Savannah Smoke - How to Change Toxic Relationships

Copyright 2020 by Savannah Smoke.

All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotations em- bodied in critical articles or reviews.

This book is a work of non-fiction. Names have been changed to protect the idenify of the the people used in the examples. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, events, or locales is entirely coincidental.

Personal medical disclaimer:

All of the following is presented as personal opinion and does not mean to be medical advice nor in anyway to be an endorsement of any of the treatments or items listed herein. Always consult a physician for all medical advice. This document can contain errors and omissions and should not take the place of licensed medical care. I am a spiritualist not a medical doctor. These are my experiences with health and the keys to immunity are my personal opinion.

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ISBN: 123456789

First Edition: March 2020

Print ISBN number 978-1-948881-00-5

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Introduction

Shouldnt someone give us a road map to personality disorders when we are born? Of all the things we learn some of the most crucial, beneficial information is completely missed! We are here haphazardly building ourselves through this journey called life. As we grow into adults, we find ourselves locked into toxic situations and relationships that become painful aspects of our lives. They do not educate us on how to handle these challenging and hurtful people or encounters.

Right now, we are in a fascinating time of soul healing and enlightenment!

All along difficult toxic personalities have been designed to teach us our inner wounds and unhealed parts. Yet I never knew. No one let me in on the secret. Once I got educated, I started to understand exactly what was going on. Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically, I began to sharpen my wits. I started training, healing, and growing through dun, dun, dun The Narcissists on Battlefield Earth.

I am eternally grateful. You will be too. Through the course of this book, I will unravel the science and spiritual purpose of these relationships. You will know how to catapult over ALL their nonsense with ease and grace. No one has taught us these principles. We have been operating blind with these personalities, and now its time to turn the tables.

Take control and beat the narcissists, toxic, controlling, and manipulative personalities at their own game. Not by joining them in their tactics but healing, growing, and evolving into the person you are destined to become. If you are a target to their techniques, there are elements of you that attracted the relationship. You just need to open your eyes in new ways and do the inner soul work to stop stepping in their trap.

Oh, the beauty when you see your experiences with them in a new light. The blinders youve been looking through fall off. All the systems of suffering they set up for you become blazingly obvious. Not only that, but you understand their purpose. You are no longer confused by their crazy-making behaviors. As you read and apply the knowledge in these pages you will learn the specific tools, techniques, and elements to break through the barriers.

You will have a new inner strength and sense of power, knowing you can deal with these personalities effortlessly. You are no longer their pinball being looped into their nonsense, emotionally crushed, mentally brainwashed, or physically drained. The days of being a victim because they appealed to your compassionate heart are over. All your weaknesses, nave perspective, and gullible ways you have turned around.

The mystery of why these personalities keep coming into your life is completely unraveled. You realize if you are a victim to narcissists, you attracted them by being a match. This is where we level up and get accountable. Our souls line up and these invisible magnetic charges bind us together. You have the exact opposite charge or unhealthy and out of balance opposing quality. Only by healing that inner wound and balancing our dysfunctions can we stop playing our role in the relationship.

Both parties become a mirror to inner imbalances:

Nave/Gullible attracts Liar/Manipulator

Non-Confrontational attracts Confrontational

Insecure/Self-Doubt attracts Over Confident/Ego Maniac

Overly Sensitive attracts Insensitive

Cannot Receive attracts Cannot Give

No Personal Boundaries attracts Over Steps Your Boundaries

Accepts All Blame attracts Cant Be Responsible for Blame

This book will teach you exactly how to stand rock-solid, completely peel away all narcissistic supply, and balance your internal scales. Imagine how you will feel when confronting the narcissist as a healthy, whole, an educated version of YOU! All the tactics, techniques, and tools they used and why you fell for them become obvious. You no longer fit in as their victim.

We will dive deep into these techniques. You will see how to unravel your own weaknesses and unhealed traumas. Your soul wounds created the need for them in your life. The personality characteristics work together like gears on a clock. Suffering ticking away, time is moving yet standing still. Now you have all the answers to transform, heal, and evolve.

For example,

Gaslighting: The universe has a consequence for those not fully present in the moment. Now you have decided to start paying attention and taking notes. You dont let the twisted illusion of the narcissist disillusion you. They used to win at this head game because they would lie and manipulate situations, people, and events to convince you they are right. Before you questioned and doubted yourself, but now you are interviewing and challenging them. You know their twisted reality and dont fall into their trap. Those situations that used to leave you confused and frazzled become opportunities to have your opinion be voiced. The daydreaming, non-confrontational, insecure, and overly sensitive part of you is no longer running your show.

Spiritual growth: Believing, trusting, and standing up for your gut feeling and intuition. Becoming present in reality rather than daydreaming and floating through life. Self-trust rather than self-skepticism.

If you want a deeper look into this concept you can find my YouTube Video explanation by clicking this link. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68DL1smdbnE&t=4s

Smear Campaigns: The grand actor is up to their tricks and is using others against you. They have portrayed themselves as the innocent victim. You are the abuser, toxic person, and dysfunctional part of the relationship. This can be so challenging when you know lies have been twisted against you. Before this would have frustrated you to no end. Now you realize you have to know who you are, what you stand for, and your principles to gain inner strength. No matter what anyone else thinks or who falls prey to their charms and manipulations, you know who you are and the truth. You are using the experience to gain inner solidity and be un-wavered by others opinions.