Erection on Demand
A personal account and guide to obliterating erectile dysfunction and moving from erection zero to erection superhero
Copyright 2018 Dewayne Steele
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Contents
Chapter 1: Cant Get No Satisfaction
I remember the first time I had an erectile issue. What had once worked like clockwork was as predictable as the lottery. It had a huge effect on me. I was less aware at the time. And too proud to get help. I was then as I am now, the kind of person who would suffer in silence while seeking answers to my life questions.
In my particular situation initially I would have difficulty getting and erection. I worked until that graduated to difficulty maintaining an erection. Finally, when I got to the point where I could maintain an erection for a decent amount of time. But then I would have issues with premature ejaculation. My most memorable days were when I was dating a beautiful girl and I hit the trifecta all in one night. But I continued on, seeking information from books, internet, and experimentation. Eventually, I got to the point where I was happy with my erection and my sex life. It took me years to get there, but hey I got there.
I decided to write this book, to help others. I dont want anyone to have to go through what I did. And I believe in love. I am a romantic. Not quite hopeless. But I love to see happy couples. And the fact of the matter is that sex is an important part of that happinessprovided you are in an intimate relationship.
A little more back storyjust to give you an idea about what you will find in this book. I spent years trying to figure out what caused my issues. Once I figured out the cause, I decided to figure out how to fix it. These problems persisted well into my marriage, and I went to see a doctor about it. He of course offered me the blue pill.
I considered it.
But I said no, I knew there had to be another way. And it is not that I am opposed to taking medication when you need it. But the bigger question is do you need it? It turns out that I was right. I didnt need it. At this point, I have near conscious control of my erections. I will even get (almost) unwelcomed erections like I did as a teenager. You know the kind that occur when you are in a public place, and an amazing girl comes by or a co-worker decides to wear yoga pants to work. A sexy co-worker. Some people shouldnt wear yoga pants.
Anyway, I get those unwelcomed erections from time to time. Now, I have the maturity to send them away. Or I will make sure that it is hidden until things return to normal.
I am complaining. But in reality, I thank God for it. That means everything is working down there in my lower and upper head.
When I say control, I mean that I can get an erection and lose an erection mentally. If I lose an erection during sex, it is a simple matter to stimulate myself and maintain that erection as long as I am mentally and physically engaged.
I am in my forties, so that is a factor.
When I was in my twenties, I got an erection and it stayed that way until my girlfriend and I ran out of ammunition. In truth, it is not the same now, but in many ways it is better. My point is that I have a solution to a problem that plagues many and I want to share it with you. A solution that very well may make you great, but it doesnt reverse time. It is my hope to save you money, time and a lot of heartache.
Now at this point, I know I should be trying to convince you that it will work. That you will buy this book and I will guarantee that it will work for you and you will have super sexual powers and we can share stories about how we gained our super powers. You read a magical book and I was bitten by a radioactive vagina.
No, I wont lie to you. A lot depends on the reader. It is just like reading a diet book. Of course it will work, if the reader can fully embrace the diet, it will work. It is that whole embracing thing that is key. So being from another planet wont make you super, working hard and staying focused will.
I tried multiple things that either failed or gave me moderate results. I hope that isnt the case for you. But in the process of failing, I actually found multiple solutions that worked. So chances are that one of them will help you. But again, I wont lie to you. Maybe this book is only a single battle in a war. And that is the attitude that you must take, you may not win every battle but you will definitely win the war.
Let me show you how I won my war.
Chapter 2: Why?
I asked why. Why the blank did I go from porn star status to periodically neutered? I am ashamed to say that it took me years to figure it out. My self-awareness is one of my highest intelligences and it still took me years to figure it out. Why? Because it wasnt just one thing. It was a multitude of things. It started after I broke up with the mother of my first born. It broke my heart and apparently my penis too.
No it wasnt just that. And to be honest, losing her was for the best. I had mental and physical issues as well. I was always anxious even as a young man. Never occurred to me that anxiety could be so debilitating. And despite the fact that I had severe sleep apnea, it was never enough to stop me before, but the emotional turmoil of our relationship pushed me over the edge and I struggled.
It may be that in your situation, it is multiple things or it could be just the one thing. Indeed. If you are not physically healthy. That alone could prevent an erection. The penis is actually a good barometer of health. If there is something wrong down there that means there is probably something wrong elsewhere.
Not just physical health, but your Penis is a part of your body and therefore directly connected to your subconscious. As I said before I continued forward even though I was having problems. Because I knew that everything was going to be all right. My first real solution was to simply change the equation. Under certain conditions, I had difficulty having an erection. So I simply changed the conditions. I noticed that I had less problems with sexually aggressive women. So I dated and in many of those cases I didnt have as many problems. However, I am a romantic and these ladies were looking for anything but romance.
But there was one such date, who no matter how I tried my antenna just wouldnt extend. The night ended with very little happening. I was disappointed, but overjoyed later. I found out two things. She was pregnant with an STD. I didnt mind the baby, but I am really glad that I dont have the STD. I believe that my Penis understood before my mind understood that it wasnt worth the risk.
So far I have hinted that the person you are with, may be a factor in your erectile dysfunction. I have blamed my wife many times for being the cause of my premature ejaculation. I tell her playfully, that if she wasnt so fine I could last longer. But on a serious note, it is true that your partner may be an issue. But your penis is your responsibility. Do not blame your problems on the woman you love and have sworn to protect. Besides when you take responsibility it gives you the power to do something about it. I will address that situation along with others in later chapters. But the core reasons for problems with erectile dysfunction is poor physical or mental health. As far as mental health goes, I also include subconscious fear as well as possible guilt.
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