PROLONGING MAN POWER FOR HER IN BED!!!
Keeping Erection Up and Fighting Premature Ejaculation.
By Oriade Charles
What women REALLY WANT IN BED .
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. INTRODUCTION
2. DEFINITION OF PREMATURE EJACULATION (PE).
3. DIAGNOSIS
4. EFFECTS OF PREMATURE EJACULATION ON RELATIONSHIPS
5. CAUSES OF PREMATURE EJACULATION.
6. SOLUTIONS FOR EARLY/PREMATURE EJACULATION
7. CONCLUSION
8. ABOUT THE AUTHOR
1. INTRODUCTION
This book has been carefully put together to provide a lasting and effective solution to the yearnings of millions of matrimonial beds worldwide crying for lasting erotic pleasure which seems to have disappeared as a result of a number of confusing factors which will be simplified and nullified in this book.
It is my sincere heartfelt prayer that any marriage on the verge of chaos as a result of premature, quick or sudden ejaculation will be rekindled with tangible testimonies.
As I have always emphasized, every good relationship needs good sex, both ways.
2. DEFINITION OF PREMATURE EJACULATION
Premature ejaculation can be described as a bedroom accident that occurs not up to a minute after the commencement of sexual intercourse between a man and a woman. It is a situation whereby the man uncontrollably reaches orgasm at such a short notice after initial penetration, and the woman is left hanging in search of erotic
Pleasures she has barely began to enjoy. It occurs with minimal sexual stimulation and is a very disappointing experience. It is any couples worst nightmare.
It is also a male sexual dysfunction and most cases are without a clear cause at first observation. It also comes with deep sense of guilt, emotional anxiety, or even acute depression. One in three men complain about this at some point in their lives, however as long as it is not frequent in occurrence, it is not a cause for concern.
Some cases could get corrected with time and experience by the male partner but other cases may require medical attention.
Although many men shy away from discussing this topic, but the good news i have for you is that it is very treatable. It is an agonizing period for some couples, so i advice you pay attention as you may be saving a marriage by doing so.
The primary or main symptom that points to premature or quick ejaculation is the inability of a man to delay expulsion beyond a minute of sexual stimulation after penetration occurs. There are basically two types of premature ejaculation:
1. Lifelong Premature ejaculation
2. Acquired premature ejaculatory experience
3. Variable premature ejaculation
LIFELONG premature ejaculation is the type that occurs through out a mans sexual lifetime starting from the very first experience, however, the ACQUIRED type occurs after one has had sexual experience with the opposite sex, meaning it was not so from the beginning. The VARIABLE type of PM is the most common among men as it is characterized by a mixed period of premature and prolonged ejaculation.
The actual physical process of ejaculation involves an emission before actually expelling semen. The first stage of emission involves depositing liquid from the seminal vesicles, and the glands of the prostate into the posterior urethra. The second stage involves expulsion, which involves closure of the neck of the bladder, which is followed by rhythmic urethra contractions by pelvic muscles, followed by intermittent relaxation of the sphincters of the urethra.
The emission stage of ejaculation, which is reflex in nature, is controlled by Sympathetic motor neurons , while the expulsion stage is carried out by autonomic motor neurons. They can be found in the lumbosacral and thoracolumbar spinal cord and are set in motion in an organized pattern when sufficient stimulation reaches the threshold of ejaculation in the central nervous system.
In recent times, many techniques have been adopted by experts in sex therapy, which include the popular Kegel exercise which is used to strengthen the pelvic muscle floor.Another technique is the stop and start technique which desensitizes the man's erroneous build up and the squeeze approach which helps to reduce arousal.
Premature ejaculation is predominantly the most common sexual dysfunction in men below the age 40 years, with most of the males in the United States been affected to some time in their lives or another. Over time it has been considered a psychological issue with no significant cause as far as organics is concerned.
3. DIAGNOSIS
Among males with reported cases of premature ejaculation, or early ejaculation as it is also referred to, there are no known medical or laboratory reported tests or analysis that can assist treatment. Keeping track of the patients level of testosterone serum as well as the level of prolactin may be considered if premature
ejaculation is observed to occur and some times it occurs in conjunction with a problems of impotence. If however depression symptoms are also noticed along with PE, laboratory tests which are co-related could also be carried out to have a well rounded coverage of the prevailing situation.
The other conditions that should be taken note of while making a clear diagnosis of premature ejaculation are made up of the following:
*When the female partner experiences severely delayed orgasm.
*Severe after effects related to the presence of a psychotropic drug
*When pre-ejaculate is observed
*We must not also underestimate erectile dysfunction.
Many couples, will find sexual intercourse which lasts less than 20 minutes as unsatisfactory, there are cases of males who say they suffer premature ejaculation, but find that they last up to 25 minutes during sexual intercourse from the point of penetration up till the point of final expulsion. So from this we can clearly deduce or understand that the understanding of this subject differs from persons to persons.
If in your observation, you observe that you do not last up to five minutes, treatment could be recommended. In order words, if you or your partner feels that orgasm is happening earlier than satisfactory, then you need to seek medical treatment or attention.
4. EFFECTS OF PREMATURE EJACULATION ON RELATIONSHIPS.
In most reported cases of early or rapid ejaculation nothing else in the world matters, this is because it causes partners an unhappy and frustrating experience. In more serious cases, it can even end up ruining such a relationship as the sex life and bedroom tempo of such partners will not be a happy one, more of a disaster.
At times, the situation gets so bad that the male cannot have sexual intercourse because he expels even before he can penetrate the vagina. This can have a very negative effect on a mans self esteem and even confidence. His partner is also negatively affected especially if she intends getting pregnant.
Most males consider early ejaculation to be just a mere irritation, and this condition only guarantees both partners stimulation that does not exceed a minute or two, meaning that neither partner gets adequate sexual satisfaction.
For a long period of research, experts in sex studies have blamed early ejaculation and its causes on early conditioning.
Put in other words, the males, rushed sexual actions occurred too quickly so as to avoid been detected. The postulation is that such conditions cause him to expel as quickly as as it happens.
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