Mali Apple - The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT THE SOULMATE EXPERIENCE

What a beautiful book! Written without the trappings of spiritual or psychological jargon, The Soulmate Experience is a user-friendly guide to a completely authentic way of being. In a simple and personal way, Mali and Joe usher you into a new paradigm of relating where the truth of unconditional love can actually be known and lived. ~Tobin Giblin, author of The Art of Mindful Living

Mali and Joe get to the heart of the heart. ~Frank Ferrante, star of May I Be Frank

Reading this book is like listening to your best friend who knows you better than anyone else and loves you unconditionally. ~Laura Alavosus

The Soulmate Experience has quite literally given me a new way to look at my life. ~Evie Romero

A truly wonderful book: easy to read and digest, practical, lighthearted, full of compassion and encouragement. One of those books you can pick up for a few moments and transform your day. ~Ed Tucker

You are in great hands here with Mali and Joe and The Soulmate Experience . Their loving hearts, minds, and souls are here to change the world as we know it. ~Colette Kenney

This book demonstrates what soul-level connection is all about and how it can be cultivatedwith lots of suggestions and ways for couples to get there together. ~Monty Perry

The planet needs this book as soon as possible. ~Diane Knorr

This is a great guide to follow if you want a soulmate relationshipnot only with that special someone, but with everyone you will ever meet. ~Matthew M. Watson

Looking at conflict as an opportunity to make a deeper connection with my husband shifted my thinking and deepened my love. ~Amy Zimmer

Thank you for being a part of the healing of the world! ~Avasa Love

What a pleasurable book to read! The language is so natural, the stories so easy to identify with, and the advice so practicalI felt like I was sitting around a kitchen table having a conversation with the authors. ~Diane Hart

Buy this book even if you dont think you need it. The messages in it will transform your life and your relationships. ~Jean Marshall

Mali and Joe offer inspiration and affirmation along every step of the path. ~Beth Middlecamp

No matter how many other relationship books youve read, this is the book that gives you the tools to attract a soulmate, and find solutions to the challenges of relationship that will allow that soulmate experience to blossom. ~Joanne Sprott

Thank you for sharing your great teachings and way of being together in the world. ~Sandy Morris

As a married couple, we are delighted with this book. The Soulmate Experience is a must-read for all those desiring to bring love to themselves and healing to the world. ~Carole Christe and Buzz Foote

When I think of being in the presence of you two, I am overwhelmed with love and peace. Thank you for being here and being awakened. ~Megan Monique Harner

I just need to keep reading this book over and over again. Its made a huge difference in meeting new people. ~Deborah Newton

This book is not just about creating soulmate relationships with others. Its about loving yourself enough to be open to receiving and giving love. I just want to buy up a million copies for all of my friends! ~Katie Le Normand

Love the ideas and conceptsand especially the tons of easy to understand, practical suggestions. ~Deanna Dudney

The world is a better place because the two of you care so much. ~Paul Contento

I love this book. Do you think it would marry me? ~Anna Embree

THE SOULMATE EXPERIENCE

A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO CREATING EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIPS

Mali Apple & Joe Dunn

Copyright 2011 by Mali Apple and Joe Dunn

All rights reserved, including the right to reproduce this work in any form whatsoever, without permission in writing from the publisher, except for brief passages in connection with a review. Printed in the United States of America.

Published in the United States by A Higher Possibility, San Rafael, California www.ahigherpossibility.com

Editor: Anna Embree
Cover design: David Woods
Interior art: Freedom Bean
Author photograph: Dominic Colacchio
Michael Naumer photograph: Mary Small

Cover image, top: Copyright Serghei Velusceac, 2011. Bottom: Copyright Hctor Fernndez Santos-Dez, 2011. Used under license from Shutterstock.com.

ISBN 978-0-9845622-1-3

Publishers Cataloging-in-Publication Data available upon request.

To Joe
For so willingly exploring all that it means to be in love
For gently encouraging me to be everything
I have the potential to be
And most of all, for opening my heart
Mali

To Mali
My lover, my spiritual teacher, and my best friend
I will be forever grateful for this heart-opening opportunity to live life with you
Joe

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CONTENTS

A Word About Our Soulmate Experience

Just like many other couples in a new relationship, we experienced a deeply profound, almost magical feeling of connection, what many would call a soulmate connection. But rather than gradually fading away, as so often happens, the love and passion we were experiencing actually continued to grow. We eventually found ourselves inspiredand even compelledto investigate just what was making this soulmate experience possible. What was keeping the magic alive?

As we dedicated ourselves and our relationship to exploring this one question, we also began to coach singles and couples in applying our discoveries so that they could transform their own lives. Were thrilled by the rapid shifts were seeing in the people we inspire and coach. People from all over the world say theyre feeling more loving and accepting toward themselves, more connected to those around them, and more confident about the possibility of creating their own soulmate experience. And many of them are doing just that.

This is not just another relationship book. Many of our ideas are unconventional. They also work .

People often tell us were the happiest couple theyve ever met. They see how connected we are, and they want to know our secrets. These are our secretsall the ideas, tools, and techniques we use to continually create a magical life together.

We use these ideas to allow the things that come up in every relationshipfrom fears and expectations to jealousy and resentmentto enhance our experience rather than detract from it.

We use these ideas to lovingly guide each other into opening up to everything we have the potential to be.

We use these ideas to keep the love, passion, and fun alive, every single day.

We believe that as you incorporate even just a few of these ideas into your own life, all your relationshipsincluding the one you have with yourselfwill begin to feel more loving, more connected, and more rewarding. Youll find yourself feeling confident, excited, and inspired. And you will realize that you have everything it takes to create your soulmate experience.

In love,

Mali and Joe

Introduction

Are you longing for a soulmate, someone you feel deeply connected to emotionally, physically, and spiritually? Are you ready to finally have your soulmate experience?