• Complain

Maddy Anholt - How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships

Here you can read online Maddy Anholt - How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships full text of the book (entire story) in english for free. Download pdf and epub, get meaning, cover and reviews about this ebook. year: 2022, publisher: Pan Macmillan UK, genre: Detective and thriller. Description of the work, (preface) as well as reviews are available. Best literature library LitArk.com created for fans of good reading and offers a wide selection of genres:

Romance novel Science fiction Adventure Detective Science History Home and family Prose Art Politics Computer Non-fiction Religion Business Children Humor

Choose a favorite category and find really read worthwhile books. Enjoy immersion in the world of imagination, feel the emotions of the characters or learn something new for yourself, make an fascinating discovery.

Maddy Anholt How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships
  • Book:
    How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships
  • Author:
  • Publisher:
    Pan Macmillan UK
  • Genre:
  • Year:
    2022
  • Rating:
    5 / 5
  • Favourites:
    Add to favourites
  • Your mark:
    • 100
    • 1
    • 2
    • 3
    • 4
    • 5

How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships: summary, description and annotation

We offer to read an annotation, description, summary or preface (depends on what the author of the book "How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships" wrote himself). If you haven't found the necessary information about the book — write in the comments, we will try to find it.

How to Leave Your Psychopath is a candid account of the bizarre and frightening world of coercive control and abusive relationships from a woman who, until her eyes were opened, had spent her entire dating life trapped in them. This accessible book will cover all types of toxic relationships as well as the route to self-discovery, how to see and respond to red flags, safe dating, recognizing controlling traits, distinguishing narcissistic and psychopathic personality types and all that lies in-between.
Narcissists are smooth operators, master manipulators and they take advantage of the kindness, trust and goodwill of their prey. This empowering guide by comedian Maddy Anholt, who has been through the mill, will help anyone ditch their controlling partner and find freedom and happiness alone.

Maddy Anholt: author's other books


Who wrote How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships? Find out the surname, the name of the author of the book and a list of all author's works by series.

How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships — read online for free the complete book (whole text) full work

Below is the text of the book, divided by pages. System saving the place of the last page read, allows you to conveniently read the book "How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships" online for free, without having to search again every time where you left off. Put a bookmark, and you can go to the page where you finished reading at any time.

Light

Font size:

Reset

Interval:

Bookmark:

Make
How to Leave Your Psychopath The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships - image 1
How to
Leave Your
Psychopath

The essential handbook for escaping toxic relationships

How to Leave Your Psychopath The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships - image 2

Maddy Anholt

For my Mum and Dad Catherine and Laurence who gifted me protection - photo 3

For my Mum and Dad, Catherine and Laurence,
who gifted me
protection, education, and unconditional love.

My twin, Tom, who has saved my ass
since we were wombmates.

My sister, Claire, your strength
and wisdom inspire me daily.

My love for you all lasts a million lifetimes.

CONTENTS

Picture 4

First published 2022 by Bluebird

This electronic edition first published 2022 by Bluebird

an imprint of Pan Macmillan

The Smithson, 6 Briset Street, London EC1M 5NR

EU representative: Macmillan Publishers Ireland Ltd, 1st Floor,

The Liffey Trust Centre, 117126 Sheriff Street Upper,
Dublin 1, D01 YC43

Associated companies throughout the world

www.panmacmillan.com

ISBN 978-1-5290-7595-3

Copyright Maddy Anholt 2022

Illustrations Copyright Evan Lian 2022

Design by Mel Four / Bluebird Art Department

Author photo by Karla Gowlett

The right of Maddy Anholt to be identified as the author of this work has been asserted by her in accordance with the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988.

Names and identifying details of all individuals have been changed in all circumstances to protect confidentiality.

Situations and descriptions of events in the authors past have also been changed in some instances for privacy reasons. This book contains potentially triggering themes of graphic domestic abuse, sexual, physical and emotional violence and suicide.

You may not copy, store, distribute, transmit, reproduce or otherwise make available this publication (or any part of it) in any form, or by any means (electronic, digital, optical, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise), without the prior written permission of the publisher. Any person who does any unauthorized act in relation to this publication may be liable to criminal prosecution and civil claims for damage.

A CIP catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library.

Visit www.panmacmillan.com to read more about all our books and to buy them. You will also find features, author interviews and news of any author events, and you can sign up for e-newsletters so that youre always first to hear about our new releases.

