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Whether the narcissist in your life is a boss, coworker, relative, or romantic partner, the exercises and advice in Unmasking Narcissism will help you set healthy boundaries and make sense of this complex and often painful issue.

In this groundbreaking guide from clinical psychologist Mark Ettensohn, PsyD., you will gain insight into narcissistic behaviors, symptoms, and relationship dynamics. Dr. Ettensohn provides exercises designed to help you clarify your own values and goals for the relationship, whether that means immediate separation or long-term relationship management. Anyone whose life has been touched by narcissism will find this book helpful - whether you are coming to terms with a loved ones diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD), or working to move forward after leaving a narcissistic relationship.

Unmasking Narcissism provides strategies and coping styles that will guide you toward a deeper understanding of both the narcissist and yourself, with:

  • Easy-to-read sections aligned with the DSM-5 criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
  • Explanations of both grandiose (overt) and vulnerable (covert) narcissism.
  • Healing tools and techniques, including how to defuse arguments instead of fuel them, mindfulness meditation, and exploring vulnerability.
  • Real-world stories of people coping with narcissists.

Throughout, Unmasking Narcissism offers a fully realized, yet compassionate portrait of narcissism that will help you on your path to healing without compromising your own mental health and wellness.

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Foreword M any people know the term narcissism comes from the tale of - photo 3
Foreword

M any people know the term narcissism comes from the tale of Narcissus, the Greek youth who fell in love with his own reflection. Still, many are unsure how to identify narcissism, and perhaps most importantly, how to live with it when the disorder has an effect on them. Whats important to first understand is that, unlike the handsome and vain Narcissus, a true narcissist doesnt really love himself; rather, he suffers from a lack of an authentic self.

People who tend toward narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) did not develop a healthy sense of self-esteem at a critical age. Whether the fault of caregivers who were unable to provide empathetic attunement to their young child, or the result of another trauma, the consequences are that narcissists believe they must be beautiful, smart, talented, and admired. Narcissists are often high-achieving individuals who possess a constant need to prove themselves to gain loveand to compensate for the lack of it in their childhood. As children, many people with NPD had to present an image of perfection, beauty, and success. As a result, they wear the mask of a false self, afraid others will perceive these feelings of inadequacy through their disguise.

No matter how difficult those with NPD may be to relate to, its important to note that the dynamics resulting in troublesome behaviors, such as the constant need for admiration and assurance, the lack of empathy, and the arrogance and vanity, are simply unconscious attempts to maintain a false self. After feeling that their true thoughts and feelings didnt matter, narcissists may fear for their psychological survival and become preoccupied with having their needs met and their feelings understood or mirrored.

When you understand the roots of NPD, you can learn to alter the dynamics of a difficult relationship between yourself and someone who exhibits narcissistic tendencies. In this book, youll gain tools to transform your relationships, with the goal that you can become your own advocate, rather than try to change the narcissist. While the natural tendency may be to confront a narcissist about their offending behavior, this tactic has poor results and reinforces the narcissists feelings of victimization. The best strategy is to make the narcissist feel wanted and appreciated. Meeting negativity with more negativity fuels the narcissists need to defend. Instead, defuse the interaction by acting on insight and attempt to make your own needs known in a calm, nonconfrontational way. When dealing with a narcissist who knows no boundaries in his demands, make space for yourself by saying no in a kind manner in moments of calm. Issuing ultimatums and blame may be a relief in the moment, but it will ultimately put you in a hard position. Theres one exception: when dealing with a malignant narcissist who may be dangerous, your only course of action may be to exit the relationship. Dont tolerate exploitative and abusive behavior, or become swept up in polarized thinking. The narcissist can both idealize and devalue those involved with him, and you dont want to be caught up in either mental state. The goal is to move back into the middle ground, keeping sight of yourself, your sense of worth, and your own needs.

Your loved one, friend, or coworker may always be a narcissist, but there are ways to healeven if its just within yourself. Once you understand the root of his or her behavior, you can begin to act upon it in a healthy, calm way and create a better environment for everyone. I urge you to use this book as you travel the path toward healing. Perform the exercises and use the tools presented within to help you survive and thrive during the ups and downs of difficult interpersonal relationships.

Jane Simon, M.D., New York, New York

INTRODUCTION
More than a Myth

Narcissists tend to be treated with disdain. The common stereotypes are that they are selfish, arrogant, and entitled predators who use people up and throw them away without a second thought. Search online for advice on how to deal with a narcissist and youll be buried in an avalanche of articles that all basically say the same thing: leave. Narcissism is so maligned that you would be hard-pressed to find more than a handful of contemporary writers willing to say anything positive about individuals with narcissistic tendencies. To call someone a narcissist is tantamount to calling him or her a jerk. Numerous sources support this point of view.

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