How to Last Longer in Bed
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Since time immemorial, men have had two major insecurities: the first is about themselves and their place in the world, while the second is about their lasting power in bed especially when with another person. Premature ejaculators certainly fall under this category, but even those who are able to last longer want to engage in marathons. Its the natural human desire to have even more.
Alone, its not so much of a problem, but we are all social animals, after all. As a man, our sexual prowess and ability to go the distance plays a major role in (1) our very identity as men, (2) our (perceived) ability to satisfy our partner, (3) our ability to hold on to our partner, and (4) our ability to attract others either by boosted confidence or by reputation.
This isnt necessarily about Missy Elliotts Minute Men, the type who cant help but pop before the party even gets started. This is about going the distance without having to recite baseball statistics to yourself, because wheres the fun in that?
The ability to last the distance is also incredibly satisfying. While orgasms are wonderful things, its what happens before an orgasm which makes sex so pleasurable. Unfortunately, once youve had an orgasm, your mind shuts off. Your erections still there, a line of the most beautiful women (or men, if thats your thing) could be begging for their turn with you; but mentally, youre no longer capable of it. Bummer, huh?
This is why sexual fantasies turned real often disappoint. Its a case of willing bodies but weak minds. Once you shoot your load, your mind goes, Right, thats that! Now about that baseball game
Its not your fault. Womens post-orgasmic shut-off mechanisms are not as absolute as that of mens, which is why the ability to last is not a problem with them. They also need shorter periods of mental rest between orgasms. Men are less fortunate on both counts. Its all a matter of biology.
Fortunately, there are things you can do to last the distance.
Fortunately, this book will explain all the things you can do to increase your own staying power, as well as some of the surprising findings by the medical and scientific community. I'm also going to share some of the common myths about sex, why they get spread, and explain what the research shows to be true in terms of how long most people actually last. Finally, well discuss the problem of minute men and the options available if you are one.
So if you're ready to be surprised, intrigued, and entertained all while learning how to increase your sexual stamina, let's get started!
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Chapter 1: Stop Comparing Yourself to Porn
The great thing about modern technology is that its made life so much easier. The problem with modern technology is that its also made porn so easily available among other things, of course. And the problem with porn is that it sets very unrealistic expectations about what goes on in bed, as well as what the ideal sexual partner should be like.
Whether straight, gay, or biporn instills the expectation that men can be like the Duracell Bunny which just keeps going and going and going. Unfortunately, this is a myth which sets extremely unfeasible standards about what the ideal, sexual man should be like.
We have our Puritan background to blame. While weve come a long way, weve not come as far as they have in some European countries. Sex Ed, in those American schools which offer it, is limited to anatomy lessons, STDs, pregnancy, and what to do in order to avoid the last two.
How to actually have satisfying sex is limited to rumors, jokes, and the booming porn industry. What most fail to consider is the magic of editing. Editing allows one man to satisfy several partners, either simultaneously or one after the other, and still have enough energy left to play a game of baseball after the last gasping, panting, and heaving.
Theres also chemistry. Some make use of desensitizing creams which well, desensitizes the organ. The downside, of course, is that it makes sex less pleasurable. Then again, porn is about pleasuring you the viewer, not the actors.
Theres also the industrys traditional desensitizercoke. Seriously. Cocaine has long been proven to mitigate and delay ejaculation in men. While it increases adrenaline, boosts confidence, and can make people feel sexier, as a result, it also inhibits sexual function, itself
Finally, it encourages the myth that women love to be banged for hours on end. Heres a factual tidbit for youwomens vaginal walls are not made of skin. Technically, theyre made up of a fibromuscular material that oh heck, never mind. The point is thisrub against it for 20 to 30 minutes nonstop, and even KY wont keep hers from getting sore, numb, and probably pissed off at you.
Because men are designed to play the penetrative role, and because most orgasm only through direct genital contact, there is the erroneous assumption that women only get off by being penetrated. Nothing can be further from the truth, but well deal with that later.
The point is that you have to stop comparing yourself to porn actors when theyre on duty. They do have private lives off-screen, you understand? What they depict is an ideal (for some, at least), a fantasy, and extremely unreachable ones, at that.
If your idea of lasting the distance is based on porn industry standards, then youre setting your bar impossibly high. As such, you will only end up disappointed.
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