Resolving Inner Conflict
The Most Effective, Permanent Solution To Finally Overcome Inner Conflict For Life
Pam Johnson
Table of Contents
Introduction
Have you ever caught yourself arguing with your own thoughts? Have you ever been caught between a tug-of-war of two opposing yet equally desirable choices? But you know in yourself that you can only choose one. If these scenarios frequently happen in your life, then maybe you are having problems with inner conflicts. Whether you are aware of it or not, inner conflicts can cause difficult circumstances. You can actually avoid these conflicts if you know how to handle inner conflicts well.
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This book provides the knowledge you need in resolving the unpredictability of your inner conflicts. The awareness this book brings will light up the dark world of your inner battles. It is divided into three chapters which explain the nature of inner conflict and the relation of emotions with your inner conflicts. You will also learn applicable and comprehensive solutions to permanently triumph inner conflicts.
This book also provides strategies and practical steps that you can easily apply. Find out how to win a battle within by being fully equipped with knowledge, power and perseverance.
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And even though today I might feel run over and feel heavy-hearted for a few people that I love, there is a promise that tomorrow I will be stronger, more patient and better refined person. We are to be brought through fire, not left in it.
Hayley Williams, Paramore
Chapter 1 - Your Inner Demon
Im free, finally free, Lacey mutters to herself as she read the thick journal shed written last year. As she read each entry, she remembered how awful she felt at the time she wrote them. She recalled each tug-of-war of emotions that sucked every ounce of energy from her body. Her miseries were obvious in her messy handwriting. Every erasure shows how much she tried to gather the perfect words to describe how she felt.
Each journal entry portrays the inner conflicts she struggled with; conflicts that people around her said she could suppress by fighting back. So she fought her feeling, but she found out that she only hurt herself more.
Although the emotions from her past came back to in waves, she knew that she is now different from who she was yesterday. She is now living in the promise of better tomorrow she chose to believe a year ago.
The change didnt come easy, but it did make life easier for her. Her renewed perspective towards inner conflicts enabled her to experience life with peace, hope and joy. Her knowledge about inner conflicts freed her from unnecessary sentiments, decisions and idleness. Its not really about creating a new version of herself. Its about getting rid of an inner demon that has been bullying her mentally and emotionally for years.
Maybe in some way, you also experienced having conflicts with yourself. Perhaps, two opposing thoughts gave you many a sleepless night, or maybe even made you doubt your future. In the midst of those dilemmas youre always left questioning how much effort you must exert to push that pessimism away. You tried everything to dissolve all the negative thoughts lingering in your head, but positive thinking seems insufficient.
Well, you dont have to endure life that way anymore. This book will show you how untrue the criticisms of your inner demon are. Hopefully, this book hopes to enlighten you how worthy you are of a life full of delight. It may not be a life completely free of negativity but a life that has full control of inner critics. This is the end of the mental and emotional torture that inner conflicts brought to your life.
WHAT IS AN INNER CONFLICT?
An inner conflict is the clashing of two opposite, yet equally desirable, interests within a person.
An inner conflict is a moral, mental or emotional hurdle that you struggle within yourself. It usually happens every time you are in situations that involve doing what you think you need to do versus what you want to do. Most of the time, external factors, such as the environment, influence the situation.
For example, an inner conflict happens when you crave for a triple layered burger with bacon while youre on a strict diet. Its mouth-watering smell tries to shut that inner voice in you, alarming you of the bad effects it might cause to your health. Then you start to argue with yourself whether you should buy a burger or not. However, if you didnt go to your favorite fast-food restaurant in the first place then none of this would have happened. Well, there are cases of inner conflicts that are more serious, but this is the simplest way to illustrate how an inner conflict happens.
Inner conflicts are actually healthy. It is part of the human nature. Whats unhealthy is when you remain clueless of what inner conflicts are and what they can do. Such lack of knowledge may lead to unwise decisions and unanticipated emotional breakdowns. The longer the person is oblivious to this fact, the closer he is at walking the path towards the destructive road of inner conflicts.
DESTRUCTIVE INNER CONFLICTS
Multiple ignored inner conflicts can become a monster. It can eat up your sanity and steal your joy. As you continually fear the negativity it gives, the stronger it gets. As a result, your behavior will grow into something too difficult to handle. You might find it difficult to pull yourself together.
This is what actually happens inside the minds of suicidal people. Their ignorance of inner conflicts and their lack of knowledge about it only brought them misery. Thats why telling them to be positive or you dont have to feel this way doesnt really work at all. The grip of their inner bully has become too strong, so much so that they start thinking that the only way to escape their inner demons is through the sweet release of death.