To God, whose glory makes all things possible. To my husband, Jason, you are an amazing man and a wonderful Father. To my beautiful mother, Kristy, words aren't enough to express my gratitude and love for you. To my life long best friend, Staci, for being the yin to my yang. To my grandmother, Marvis, for motivating me when I had almost given up.
To all the women before me who have gone against the grain, stood up for our rights, and served as positive examples to other young women...
Introduction
This book will dramatically empower your life as a woman by changing the way you look at men and dating. It will also teach you valuable secrets that will uncover your natural abilities to control your relationships and have men at your feet. Once youre able to alter your perception and utilize the 12 secret powers, youll feel like a new woman. Youll effortlessly break the cycle of bad relationships, find the man of your dreams, make him fall head over heels in love with you and give you everything you ever wanted!
Every woman has the potential to make this happen. It doesn't matter if you are fat, short, tall, skinny or shy. You could be a woman whos 18 and single, or 45 and divorced for the third time. Whoever you are and whatever youre going through, you carry the potential within you to completely change your outcomes with men. Im sure youve seen an array of examples of women who manage the impossible.
The unattractive woman with the good-looking man that makes you think, what does he see in her? The woman you know whos a complete bitch, yet her man is at her beck and call. The women who have men at their disposal, buying them gifts and never hesitating to treat them like princesses.
Have you ever wondered why some women can get men to treat them well, while other women struggle with their relationships? What are these women doing that the other women arent? I can tell you these women dont fall into these situations by accident. While some women are able to do this naturally, some women know exactly what theyre doing. They intentionally manipulate the male mind by using simple techniques that all women possess. I call these techniques powers because they allow us to have great power over men.
All we need to know is what these powers are and how to use them. Thats exactly what this book is going to teach you. Unfortunately, many women will go through life without this knowledge. Instead, they will instinctively go with the flow of love, following destiny and fate, only to end up hurt in the end.
Some of us fall for a person so hard we end up being hurt by him repeatedly. Some of us will get hurt by a man and learn from the mistake, only to move on to another man who ends up hurting us in a completely different way. We learn from one heart break, only to move on to the next heart breaker! This happens over and over again until most of us end up with a bitter mindset; believing all men are assholes, users, liars and cheaters.
Not all men are shit heads, I promise. Honestly, there are some really awesome men out there! But, the challenge we face isnt in simply finding the good man. The real challenge lies within two things: being able to recognize a good man, but also being the type of woman that makes him want to be your good man. However, as we all know, making any man want to be dedicated, faithful and caring can sometimes be a challenge. It takes skill. The powers are going to provide you with that expertise.
Knowledge is power. The game is about to change. Youre going to be the one breaking hearts, using men, serial dating, and making men fall for you; instead of the other way around. This is going to be fun and exciting! When its all over, youll feel refreshed, empowered, and excited about dating and being a woman.
The book is broken down into 12 chapters. Each chapter will discuss one of the 12 powers. Ill go into detail about each power and how to apply it in real life situations. There will also be a few important assignments throughout the book. I suggest completing these assignments in a journal, that way you can reflect upon your answers later. I will also include resources, helpful links, and other information to help guide you, motivate you, and keep you on track once youre done with the book.
I also need to warn you that Ill be very blunt and brutally honest throughout the book. I dont sugar coat anything. Ill cover subject matter which may be offensive to some readers. Ill use curse words and there will be sexually explicit moments throughout the book. This is my way of getting my message across and my own personal writing style.
Im not here to beat around the bush and be proper, Im here to empower you. Therefore, I apologize in advance if you are offended at any time during the book. Its my hope that youll appreciate the straight forward girl talk.
Before we move forward with the book, I must ask for three things: Courage. Commitment. Change. Your commitment to follow through and your courage to change will directly reflect your success . The old ways werent working, so now its time to change if you want to start experiencing a different outcome with men.
See, right now you have a certain mind set and attitude towards men and dating. That old belief system will have to be completely destroyed and replaced with a brand new belief system. Its going to be uncomfortable and seem impossible at first. However, if youre determined to change your outcomes with men, youll get the hang of it. Before you know it, this will all become second nature to you.
At times, you may find it awkward to put the advice into action. Just realize that this uncomfortable feeling is a part of changing. Be brave enough to embrace the discomfort and move forward. With practice and time, it will all begin to feel normal. Just like learning to ride a bike, at first it seemed impossible. After a few practice runs, you got the hang of it and now you can ride a bike with ease. Learning a new style of interacting with men will be the same way.