Bryans Bruce - Make him beg for your attention: 75 communication secrets for captivating men to get the love and commitment you deserve

Introduction

A womans physical beauty might be enough to captivate amans attentionbut it is not enough to keep it. Beauty fadesfast. And nomatter how gorgeous a woman may appear to a man at first, if her underlyingattitude and disposition are not equally as beautiful or more so, she wonthold his attention for long. A womans charm can also be misleading. Charm isdeceptive; it changes, and for the most part it is self-serving. The better theman, the less a womans charms works on him. Therefore charm, like physicalbeauty, loses its potency if the very natureof the woman is of less quality.

So what has the power to captivate a man and KEEP himcaptivated over the long years of a committed relationship? What power do somewomen possess that makes them such a prize for high-quality men? What separatesthe millions of gorgeous, perpetually single women from those who may not looklike super-models but have the ability to hypnotize the best of men?

The answer is simple: Itshow a woman communicates with a man that draws him close to her andKEEPS him there. The way you handle a mans emotions will dictate just howsuccessful you are at getting him to open his heart. Because like I say in mybook, 101Things Your Dad Never Told You About Men, in order to give you the loveand commitment you deserve, a man has to open his heart to you. And the key tothose doors lies in how you communicate with him. In short, the more attractive your communication is to a man themore desirable being intimate with you (on all levels) is for him. Read thatlast sentence again.

There are two types of women in this world when it comesto communicating with men. There are those women who are EASY to communicatewith and then there are those women that are a ridiculously DIFFICULT tocommunicate with. Its that simple. Some women just get it and theyve matured (read that word again) in theway they communicate with men, especially the man they love.

Ive had conversations with women with whom I had noromantic interest in and in short order I also had no other kind of interest inthem either. Some women turn men off just by opening their mouths becauseeverything that comes out of it seems cruel and even callous. On the otherhand, Ive had conversations with women with whom, once again, I had noromantic interest in but they still had something mesmerizing about them thatcaptivated my undivided attention. It had nothing to do with how these womenlooked or smelled, but it was their interactions with me that made the bigdifference.

Assertiveness Vs. Aggressiveness

Let me be as simple and straightforward as I can here.Its quite possible to be assertive with a man without having to be aggressive.To a high-quality man, an assertive woman is VERY attractive because she knowswhat she wants and is comfortable communicating her needs in a healthy way thatdoesnt jeopardize the relationship. In other words, assertiveness usuallyequates to high self-esteem, which is sexy.

On the other hand, aggressiveness is quite unattractive.Excessive nagging, bossiness, and other forceful ways of communicating indicatethat a woman is more concerned about getting her way than reaching win-winsolutions. Aggression isnt a bad thing; it just has its place. Andhigh-quality men, those who assert their boundaries, lead well, and respectothers, rarely fall head over heels in love with more aggressive types ofwomen.

As I stated earlier, a good man doesnt want a doormat,but he doesnt want an overly demanding devil-in-a-skirt either. When it comesto relationships, most women would admit that they prefer a man who knows whathe wants, speaks his mind, and asserts himself over a super aggressive,self-absorbed alpha male or a passive-aggressive Mr. Walk-All-Over-Me Nice Guy.The same applies to men, as we prefer being in a relationship with a self-confident,tender, and dignified woman over the super aggressive, hell-on-high-heels typesor the Mrs. Ill-Do-Whatever-You-Say Nice Girls. One group may be a lot of fun,at first, but way too stressful to deal with in a long-term relationship, andthe other group is easy to handle, butboring. The point is, you can be softand tender and still be a force to be reckoned with if your boundaries arecrossed. You dont have to be one or the other when it comes to dating andrelating with men.

Why Single, Dating, and Married WomenNEED This Book

This book is for women who have difficulty communicatingwith men. Whether youre a single woman trying to find Mr. Right in a sea ofmediocre suitors or a married woman who wants to improve the quality of hermarriage, this little book can help. Chances are, youve read just abouteverything you can on how to keep a man interested in you. Womens magazinesoften give advice like be your best self, focus on you, or put on thatmini-skirt he loves. While these things do work to keep a man interested,theyre surface level tactics that only work temporarily.

If youve ever had a man shut you out or shut down on youduring an argument, its because you failed to communicate respectfully. If youwant to be able to communicate your needs and wants to a man without him losinghis temper or ignoring you completely, you must learn how to talk to a man, gracefully. If a man doesnt feelrespected when you communicate with him its impossible to connect with him onan intimate level. And without that intimate connection, theres nothing youcan do to keep him captivated by you. Men give their undivided attention tothose who respect them.

The woman who knows how to communicate with men caninfluence the man she wants without resorting to that mini-skirt he loves. Aman craves the attention of a graceful woman who knows exactly what to say tohim, when to say it, and most importantly, howto say it to get what SHE wants. Men love being gracefully influenced by the woman they adore.

So if youre interested in learning how to talk to a manso that he opens up to you, listens to you, and willingly gives you what youwant without a fuss, this book will help you to communicate with men moreeffectively.