Eve Salinger - The Complete Idiots Guide to Pleasing Your Man

Table of Contents

When it comes to relationships, there are an infinite number of things that we are not taught, yet are expected to know. Since the beginning of time, women have most often served as the relationship keepers, or the partner in a couple most responsible for making their marriages and other long-term love relationships work. As psychologists who specialize in relationship issues, we are always answering questions from highly intelligent women about what makes their men tick; and are often struck by the fact that there is so much embarrassment about asking. So think about a few of those things that you believe you should somehow know instinctively, but dont. You might have been able to get somebut most likely not allof the answers to your most haunting questions by talking to friends or others in your life to which you had access. Moreover, throughout life, new questions will always arise. The Complete Idiots Guide to Pleasing Your Man is packed with the wisdom you are seeking, which can be invaluable to both his well-being and yours. Consider it an outstanding source of tutoring about such issues as:

The advice in this book will strike you as some of the things your mother should have told you, or perhaps did, but in the language of her generation. Eve Salinger brings it all up to date while filling in the gaps and treading where even the hippest mothers so often feared to go. She not only helps you learn what to do, but just as importantly, what to avoid in areas such as flirting, health, sex, and appearanceto name a few. So with The Complete Idiots Guide to Pleasing Your Man, there never again has to be a conflict between keeping your mate happy and making your relationship ultra satisfying for yourself as well.

Michael S. Broder, Ph.D., and Arlene Goldman, Ph.D.

Authors, Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy

Michael S. Broder, Ph.D., and Arlene Goldman, Ph.D., are psychologists, husband and wife, and co-authors of Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy. Dr. Broders other books include The Art of Living Single, The Art of Staying Together, and Can Your Relationship Be Saved? They live and practice in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

What kind of woman reads a book on how to please her man? A woman who senses that pleasing her man will put her in a position to create the kind of relationship she dreams ofone in which she herself is admired, desired, and pampered beyond her wildest dreams; a woman who knows that treating her man like a king will result in him treating her like a queen; a woman who, no doubt, knows something about pleasing her man already, but who is always eager for savvy and spicy ideas that will make her man feel appreciated and appreciative.

The Complete Idiots Guide to Pleasing Your Man offers a cornucopia of advice and strategies for keeping men happy. In the spirit of good sense and good fun and in the interest of creating a greater number of happy couples, it encourages women to reconnect with the feminine instincts that have always made the world go round. Mother Nature gave all of us women the raw materials we needin both body and mind. Now we just need to make the most of them and, boy, will our men be pleased that we did.

In this book youll find inspiration, and from it, youll gain the confidence you need to think of yourself as a girlfriend and lovereven if youve been married so long theyve stopped making your wedding china pattern. A comprehensive, practical approach to all the aspects of pleasuring, The Complete Idiots Guide to Pleasing Your Man will tell you all you need to know about taking care of your guy physically, mentally, and emotionally. Oh and, yes, it includes a few tricks (or more than a few) that you can have up your sleeve to really stir up his animal instincts from time to time. Finally, because this book specifically addresses man pleasing in committed relationships, it will help and encourage you to enhance monogamy by continually re-creating aspects of yourself and of your relationship.

So, read on. Enjoy what this book will do for you, what you will do for your man, and what he will ultimately do for you!

This book is divided into seven parts. Each will direct you through different aspects of pleasing your man.

Part 1, Please Please Him, will offer an overview of what pleases and displeases men and what kind of women they find most pleasing of all. It will help you to understand why pleasing your manand making him your number one priorityis in your best interests. It will also inspire you to please your man not by trying to be like someone else, but by being your best, most authentic self.

Part 2, Be a Girlfriend, offers tips for looking gorgeous in the natural way that men adore, as well as for flaunting your fabulousness with some first-rate flirting techniques. It also covers the dos and donts of long-term relationship etiquette.

Part 3, Be a Temptress, helps you set the stage for romance by revealing the truth about what inspires desire. It offers advice on how to build anticipation with the worlds greatest aphrodisiacthe mindand how to create the perfect home environment for loving. Finally, it helps you prepare your mans body, as well as his mind, through sensual touch.

Part 4, Be a Spice Girl, is as advertised: spicy. This naughty-but-nice section of the book offers instruction on some common and some less-than-common sexual positions, as well as in the art of oral loving. The how-tos of spicy sex talk rounds out this section.

Part 5, Mixing It Up, takes sex a bit further still, adding notes of adventure and excitement to ensure that your manand youwill nearly faint with pleasure. Learn to incorporate fantasy and role-playing into your love life. And learn to boost his ego and his ardor by letting him please you.

Part 6, Emotions in Motion, provides guidelines for interacting with your guy in the realm of feelings. It explains the ways in which guy talk differs from girl talk and tells you how to read a mans monosyllables and body signals. It also offers rules for coping with your man and as he copes with lifes setbacks and with the realities of growing older.

Part 7, A Man for All Seasons, offers tips for keeping your man healthy, fit, hot, handsome, and totally committedso that you can have him around for many, many years to come.

To add zing to this book and make it even more pleasing, sidebars have been sprinkled throughout. Within them are all kinds of titillating tidbits. There are four types of sidebars: