Jonathon McGregor - 7 Steps To Sex God Status: Discover Amazing New Sexual Skills. Be A Bedroom Superstar!

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Acknowledgements

Thanks to Sarah Gilkes of MDP McDonald Partners for all things legal.

Two key people in this project have made it possible.

Firstly a massive vote of thanks to Amanda Greenslade for her amazing editing. Amandas insightful comments and keen eye for detail have been invaluable. Thanks also to Amandas team at Australian eBook Publisher for the diagrams, and PDF and Ebook creations.

Secondly to Malcolm Bull and his team at SpringWebSolutions . Wow! Thank you for the logo, wonderful website design and download solutions. No request was ever too difficult. Cant thank you enough!

Not only have Amanda and Malcolm brought their professionalism to the project, but they have been totally supportive from the outset. Without them I would still be looking at a dusty manuscript on my desk.

Lastly, to my best friend, confidant, lover and wifeLaura. My Sex Goddess has been by my side throughout this journey. She has enabled my personal vision to become a realitySex God status! From my heart to you, Laura, thank you.

~Jonathon McGregor

Introduction

How is your sex life?

Perhaps you currently have a great sex life but you want to fine tune your techniques, expand your sexual experiences or feel something deeper or more meaningful during or after sex. Perhaps you have felt an untapped potential to enjoy the sex life of your dreamspure, mind-blowing, enduring sexual blissbut its somehow been elusive. Or perhaps you are experiencing a sexual problem at the momentfor example, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction.

Then you have something in common with me, for I have been in each one of these situations at some point in my sex life.

At each one of these points, I wish a kind, gentle and knowing person had put their arm around my shoulders and said, This is what you do to have a great sex life. This is what you do to experience pure, mind-blowing, enduring sexual bliss. This is how to have perfect control. This is how to have multiple orgasms. This is how to give your partner unbelievable satisfaction. This is how to stay sexually fit. This is how you reach Sex God status!

Of course, no-one ever said those words to me. While some fathers and mothers are very open and comfortable talking to their children about sex, it would be a rare parent who gave such great sex lessons!

I suspect that, like most other men, I first learned about sex as a child and adolescent exploring and experimenting in the privacy of my bedroom at night. I learned more about sex and love-making in sex lessons during school, listening to school and college friends, and watching films of the Hollywood stars in hot sex scenes. Then as a young man, I began to have sexual experiences with a partner, and continued to learn, explore and experiment.

But no-one in my life ever said to me, This is how you reach Sex God status. No-one ever gave me great sex lessons like the ones I have just listed.

Instead, at the very lowest point of my sex life, I occasionally had premature ejaculations. I had difficulty maintaining a really good, firm erection, and this problem seemed to be getting worse with time. I suffered from poor self-esteem and self image. My confidence was at rock bottom.

All these issues seemed to add up, and I began to worry about being able to ever have good sex again. Self-doubt grew into anxiety that became worse as time went on.

At its worst, the thought of having sex caused me to feel nervous, and about half the time, this nervousness lead to the very failure I was worried about. When I failed to have a full erection, or to maintain one, my distress was acute. I sweated. My hands trembled. My muscles became tense. My heart thumped. I even hyperventilated. My loss of self-esteem was huge for days on end. I felt depressed.

The condition I was suffering from is called performance anxiety.

I wanted my partner to have passionate, long-lasting, fabulously satisfying sex, mind-blowing orgasms and yet more orgasms, but my anxiety got in the way.

In my mind, I was a failure. Why couldnt I be like normal men? Being a Sex God was not even imagined. I visited websites telling me to try to relax. Relax? It was like telling someone who couldnt swim to relax when they were drowning!

After yet another episode of performance anxiety, while I was meant to be relaxing with my partner on a wonderful tropical island holiday, I asked myself, How did I get to this point in my sex life?

Something had to change. No, I had to change!

In frustration on that holiday, I began to search for the answers to my quest for better sexual performance and a better sex life. What followed was an twenty month journey of trial and error, sexual highs and lows, successes and failures. Slowly, step by step, I began to improve. Sometimes it was two steps forward, one back, but gradually my performance transformedfrom suboptimal to normal and healthy, and from normal and healthy to the super high performance of the Sex God! Stellar performance!

Finally, after a wonderful evening of glorious, blissful sex and love-making, my partner turned to me, looked me in the eye and said in a dreamy, totally satisfied voice, Wow, you really are a Sex God!

A Sex God? Initially I didnt believe her, but who else was in a position to make that judgment? In fact, no-one else could make that call, and no-one could argue with her. Me, a Sex God!

I certainly didnt fit the stereotype: a ridiculously toned, sun tanned and incredibly good looking young man who has probably had multiple short term relationships, a long list of equally good looking conquests and was capable of having sex three times a night! He would probably have a very large penis, and had starred in porn movies. You get the picture.

Im just a regular guy, a lot older than the stereotype of the Sex God, with plenty of grey hair and more than a few wrinkles on my face!

I thought deeply about what my partner had said. Lying back in bed that night, entwined in each others arms, having shared mind-blowing orgasmic bliss, united as one in body, mind and spirit, with both of us utterly satisfied, I certainly felt like a Sex God. My transformation was complete, and pretty amazing.

After some reflection, I thought my change was really about me achieving my full sexual potential. I felt released from all the negatives of my past and cured from the problems I had experienced. It was as if I had claimed the promise of my birthright: perfect sexual experiences. I really did feel like a Sex God.

But if the stereotypical picture is not valid, what defines a Sex God?

Further deep thought followed. Surely a Sex God has the ability to deliver sexual experiences that result in the title of Sex God being awarded to him by his partner. His partner is the judge. As I said, no-one else could really make that call or argue with it.

But there is also a level of performance implied by the title Sex God. We are not talking about normal; we are talking about super high performance. God-like is the difference between the guy in the street and a finely tuned athlete, or between someone humming a tune and a concert pianist.

So using only my personal experience of my abilities when my partner awarded me the title of Sex Godonly twenty months after the low point in my sex life here is a proposed new definition of Sex God: