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Michael Gurian, whose national bestseller The Wonder of Boys presented a radical and enlightening view of parenting sons, now offers a groundbreaking approach to raising daughters.

In The Wonder of Girls, Gurian, himself the father of two girls, provides crucial information for fully understanding the basic nature of girls: up-to-date scientific research on female biology, hormones, and brain development and how they shape girls interests, behavior, and relationships.

He also offers insight into a culture mired in competition between traditionalism and feminism and a new vision that provides for the equal status of girls and women yet acknowledges their nature as complex and distinct from men. He explains what is normal for girls each year from birth to age 20; what developmental needs girls face in each stage; how to communicate effectively with girls; and how to cope with developmental crises such as early sexuality, eating disorders, parental divorce, and more.

With personal insights, practical tips, real-life anecdotes, and accessible science, The Wonder of Girls creates a new parenting paradigm. Key elements include:

  • a nature-based approach to why girls are the way they are
  • the connection between the need for profound attachment and the physical and brain development of girls
  • support for a girls inherent need for intimacy
  • tools to protect girls self-esteem and emotional life
  • a new approach to girls character development and rites of passage.

With this scientifically based developmental map of girlhood, Gurian equips parents with a comprehensive guide for raising daughters. Challenging our culture to examine and embrace a crucial piece of the puzzle missing thus far, The Wonder of Girls elevates the dialogue on parenthood.

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P REVIOUS B OOKS BY M ICHAEL G URIAN


PARENTING

THE WONDER OF BOYS

A FINE YOUNG MAN

THE GOOD SON

WHAT STORIES DOES MY SON NEED?

(WITH T ERRY T RUEMAN)


EDUCATION

BOYS AND GIRLS LEARN DIFFERENTLY!

(WITH P ATRICIA H ENLEY AND T ERRY T RUEMAN)


PSYCHOLOGY

LOVES JOURNEY

MOTHERS, SONS AND LOVERS

THE PRINCE AND THE KING


FOR YOUNG ADULTS

UNDERSTANDING GUYS

FROM BOYS TO MEN


FICTION AND POETRY

AN AMERICAN MYSTIC

THE ODYSSEY OF TELEMACHUS

EMPTYING

The author of this book is not a physician, and the ideas, procedures, and suggestions in this book are not intended as a substitute for the medical advice of a trained health professional. All matters regarding your health require medical supervision. Consult your physician before adopting the suggestions in this book, as well as about any condition that may require diagnosis or medical attention. The author and publisher disclaim any liability arising directly or indirectly from the use of this book.
Picture 1 POCKET BOOKS, a division of Simon & Schuster, Inc.
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Copyright 2002 by Michael Gurian
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ISBN-10: 0-7434-1868-9
ISBN-13:978-0-7434-1868-3


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For Gail, Gabrielle, and Davita

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

Many people deserve thanks for this projectmost especially my wife and partner, Gail, who advised me so thoroughly, and my daughters, Gabrielle and Davita, who allowed me to pick their brains and even to write about them.

I owe much gratitude as well to Alan Rinzler, my longtime mentor and friend, and Candice Fuhrman, my agent, both of whom guided this project to Pocket Books and the Simon and Schuster group.

At Pocket, my thanks are due first and foremost to Tracy Behar, my editor, whose vision has enhanced this book greatly, and to Judith Curr, who oversaw our work with grace. Many thanks also to the Pocket publicity staff, the copy editing staff, and the rest of the Pocket family, people who labor behind the scenes and deserve such great credit.

To the trainers, teachers, students, and staff at the Gurian Institute, I give my profound thanks. They, along with my clients in Spokane, have allowed me to explore issues faced by girls through the eyes of diverse families and communities. Special thanks to Gurian Institute colleagues Terry Trueman and Stacie Wachholz for their extensive research on female and male neurobiology.

Finally, my profoundest thanks are due the many girls and young women who have let me be a helpful part of their lives. They are courageous in their search for life skills and for meaning. I am sure I have learned more from them than I have been able to teach.