INTRODUCTION

Are you forever finding yourself in the stranglehold of shitty spouses, controlling companions, and dominating dickheads? Well, fear not, because once youve finished reading this book, youll be able to wave ta-ta to unhappy and unhealthy relationships for good. Consider me the Psycho Sprucer, Bad Boy Buster, the Hot Mess Assessor ready to leave your love life sparkling.

You see, this is a book about controlling relationships. Its about everyday Narcissists and Psychopaths who hide in plain sight. Its about the men, and sometimes the women, who contribute to everything from low self-esteem to suicide.

Im not a psychologist or a doctor sure, I once examined someones perineum with latex gloves but, as they told me in court, that doesnt mean Im medically trained. I spent ten years tumbling in and out of controlling relationships; each time I vowed it would be my last. When I finally hit the depths of despair, I decided enough was enough. I worked with a host of superb psychologists, experts and counsellors to learn why I was a magnet for these toxic twerps. The culmination of that knowledge is this book. This is my lived experience, here is my truth advice from the field if you will. I have written what I wish had fallen into my lap a decade ago.

I hope this book will educate as many people as possible about these dangerous personality types before they eat up your life. Theres nothing to be afraid of: with knowledge comes power, and awareness will be your shield.

You may not have reported the abuse you suffer or suffered. You may never have been hit or physically attacked in any way. Perhaps youre not convinced its domestic abuse at all. I get you this is something far subtler. Something that often youre not sure is happening at all. But youre certain of one thing and thats that you cant keep playing with these poisonous pricks. You are weary of getting your life upturned. Perfect. Im glad to say, youre exactly where you need to be here, reading this book. Congratulations and welcome along.

Im going to go out on a limb here and assume one of three things about you, dear reader:

1. Youre in a relationship right now that doesnt feel right. You cant quite put your finger on it but its icky and uncomfortable.

2. You know someone sister, brother, mother, father, friend who is trapped in some sort of diabolical partnership and you want to help.

3. Youve escaped a toxic relationship it doesnt matter how long ago and youre keen not to fall into another cataclysmic coupling.

(Extra category: Youve been given this book as a half-joke but, really, you have begun to realize theres some work to be done to perish past patterns.)

Whoever you are, I have done everything in my power to make this book your ticket to healthy love. I want you to know its possible not only to survive, but to thrive.

Lets do it together, one step at a time.

If you wish to seek help or further advice on the issues covered in this book, you will find a full list of organizations and domestic abuse charities listed at the back.

This book contains potentially triggering themes of graphic domestic abuse, sexual, physical and emotional violence and suicide. All names, locations and dates have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or to real events is purely coincidental.

How to Leave Your Psychopath The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships - image 5

CHAPTER ONE
PSYCHOMETER
The EmpathPsychopath Scale

Raise your hand if youve been in a controlling relationship. Raise your hand if youre in a controlling relationship now. Raise your hand if you have to ask the person that youre with if youre in a controlling relationship.

Dont worry, youre in safe hands now. Youre in the hands of a Super Empath. A Super Empath is not the next shit Marvel franchise, because that would be a film about a superhero with relentless anxiety, psoriasis flare-ups and occasional insomnia.

Nope. In fact, Empaths are highly sensitive people, often gauging their mood on how others are feeling. We have our spaced-out sci-fi friend, author J. T. McIntosh, to thank for the term he was first to cite it in his 1956 book Empath. Star Trek then brought it to an even wider audience. Rather beautifully, both McIntosh and Star Trek meant it to convey a person with emotional telepathy. You feel me? Then youre one too.

In the past I had a tendency to get into what you might call controlling relationships. After each one of these romances had ended, Id be convinced Id learnt my lesson... and then a matter of days later would find myself right back where Id started.

Next page
Light

Font size:

Reset

Interval:

Bookmark:

Make

Similar books «How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships»

Look at similar books to How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships. We have selected literature similar in name and meaning in the hope of providing readers with more options to find new, interesting, not yet read works.


Reviews about «How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships»

Discussion, reviews of the book How to Leave Your Psychopath: The Essential Handbook for Escaping Toxic Relationships and just readers' own opinions. Leave your comments, write what you think about the work, its meaning or the main characters. Specify what exactly you liked and what you didn't like, and why you think so.