Mai Vu - The Divorced Moms Guide to Dating: How to Be Loved, Adored, and Cherished

The Divorced Moms Guide to Dating

How to Be Loved, Adored, and Cherished

Mai Vu

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Copyright 2016 Mai Vu

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Published by Simply Good Press, Montclair, NJ / A division of Jane Tabachnick and Co.

ISBN: 978-0692664469

LCCN: 2016935399

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Dedication

This book is dedicated to all the hard-working moms around the world, who put everyone elses needs first, starving themselves of love and support, yet expecting to raise healthy children, have a successful business or career, and still have time and energy to maintain a decent relationship with a man. I want to show you a new way to accomplish everything you want to achieve while being loved, adored, and cherished by everyone around you, especially your man!

Acknowledgments

This book would not have been possible without the support and encouragement of so many people. First, I would like to thank the big Universe for channeling the 3Ps TM concept to me. This gift has helped me and my clients make sense out of our crazies and allowed us to create an amazing Hot Life with Hot Love and a Hot Business too. Second, I would like to thank my parents for being so courageous to escape out of Vietnam so that I could have all the opportunities in the palms of my hands. I especially would like to thank my mother for her innate wisdom of how a woman should be loved and cared for, and how she should treat herself with dignity, love, and respect. I would like to thank my brother, Sonni Vu, for his gentle and generous support in the last twenty years, as he watched me build my business while learning what the Universe had to teach me. It was a scary process for my family. Sonni was always there with What do you need, Sis?

Next I would like to thank all of my clients who believed in my work, took it to heart, and came back to affirm to me that this concept works. Not only that, some have stepped up to champion me and brought me into their circle of friends and families. Cindy Ashton, thank you for helping me give birth to the 3Ps TM concept. Maria Appelqvist, thank you for bringing me to Sweden and showing me that my concept is universal, not just for American women. Linda Lyngso for your generous love and support over the years. Anna berg for the full embodiment of the 3Ps TM . To these clients and so many more: Jessica Olofsson, Anna Bergstrm, Annika Isacsson, Anja Callius (who brought me to Stockholm), Veronica Sundstrm, Jeanette Niemi, Cindy Roemer, Jo Ellen Neihart, Anne Kirwan, Mina Truong, Kira Edwards, Petra Carlsson, Viktoria Davidsson, Kiriaki Christoforidis, Astrid Seter, sakarin Gunnarsson, Raluca Hariz, Git Guldare, Annelie Ivarsson, Ewa ckerlind, Pamela Butterweck, Bindu Ann Joseph, Eva Sjstedt, Miryam Bckstrm, Lenora Cooper, Darla Crecerelle, Anita Carlsson, Britta Sjstrm, Suzanne Aziz, Karen Sabaten, Andrea Williams, Denise Barragan, Ara Lucia, Connie Payne, Elaine Wegenka. THANK YOU! I love, adore, and cherish you.

I was blessed with several super heroines who helped me serve my clients. Without them, no one would have heard of me: Nicole Huguenin, Lynne Sagen, Leslie Rivera, Michelle Metz, Jane Tabachnick. To my teachers, I am deeply grateful: The Coaches Training Institute Leadership team, Flo Hoylman, Nicole Daedone, Mark and Shannon, Home Nguyen. To my besties: Shariann Tom and Kelly Wolf, thank you for our forever friendship.

Finally, thank you to my lovely, yummy girl, Maia Vu-Minnich, who teaches me how to be a Princess, and to my hot man, Keith Cuddeback, who shows me what being loved, adored, and cherished looks and feels like. I am forever grateful.

Preface: A Love Note from Mai Vu

Dear Divorced, Single and Married Moms (too),

I know what its like to be single and dating again. It sucks! Ive been there and done that. Whatever happened to our fairy tale marriage, right? Shouldnt we live happily ever after? What about the kids? Who would want us? Besides, who has time to date? We are exhausted with doing everything and being there for everyone else. Frankly, Aint nobody got time for that!

Well, congratulations for picking up this book. I know there are lots of dating books out there. But I promise you this one is unlike all the other books. Once you understand my 3Ps TM concept, you will not have to work so hard at anything in life again, let alone dating. You will learn how to shift so that you will be loved and supported in all your endeavors. Then, because of your newfound way of being, you will naturally attract that hot man, your greatest love affair into your life. You will see that relationship, dating, and even success are easy and right in front of you. Its not elusive and frustrating like it has been.

Thank you for everything you do in your life to make a difference. Its now your turn to be loved, adored, and cherished so that you are joyously creating a new life with your ideal companion by your side, loving you every step of the way. Lets get you ready for your HotLifeHotLove TM .

Love, Love, Love,

Mai Vu

About the Cover Photo

Ten years ago when my marriage fell apart, I grabbed my four-year-old daughter and ran away to Cannon Beach in Oregon for a week. I could not afford much. Somehow I got a reservation at this dumpy motel that has a yearlong wait list, which was the least expensive option, yet was located right on the beach. While there, I tended to my daughter and wondered what would happen to us. Would I ever find love again?

Nine years later, my sweetheart of seven years surprised me with a road trip for my forty-ninth birthday to the Oregon coast. Guess where we stayed? In the fancy hotel that was three doors down from the old, dumpy hotel on Cannon Beach. All my wishes came true... I am with a wonderful man who loves, adores, and cherishes me. My daughter is healthy, beautiful, and thriving. My business is rocking it and I am having a worldwide impact.

This picture is a reminder that dreams do come true. I had to learn to trust again, to let love in, and to learn to be loved, adored, and cherished. Its easier said than done.

Photo Credit: Keith Cuddeback, Essence In Photography http://www.essenceinphotography.com/

Contents

Foreword

There are few things more mystical in nature than loveand not just romantic love, but all types of love, from sisterhood to caretaking to self-love. Mai Vu, and her work with what she calls the 3Ps TM , demystifies romantic love by providing practical guidance for cultivating love in our everyday lives, particularly in the area of dating. Through radical honesty and a desire for every woman (and man) to have the love of their life, Mai is an agent of transformation.