Bryans - The Authentic Alpha: How To Secure A Womans Loyalty, Increase Attraction, And Bring Order To Your Relationship

The Introduction

Lets imagine three men if you will: Richard, Mark, andDavid.

Richard has no problem attracting women but he cant seemto manage a successful relationship to save his life. He would ultimately walkaway from a relationship if a girlfriend became moody or unreasonable. Richardfigures that the women he meets are all the same: too demanding, nagging,emotional, and disrespectful.

He becomes completely intolerant of the irrational natureof female behavior and decides to keep his relationships with women light andnon-committal. Hed rather be single than deal with the mysterious wiles of awoman in a more intimate relationship. Richard is convinced that hes meant tobe a perpetual bachelor.

Mark is a nice guy, a REALLY nice guy. He is always there for his buddies and woulddo anything to make his woman happy. Anything. He even lets his wife make most,if not all of the decisions. Mark is on his second marriage and it appears thathis wife has lost all sexual attraction for him. She loves him, but shes notentirely sure she loves him enough to turn down a more attractive man.

She pushes Mark around with her demands and feelscompelled to hassle him for no apparent reason. Mark really wants to be a goodhusband. So he tries not to upset her further by being unquestionablyconsiderate with her. He is desperate to change things so he pursues her withspectacular gusto; meeting all of her needs, wants, wishes, and wanton desireswith double the effort. His wife has grown even more contemptuous of him. Shestarts considering divorce.

Davids been married to the same woman for several yearsand shes absolutely mad about him. David isnt the most romantic man on theplanet but he does what he can to make his wife feel beautiful, special, desired,and loved.

Hes a straight shooter. He speaks his mind, has strongpersonal boundaries, and doesnt care what people think about him. Hesespecially honest with his wife and isnt afraid to upset her if he knows thetruth will make her a better person or will improve their intimacy.

When she gets overly emotional, demanding, orunreasonable, David confidently weathers her storms, stands his ground, andloves her passionately with a stout heart. His wife trusts him one-hundredpercent and she feels secure under his leadership. And most importantly, hiswife is extremely responsive to him when it comes to sex. In other words, shejust cant help herself around him.

Here are three different men, all of the same age anddemographic, but with very different experiences with the opposite sex. Whatsgoing on here?

The main difference lies in how these men think andrespond to a strange and sometimes misunderstood aspect of a womans behavior: the subconscious need to test a man todetermine his capability to lead and capacity to love her.

Millionsno, billions of men around the world have noidea that the women they know and love are testing them. These men go abouttheir lives interacting with the opposite sex in absolute darkness, ignorant tothe fact that theyre being judged, appraised, approved, and rejected based ontheir subconscious reactions to female testing.

To make matters worse, most women have no idea that theytest men either. Sure, you have some women who are so experienced in dealingwith men that they know exactly how to test a man to get the results theyrelooking for. But for the majority of men and women, they have no idea that thissort of gender-based interaction is taking place whether theyre conscious ofit or not.

If you had no idea what women want when they test men,youre about to take a journey onto a road less traveled the murkierside of feminine and masculine gender-dynamics. But be warned: you cannotunlearn what you read in this book, no matter how hard you try.

WhatWomen Really Want When They Test Men

Whether its a revealing conversation or an online datingprofile, if you closely observe the language women use youll find that theywant to be with a man who can confidently take the lead and make decisions, hasstrong personal boundaries, and knows how to love her likea man.

While different women want very different things thereseems to be at least one particular needthat pops up consistently. Women usually communicate this need in vaguelanguage that some men find confusing. This happens because when women doconfess this need it appears counterintuitive to how most men were brought upto interact with women.

For example, heres a small sampling of confessions womenhave made that men have come across at one point or another:

I want a man who knows how to put me in myplace.

Hes the only guy to ever call me out when Iget out of hand.

I like that he doesnt let me get away with everything.

I just wish hed stand up to me sometimes. Hessuch a pushover.

He just lets me do whatever I want. Its likehe doesnt have a backbone.

I just wish hed do what he wants for a change.He lets me make all the decisions.

Hes really honest with me. I dont always likeit, but I know I can trust him.

A lot of men these days have difficulty accepting the truth that many women prefer to be with a man who isnt afraidto stand up to them, who challenges them, and who refuses to be pushed aroundwhen a woman (or anything else for that matter) tests him. This is especiallytrue of women who seek a more traditional male-female gender dynamic in theirromantic relationships.

While some women understand this and can confidentlyadmit that they need a man who canhandle them when they lose themselves in their emotions, others arent as awareof this desire. Unfortunately even when they are aware, theres a chance thatthey might be too embarrassed to even admit it.

Due to the various social constraints placed on femalesexuality women tend to conceal what they are really attracted to in men. The reality of having an overwhelmingsexual attraction to a highly assertive, strong-willed, and perhaps evendominant man might make a woman feel ashamed, especially in todays highlyfeminized and politically-correct society.

Its very RARE for a woman to admit that shes sexuallyattracted to a man who doesnt always give her what she wants, who speaks hismind, and who challenges her to be more authentic.

Who ShouldRead This Book?

This book is for the man who wants to wear the pantsand keep them on as he relates to that beautiful yet perplexing specimen wecall woman. If youre a man and you adhere to the idea of taking the leadership role as you date and relate with women, youwill love this book. If youre a man and youd rather the woman youre with take the leadership role