once and for all.
2) Start socking away a little money on your own. If you can, open a separate bank account that he doesnt know about. (Or alternatively, you can purchase money orders in small amounts and keep them hidden.) This way, youll have some cash to either hire a private investigator if you need one, or youll have an emergency fund to start a new life. Just in case. If it turns out your suspicions are wrong, you can always use the cash for a nice vacation.
3) I want you to start keeping a journal or notebook to write down your suspicions, any evidence you collect, as well as documenting the critical things your partner says that dont quite make sense.
So lets get to it, rip off the band-aid, cut through your fears and the BS and figure out whats really going on once and for all .
Studies show that as many as 60% of women and 75% of men cheat on their partners.
There are certain traits and characteristics that make a man more likely to cheat on you. That said, even if a man has every single traits on the list, it does not mean hes already cheated or is doomed to cheat on you it only means that he has a higher likelihood of cheating than the general population.
How many of these common traits of cheaters does your man have?
He falls asleep immediately after sex
Some men like to snuggle and engage in a little pillow talk after sex, some men just roll over and pass out. A recent study from the University of Michigan found that men who snooze immediately after sex are more likely to suffer from insecure attachment, and are more likely to be unfaithful.
Hes pathologically afraid of getting close.
Insecure attachment, characterized by difficulty connecting to others and problems with managing their own emotions, makes men more likely to stray than men without. Men with insecure attachment tend to have low self-worth, a fear of getting close, inability to trust, and a need to be in control.
Hes had a brain injury, multiple concussions, or has a history of high contact sports
Was your guy a linebacker on the football team in high school? Men who have had multiple concussions are more likely to cheat than other men. Why? Multiple smacks to the head damage the front lobe of the brain, the part that controls our inappropriate impulses.
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