Laura Berman - The Book of Love

This is a question that most of us ask ourselves at some point in our relationship. Maybe it is when we are walking down the aisle, when we are in the middle of a big argument, or when the baby is crying and the cupboards are bare and everything seems to be falling apart. Can love really conquer allor more importantly, can it conquer busy schedules, energetic children, demanding bosses, dwindling personal time, differing sexual needs, and a world based on technology and emotional distance?

Yes. A thousand times, yes! But all the more so if you are willing to devote time and energy into your relationship, the same amount of time and energy that you put into your children, your career, your friends, and the other demands of your hectic life. In order to have a great relationship, you have to be willing to accept the fact that romance, great sex, and a lifelong connection arent just the results of spontaneity. In fact, it takes a lot of workand thats where the disconnect happens for most couples.

Many couples think that romance and great relationships happen overnight, and that sex shouldnt require any prior planning or effort, but thats simply not the case. Everyone has to work at their relationships to make them work, no matter how meant to be they are. Even long-term couples need to learn new tools and tricks-of-the-trade when it comes to creating romance, spicing up intimacy, and communicating clearly. However, as made evident by todays divorce rate, many couples arent learning these tools until it is too lateif at all.

That is where The Book of Love comes in. In this guide you will find everything you need to improve your relationship and intensify your sexual pleasure. From tips on how to communicate more effectively and manage stress more efficiently, to the newest sexual aids and most pleasurable positions, The Book of Love can get you started on a road to a healthier, happier relationship and a more fulfilling sex life.

In , you will discover how your pasts and your individual psyches dictate your emotions and your thoughts within the relationship, for better and for worse.

In , I discuss how to establish trust and emotional honesty within your relationship. You will learn how to be honest and upfront about your needs, both sexual and otherwise, and even how to discuss matters which might be potentially hurtful for your partner to hear. Honesty and authentic communication are crucial for a successful relationship, and this means being able to communicate the good, the bad, and the ugly with your partner. It also means being able to hear your partners honest communication in return, to listen openly and without reservation, and to problem-solve together.

talks about how to circumvent the most common issues that couples fight aboutfinances, stress, household chores, kids, and future plans. These issues can lead to distance and even divorce if couples dont know how to manage them. Once you learn the tools outlined in this chapter, you can successfully navigate around these relationship roadblocks.

In , you will learn how to bring sensuality back into your relationshipor how to keep things burning if they are already flaming. Youll also find out how to always return your intimacy levels back to a place of unbridled passion and desire, even through the toughest times. You will learn how to flirt with your partner, how to seduce him, and how to show her what you desire.

In , you will learn the role of fantasy play, submission and domination, and sex toys. Sensual conversation-starters will help you share intimate fantasies. The illustrations you see beside the text will no doubt get your imagination, and your partners, goingwhich is why these chapters also include resources for finding the sexiest lingerie and naughtiest sex toys, along with some ideas for games and role play in the bedroom.

In covers every physical concern that might impact your relationship, including sexual dysfunctions, STDs, and more everyday issues, such as poor sleep or dietary habits.

This comprehensive look at love, sex, and relationships will, I hope, inspire you and your partner to keep your bond strong and your sex life spicy. Heres to long-lasting loveand plenty of orgasms!