There are a very few moments that we recall as truly significant shifts in our lives. These often if not always come through conversation. Read this book and understand why a powerful guide to genuine growth and change.
William Isaacs, author of Dialogue and the Art of Thinking Together and Senior Lecturer at MIT Sloan School of Management
We evolve through conversation. When you are willing to change the conversation you are having, with others or with yourself, it can literally change your life. This great book shows you how.
Robert Holden PhD, author of Shift Happens! and Happiness NOW
Conversation is key to enhancing our relationships. This book gives you powerful tools so you can have heart-to-heart interactions that will be make your relationships more rich, fulfilling and transformative.
Marci Shimoff, New York Times bestselling author of Love for No Reason and Happy for No Reason, and featured teacher in The Secret
Life-changing Conversations by Sarah Rozenthuler is the epitome of excellence in the art of introspective communication. This powerful book provides the tools, tactics and strategies to enter a world of Big Conversations with others and ourselves. These conversations become the trajectories for a much deeper insight into ourselves and the world around us. If getting the most out of life is important to you, you must read Life-changing Conversations!
Eldon Taylor PhD, FAPA, radio personality and New York Times bestselling author of Choices and Illusions and Mind Programming
Life-changing Conversations is a vital, useful, practical book which will assist you in learning how to share your own personal truth with others. This book delivers precisely what the title states. And I highly recommend it!
Christiane Northrup, MD, ob/gyn physician and author of the New York Times bestsellers Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause
Life-changing Conversations is a gem insightful, thought-provoking, well-written and based on good psychological theory and practice. For decades psychologists and therapists have known the value of simply talking, yet people still underestimate the power of conversations. In this book the author provides an expert and compelling insight into conversation, ably and seamlessly linking theory to practice, making the complex easily accessible and inspiring readers. I thoroughly recommend this book to anyone interested in learning more about the power of conversations.
Neil Anderson PhD, Professor of Human Resource Management and Director of Research at Brunel Business School
This book needed to be written. Succinctly and by means of intriguing stories, it gives us hints and skills that can save a marriage, broker a deal or start a magnificent future for someone, and quite conceivably for you. Sarah Rozenthuler has insights into the ways we need to talk with each other to make sense of the challenging years that lie ahead of us. She has the inside story on how we need to connect, in order to evolve as a species.
Dr Scilla Elworthy, Nobel Peace Prize nominee and founder of the Oxford Research Group and Peace Direct
Most people have a dread of confrontation. This is partly because most people do it very badly. I often give my clients information about good confrontation. Now I dont need to, because it is all here. Good stuff and worth pursuing!
Dr John Rowan, author of Ordinary Ecstasy
In a style that is warm, engaging and encouraging, this book invites us to enrich our conversational lives. We are shown that our conversations are pivotal to our personal unfolding, and that we can readily learn to have big conversations more skilfully. One of the great qualities of the book is that you feel as if you are having an inspiring conversation with the author.
Graham Lee, author of Leadership Coaching
This book will inspire and enable you to have a big conversation, be it in your personal or business life. It is packed with practical guidance, exercises and stories that bring to life the power of skilful conversation. Sarahs critical reflection on her own story, as well as those of the people she has coached, is truly compelling. A really good read.
Dominic Mahony, Director of Lane4 Consultancy
The best thing Ive read on conversations (and how they change your life) in 20 years. Full of head, heart, hand and soul. Its practical, rigorous, deeply personal, clever and accessible. Every story connected and resonated with my life as a parent, son, husband, consultant, tutor and sometime free/unfree spirit.
John Higgins, research associate at Ashridge Business School and author of Images of Authority, Organisational Consulting and Organisational Consulting
This is a most valuable and timely book; in todays complex world it is increasingly important to engage authentically with people who matter to us. Sarah helps us through practical tools and personal stories to discover how pivotal conversations can help us to mature and grow.
Dr James Pritchard, learning consultant, Civil Service Learning
Sarah Rozenthuler is an author, spiritual educator and leadership development consultant, with over 10 years experience working with large organizations such as the World Bank, the BBC, BP and the UK Civil Service. She specializes in the field of dialogue, helping business leaders and their teams to have more creative, powerful conversations about what matters most.
Sarah has co-facilitated several retreats with Neale Donald Walsch, best-selling author of Conversations with God, who has called Sarah, The next best thing to me. She has led cutting-edge mind-body-spirit events since 2007, which have earned her an international reputation.
Sarah has a first class degree in psychology from the University of Nottingham, and a post-graduate certificate in spiritual development from the University of Surrey. However, her real masterclass in handling people and group facilitation was four years working as a street circus performer, juggling fire in the fiestas of Spain.
Life -
Changing
Conversations
strategies for
talking about
what matters most
SARAH ROZENTHULER
For Mum and Dad,
with thanks for all our conversations
the big and the small
CONTENTS
FOREWORD
T hroughout my life I have always felt and experienced that there is no problem between people who love each other that cannot be resolved by talking about it. The power of conversation is enormous. Yet I can tell you that in 25 years of spiritual coaching with over 10,000 people, I have actually encountered (more than I ever suspected that I might) an enormous reluctance on the part of even those in normally close, loving relationships to exchange, in direct conversation, information about what is so for them.
The plain fact is that many people are simply loathe to enter into open discussion about anything they believe could be the least bit self-revealing to say nothing about minimally unpleasant or mildly confrontational. I wondered about this for some time, because I know that at our core most of us yearn to be