Jay Wiseman - Tricks... To Please a Woman

2002 by Jay Wiseman. All rights reserved.

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Published in the United States by Greenery Press, 3403 Piedmont Ave. #301, Oakland, CA 94611, www.greenerypress.com.

ISBN 1-890159-40-9

Acknowledgments

While I promised not to attribute a particular trick to a particular person (also, it wasnt rare for a trick to be suggested by more than one individual), all the folks listed below contributed at least one trick, or other useful information, to this book and/or its predecessors.

Annagreta Carver
Glenna
Ann Marie
Hal
Annye and Christophe
Hank Stephenson
Augusta Fury
Helen Wolfe
Baraka Jaden
Institute for Advanced Study of
Belladonna
Human Sexuality
Bill Burns
Irish
Bob Shurtleff
Jaina Bee
Brenda Love
Jana
Cecilia Tan
Janet Hardy
Charles Moser
Jaymes Easton
Chilo
Jennifer Thompson
China
Joan Levine
Deborah Addington
John Warren
Dell Williams
Karen Kummerfeldt
Derek
Karen Mendelsohn
Don Melius
KAT
Dossie Easton
Kathleen Wood
Francesca Guido
Kim Airs
KJ
Paul Joannides
Lana White
Leona Joy
Libby Warren
Lorilee Rainey
Lynn Craig
Maggi Rubenstein
Maryann
Mara Soulara
Merrill Seldes
Mic Bergen
Moria St. Cyr
Ms. Margo
Mystie Grey
Nightlace
Oberon and Morning Glory Zell
Sadie Allison
Sage
San Francisco Sex Information
Snow White
Stephanie Wadell
Tammy Jo Eckhart
Tedde Rinker-Davis
Teresa
Tom Burns
Trish
Wakinyan Cikala
Wally Daniels
Walter Shelbourne
Wilhelmina Moosepunch

warning and disclaimer

There is no such thing as risk-free sex, especially these days. Sexual behavior, and the personal, interpersonal, and broader implications of what it means, can be intense, powerful matters.

In the medical world, theres a dictum about administering medication that involves the five rights: Give the right drug to the right patient at the right time in the right dosage by the right method. A similar outlook can apply to sexual behavior. Being sexual with the right person, in the right way, at the right time, in the right location, and for the right reasons can be an incredibly positive experience for everyone involved. If any of the above is not right, however, then problems - sometimes very severe or even life-destroying problems - can emerge.

Erotic energy is one of the most powerful forces in our world. Respect and pay attention to that power and you can experience bliss. Disrespect or ignore that power and you might not live to regret it.

The primary purpose of Tricks to Please A Woman is to provide information and advice that will help make good sex between informed, consenting adults a little bit better. It also provides basic information to help people understand their situations, make them aware of possible alternatives, cope with problems, and find helpful resources.

Please do not think of this book as any kind of medical, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. It most certainly is not intended as a substitute for proper sex therapy. Most of its core information, particularly the tricks themselves, was discovered by me, taught to me by lovers, shared with me by friends during highly informal conversations (many has been the time since the first Tricks book was published that someone has come up to me and said Ive got a trick for you), or sent to me either in the mail or over the Internet. Please keep that in mind when considering this books contents.

Almost without question, there are at least a few factual errors in this book, and probably some typographical errors as well. Also, its very common, in this and many other fields, that information believed to be accurate at the time of publication is later revealed to be inaccurate - sometimes only slightly so, sometimes very much so. If you have even the slightest doubt about the accuracy or safety of anything in this book, please check with independent sources. If their recommendations differ from mine, please let me know. By the way, please remember that not all professional advice is equally complete, accurate, up-to-date, and unbiased. By all means get an independent second opinion (and maybe even a third opinion) if you feel even the slightest need for it.

No one associated with writing, editing, printing, distributing, or selling this book is in any way liable for any damages that result from you acting on the information herein. While I have most certainly not put anything in here that I consider likely to be harmful, understand clearly that the information herein is presented as is and with all faults and that you act on the information in this book entirely at your own risk.

Feedback please!

If you think you have found a factual error, typographical error, or other inaccuracy or omission in this book, please let me know so that this can be corrected in future printings.

introduction: why me?

I can imagine the questions that some of you have: What in the world gives this guy (this man!) the nerve to think that he can write a book about how to sexually please women? Could this book set a whole new standard in male condescending egotism? Shouldnt this book be written by a woman? Shouldnt all of the contributors be women? Why dont women get to speak for themselves?

I can certainly understand such questions. Im very aware that Im putting myself in something of a questionable position by writing this book.

So whats my reply?

In many ways, I am not so much the author of this book as I am the editor and manager of it. Female voices and viewpoints are heavily represented and emphasized in this book, and several women have read it over in its entirety and signed off on its content prior to its being published. Plus, the president of the publishing company, Greenery Press, is a woman. She is both very feminist and very supportive of women in her views, and she is most certainly going to let a book get out the door of her publishing company only if she is convinced that the interests of women are well-served by such a book.

In a series of events I did in association with Playboy, including a video and a web appearance, they billed me as The Worlds Greatest Lover - and it is my hope that one day my friends will let me live that one down. Actually, my reply to the very reasonable question of where in the world do you get off calling yourself the worlds greatest lover? is that I most certainly never called myself that. The term was created by Playboys marketing department. My further reply is that if you pay close attention to the information presented, then that information can help you to become the worlds greatest lover.

How Did This Book Come to Be?

The first four books of the Tricks series were very well received. However, feedback from our customers and vendors led us to conclude that they wanted books in which the Tricks were divided according to the gender of the recipient. Thus was born the idea for this book and for its companion volume regarding men. I hope there will be additional Tricks books in the future.

Why Did I Write This Book? (Because the world can use a little more pleasure...)

Part of me wonders why I continue writing books about sex. Its an interest of mine, but not my primary interest or my only interest. Im planning, gathering material for, or working on books about the martial arts, humor, ambulance work, writing, creative thinking, and other areas. Also, I confess that I find writing about sex, and therefore being identified as a significantly sexual person, ever so slightly embarrassing.