CONTENTS

BEGINNING OUR SEARCH: A N EW L OGIC OF G IRLS L IVES

Old Myths and New Theories

HOW HER MIND WORKS: S ECRETS OF THE F EMALE B RAIN

The Child

The Girl

The Adolescent Girl

The Young Woman

THE HIDDEN WORLD: T HE B IOCHEMISTRY OF G IRLS L IVES

From Mind to Hormones

A Girls Hormonal Biology



What Girls Need

THE ARTFUL MOTHER: W HAT G IRLS N EED FROM M OM

Mothering a Daughter Through Childhood and Adolescence

Birth to Five Years Old

Six to Ten Years Old

Eleven to Fifteen Years Old

Sixteen to Twenty Years Old

THE GIFTS OF THE FATHER: W HAT G IRLS N EED FROM D AD

INNOCENCE AND EXPERIENCE: P ROTECTING THE E MOTIONAL D EVELOPMENT OF O UR G IRLS

A Different View

Emotional Crises in Girls Lives

THE HEROINES JOURNEY: B UILDING C HARACTER IN O UR D AUGHTERS

The Issue of Womens Roles

WOMANISM: G IVING G IRLS A S ACRED R OLE IN L IFE

Books and Movies That Help Girls Grow

INTRODUCTION


Truth tends to shake us to our very bones.

Marilyn Sewell


Soon after my first daughter was born, I wrote of my hope for our lives together:
in early spring
the world cool
green leaves open first
Gabrielle, two weeks old,
shivers
in my green intentions.

I was thirty-two years old, and knew little about what it means to have a daughter. I knew next to nothing about girls, though I thought I knew a lot about women. I had not yet acquired the wisdom to know that knowledge is never certain, and children are the best teachers.

I had specialized thus far in two kinds of work: writing itself mainly novels and poetryand the teaching of writing and literature; and psychological and neurobiological research, preparatory to becoming a therapist and educator in child development. Now here I was, father of a baby daughter; it was time to learn what that really meant.

My wife, Gail, also thirty-two, knew a great deal more than I did about girls, and yet, she too felt inadequate. What parent, upon having their first child, does not feel lost?

Now, many years later, I know from experience and research somewhat more of what it means to have a daughter. Yet so often, still, I feel that what I know is even too subtle for poetry. It exists in a wordless quiet when one of my daughters is reading silently beside me on the couch. It weaves through words while Gabrielle tells me about the latest discomfort shes had with her friends, or Davita, three years younger, details her day of exuberant events. My intentions with my daughters are less green than they were at Gabrielles birth, but they are no less passionate.

Recently I asked Gabrielle what it should mean to me to have a daughter. She answered, affecting an actresss pose, To love me beyond measure. I asked Davita the same thing. She giggled, I dont know, and gave me a bear hug. Not poetry, not science, not even flawed memory can do justice to the emotions that surround the love of parent and child.

It is a love that is lived as one soul embraces another throughout the life journey.

The Wonder of Girls hopes to become a comprehensive part of your own answer to the question, What does it mean to have a daughter? While ever respectful that no book can be a complete answer, I will cover everything I can think of that a daughter needs yet still there will be more.

The Wonder of Girls has grown not only from my own research and my own care for my daughters, but it has grown from my interactions with other parents and caregivers. If one is going to try to write a book that hopes to aid the life journey in a comprehensive way, it must be one that grows in that place where an experts ability to serve and an audiences need come together. Even though there are numerous books about girls on the shelves these days, I think youll quickly discover that this one is needed, because it reveals the nature of your daughter.

Because I am fortunate to meet thousands of people every year, and receive numerous e-mails and letters, I am constantly learning parents needs from them. As both a parent of daughters and a professional, I came to fully realize that the book you are about to read both grew in me and was needed in the world when I read this beautiful letter from a mother of four, Cheryl McKenzie.


Dear Michael Gurian:

I have three daughters, 16, 13, and 9, and a son, 12. Ive read a lot of books on parenting. Im writing you because your book, The Wonder of Boys, changed our family. Im hoping youll write a book like it for raising girls.

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