Chris Graebe - The Rhythm of Us: Create the Thriving Marriage You Long For

This isnt just another marriage book. The Rhythm of Us is an invitationor maybe the word is activationof the thriving marriage you long for. Chris and Jenni have placed some incredibly powerful tools in the hands of the reader, life-saving questions, practices, and rhythms that will have you dreaming of the marriage you desire and what it looks like to pursue that dream in the here and now.

CHRISTY NOCKELS, worship leader, songwriter, author of The Life You Long For

Chris and Jennis winsome book is chock-full of wisdom, complete with practical steps to help you find your way into the unique rhythms that will make your marriage flourish.

JOHN and STASI ELDREDGE, New York Times bestselling authors

I have always believed that marriage books are the hardest to write because anyone who is or has been married knows exactly how much work a good marriage requires. People want real answers and practical solutions to building a healthier, happier marriage and arent interested in a bunch of well-meaning platitudes or clichs. In The Rhythm of Us, Jenni and Chris Graebe have written what I truly believe is one of the greatest marriage books I have read. Its honest and real, full of practical tips and exercises that will help strengthen your marriage and help you and your spouse grow closer as you learn how to find your rhythm as a couple. You will be challenged and encouraged as you turn each page of this book and end it feeling like youve just made a wise new couple friend you cant wait to have over for dinner.

MELANIE SHANKLE, New York Times bestselling author

Marriage has been the source of both our deepest struggles and our deepest healing. Chris and Jenni offer their own hard-won wisdom, reminding us our good/hard relationships are so worth fighting for.

KATHERINE and JAY WOLF, authors of Hope Heals and Suffer Strong

I absolutely love The Rhythm of Us. Its inspiring. Its empowering. Its equipping. Jenni and Chris cast a clear vision for a thriving marriage that is biblical, beautiful, bountiful, andbecause of graceachievable. Written with an us too, not a how to tone, youll find yourself delightfully eager to create your own transforming rhythm of us with your spouse!

JEANNIE CUNNION, author of Dont Miss Out

I have always admired Chris and Jenni and their obvious connection. After reading this book, I understand why they are one special couple: Their marriage is clearly based in healthy rhythms! Its a must-read for any couple that is seeking a great marriage. I love this practical and profound guide for a great marriage. Im so thankful Chris and Jenni have shared their secret sauce with all of us! This is an excellent resource for any couple just beginning or those married for many years. This admirable couple understands the ups and downs of marriage and offers a profound yet practical way to grow together through healthy rhythms.

COURTNEY DEFEO, author of In This House, We Will Giggle and Treasured study

No matter your season, married or single, this book is for you! Its a brilliant guide on creating rhythms for a healthy, life-giving marriage. Gods desire for us is strong relationships, and this book gives amazing tools on how to cultivate, nurture, and protect that.

MESHALI MITCHELL, photographer, host of A Thousand Words, founder of A House God Is Building

Jenni and Chris welcome us into real-life relationship, opening the conversation to everyone from a his and heras well as an usperspective. This isnt a right-way or a do-this-and-get-that handbook but an invitation to learn about, practice, and lean into relationship rhythms that are as powerful as they are gentle. The Rhythm of Us addresses marriage, but its insight and tips prove beneficial to all our relationships.

KAY WYMA, blogger, vodcaster, author of The Peace Project

The Rhythm of Us comes through a distinct door that separates it from most writings on marriage. Its not only biblical and honest but is actually doable. The Rhythm of Us gives us practical handles to see our marriages transformed. These pages create what the Graebes call Team Us, igniting the next exciting chapter of any marriage.

MARK and JAN FOREMAN, authors of Never Say No and parents of Jon and Tim Foreman of Switchfoot

It only takes a few minutes to realize that Jenni and Chris have a special relationship, and their advice and intentionality are a gift to other marriages. Were all trying to figure out a rhythm that allows us to thrive as individuals, spouses, and familiesand this book will be invaluable as we navigate the days and years to come. Im so grateful for a resource that I can confidently pass along to others, knowing that it will quickly become a favorite!

ANGIE SMITH, bestselling author of Seamless

No matter where you are or what youve gone through, The Rhythm of Us is for you. It can help you make a good thing great or help raise a struggling relationship to a healthier rhythm. A must-read for any couple!

ALLI WORTHINGTON, business coach, speaker, author of Standing Strong

Chris and Jenni have written a must-read for any married couple.... The Rhythm of Us gives a practical road map for a thriving marriage. We loved it!

ANDREW EAST, NFL player, and SHAWN JOHNSON EAST, Olympic gymnast

If marriages ever needed renewal, its now, and the path to renewal begins with rhythms. In The Rhythm of Us, Chris and Jenni warmly welcome us into their home, their struggles, and their committed journey to create a healthy marriage amid the demands of life, children, and never-ceasing distractions. We love this book and believe it will encourage you to stay the course, get creative, and find a vision of us that brings out the best in your marriage.

GABE and REBEKAH LYONS, authors and hosts of Rhythms for Life podcast

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