Charan Das - How to Transform Your Sex Life: Multiple Orgasms, Female Ejaculation & Natural Male Control

By Charan Das

TWITTER: @DCharaDas

Published

Amazon Kindle June 2018

This book will change you. It will empower the best of you and it will supercharge your relationship. Sex is deeply interwoven into everything about you. Your self-esteem, your confidence, your outlook and your mood Those and many more things too, are intrinsically dependent on your sexual satisfaction. The sex described in this book will give you that satisfaction. There are no tricks or one-off tactics. This is natural and everyday sex. Its sex that reaches the deepest parts of you and its sex thats always easy, comfortable and fun.

Ladies, youll have many multiples of orgasms. Youll ejaculate uncontrollably. And gentlemen, youll discover a well of ecstasy that gives you effortless control. Whatever your experience and ability, youll have unimagined control of your erection and your orgasm.

These things are guaranteed. Theyre fully described and explained with why as well as how. Therell be no questions or doubts. Youll know for sure and youll see the impact on your life and your relationship. Sex is a primary driving force. Satisfying that drive affects every other aspect of you.

The kind of sex described in this book will change your sex habits and outlook. Sex will be long. It will impinge on your time. Youll sacrifice the garden, the shopping and even a night out, to grab your opportunity. Your partner will be the same, youll both want more of it.

Therell be no doubt that the kind of sex you have with each other is the ultimate sexual experience. Your partners attractiveness will grow not diminish. Therell be no staleness left in your relationship. Youll talk more and do more. Not because youre trying to, because you want to, because that flame will be ignited again. The power of sex can do that. You know it can. Just think back youll remember how it influenced your perception, your interest and how its satisfaction boosted your confidence and self-esteem. Youre about to rediscover that place and those feelings. And with just a little effort, youll never lose them again.

Great sex could mean anything. Maybe you have it already? Youll certainly have your own definition of it. The uncertainty, the varied level of interpretation occurs because we discover sex through a veil of embarrassment where only the giggles are clear. The reality, what really should be told is never openly mentioned. And really, nothing as powerful as sex should be as vague as our understanding of sex. So no more vagueness, lets be absolutely clear.

Great sex can last 30 minutes or 2 hours, or 4 or 5 actually. It can be standard or kinky. It can be quiet, embarrassed, or as bold as you like. All those things are individual. Theyre as irrelevant as the room you do it in.

What great sex will be, always, is focussed and sensual. It will always mean multiple female orgasms that are clearly recognisable. Therell be no doubt and no searching for signs to help convince yourself. And ladies, many of your orgasms will be accompanied by ejaculation. If that makes you sceptical, if youve convinced yourself that female ejaculation is a myth, think again. Its real, its powerful and it can repeat as many times as your body and energy can hold out. And dont worry, your ejaculations are identical in quantity and appearance to a mans. Youre not peeing yourself and there wont be litres of it as some porn literature would have you believe. Youll feel it in the same way that a man feels it, as an extreme burst of heightened pleasure. Youll love it and so will he when it spurts onto him.

For men, great sex involves a prolonged ecstasy that will flow over you in waves that shower your skin and muscles and bombard your brain. Youll be aware of your ability to orgasm but therell be no difficulty or discomfort in holding it back. Youll wield that ability effortlessly as you flow through peak after peak. Youll feel you partners orgasms and each time, youll feel the pleasure shes feeling. Eventually, because time or energy has run out, youll let go. Your orgasm will feel like more than just an orgasm. Youll feel it tugging your stomach muscles and gripping your legs. And afterwards, youll feel it rippling over your body for as long as you have time to lay there and enjoy it.

This isnt a book about tricks or tactics. This book is a cure not a band aid. You wont need penis rings or a latex outfit. You just need to focus on the pleasure youre feeling, to relish and nurture it. In return, youll have sensations you never dreamed of. Your muscles will quiver, your legs will tremble and afterwards, youll be so relaxed youll be almost comatose. Every skin cell, every muscle in your body will be tingling. Youll want to drift into emptiness and if you let yourself, it will be effortless and mindless. But even if you dont, if you force yourself up because sometimes you just have to, it will be there still, in your mind and in your body. Youll be stress free and completely aware of the contentment your feeling.

Ive been a psychologist since 1993. Ive studied, researched, lectured and healed I hope. Whats described in this book is a combination of personal and professional discovery. There are no unique requirements. You dont need to be specially endowed or masterful. This is the most natural sex possible. It enables your body to get in tune with your mind and in doing that, it eradicates many of the problems we experience with sex.

Sex is sex right? What can there possibly be to know that you dont know already?

But just think about it, what do you actually know about having sex?

Thanks in large part to women, you know about foreplay but even that remains a vague concept interpreted differently from one person to the next. The truth is, the only help we have when we reach the age of consent is instinct.

By the time we reach that point in our lives, society has moderated our understanding to at least impart the values of mutual consent and consequence responsibility but beyond that we are left entirely to the guidance of instinct. And instinct, when it comes to sex, is nature driving you on to spread you genetic makeup. A quick ejaculation into a receptive vagina is more than adequate from natures perspective.

So when it comes to it, you jump in and you do what comes natural. And as your confidence grows in that thing that came natural, you keep on doing it because it worked and achieved the goal of satisfying your instinctive demands.

Just think about all those other instincts you have. Society hasnt left you alone with them, free to reap havoc in your neighbourhood. Society has moderated and regulated them. Since childhood youve learned the values and actions that make you a good citizen. Why do babies put everything to their mouths? Thats instinct driving learning but parents quickly intervene to moderate that learning. Thats how society works, with everything except sex. Nobody steps in to help you out when youre between the sheets.

So were back where this chapter started, wondering what you actually know about having sex. The answer, very little, is clear in the overheard claims of boastful men.

She was sore when I was finished!

Worse still, even women fall prey to this misunderstanding.

Why am I going on about this when all you want is to get to the crux of how to have great sex? Because its important. Because its part of the learning you need to do. Its not going to be easy for you to change your sexual habits overnight.

Its going to take time. Its going to take understanding and belief. Your reaction to sexual sensations is so deep set its reflex-like. Youve become a slave to that reflex, just like your knee is to the doctors reflex hammer. Its going to be difficult to break free. Youll need to change your reaction to feelings and sensations and as you gain experience, itll get more difficult because those feelings and sensations will get more demanding. Youll be feeling them in ways you never imagined, in places you never imagined. Theyre signs that youre getting there but theyre also signs that can make you turn back and return control to the instinct that lies in both of you. So make no mistake, this is not going to happen overnight. Remember, this is a cure not a band aid. But with a little effort, it will get easier and easier. And once youre there youll never look back. After a month, maybe even less, it wont be difficult anymore, it will be easy. Youll be effortlessly and ecstatically in control.