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The Hot Guyde is the most comprehensive mens dating advice book ever written, designed to be everything you need to transform into the most attractive version of yourself. There are no lines or routines; instead youll find exercises and information to improve your self-esteem, social skills, and other elements integral to self-improvement and romantic success. Everything in these pages is backed with scientific evidence, and when I say scientific evidence, I mean cited peer-reviewed literature, not pop evolutionary psychology or the law of attraction. You wont be reading anecdotes telling you about my dating successes or opinions; youll be learning the practical steps necessary for the specific changes you want to manifest in your life.The Hot Guyde is divided into four sections:Part I - PsychologyPart I focuses on the internal elements of dating. How do you overcome your toxic self-limiting beliefs that keep you from being authentic with the women youre attracted to? How do you overcome your fears? How can you stay motivated to make your changes? You will learn clinically effective approaches to all of these and more.Part II - Social SkillsFor many men, the biggest barrier between themselves and romantic success is a lack of social skills and awareness. In Part II, youll learn how to shore up this weakness. You will learn how to listen, banter, share stories, and assert yourself with others. Youll learn how to improve your body language and vocal tonality to project confidence and charisma. You will become one of the most charming men youll ever meet.Part III - Physical AttractivenessPart III will teach you how to improve your physical features. The first two chapters detail the most clinically effective approaches to diet and exercise. Well also discuss the basics of fashion and how to dress to impress. Master Part III, and when you go out, you will be the sort of man who turns heads.Part IV - DatingThe final portion of The Hot Guyde deals with actual dating. Youll learn the best places to meet women, how to flirt with them when you do, and how to ask them out. Youll learn how to plan brag-worthy romantic evenings and deal with hazards like last-minute cancellations. Youll learn how to break the touch barrier without violating the women whod rather you didnt, as well as how to perform better in bed. Youll learn why relationships fail and how to avoid the pitfalls most couples fall into, and youll come to understand dating from womens perspective, including many of the cultural factors they face that most men dont understand.The Hot Guyde is a labor of love. I wrote it to be everything I wish Id known when I was younger, the sorts of things that turned my life around for the better. I hope it does the same for you.

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The Hot Guyde

How to Become an Attractive Man

By Howie Reith

Copyright Howard Reith 2016

All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review as permitted by US copyright law.

First Printing, 2016

ISBN 978-0-9983527-0-1

To contact the copyright owner, please email Howard Reith at .

Contents

Acknowledgments

I would like to thank Erin L. Sullivan and Jordan Allen for your help and feedback as I developed this book. It would not be the same without either of you. Thank you to Jane Lincoln Taylor for editing this work for publication, and figuring out how to say the words in my head better than I knew how to say them. Thank you to Janet Dado for contributing the cover art, and to Elizabeth Clark Libert for taking the author photo. Thank you to the many scientists and authors listed in my references for your contributions to my own personal development and this work. Thank you to Quora, to my followers and supporters who use the site, and to everyone else whos sought advice from me, for inspiring me to write. I undertook this project because you showed me it was worth it. I hope it helps you and many others.

Introduction

For two years Id had a crush on her. She was beautiful, smart, a talented dancer, and living down the street from me to boot. All of my friendshell, most of the schoolknew about my feelings. Theyd been trying to get me to ask her out, and Id decided the moment had come. It was the night of our eighth-grade end-of-the-year social, and I resolved to ask her to dance. After two hours of talking myself into it, I walked up to her andfroze. I couldnt do it. The anxiety was too extreme. My buddy, whod been watching, wasnt going to let me get away with that. He snuck up, tapped her on the shoulder, and ran away, spurring her to turn and face me. I was surprised, but blurted out, You want to dance? Her reply was instant. Nooooooooooooooooooooo!

It was my first rejectionthe first of hundreds. I sulked for the next couple of days, but on the third day, as I sat in art class, I made myself a promise. This isnt how my storys going to end. I know, melodramatic, huh? From this day on, I will do everything I can to become the most attractive man I can be until Im thirty years old. Why thirty? I dont know. It seemed far off at the time, and I figured Id get married by then. (Funny to think about, now that Im twenty-nine.)

Fortunately for me, I followed through. Every year since, Ive done my best to learn about dating, relationships, and becoming more attractive. I asked my female friends what they liked in guys, I tried out new fashions and hobbies, and I started working out. Later on, I began studying psychology, self-help, and anything else remotely relevant I could get my hands on. Most of my early efforts were misguided, but every year, without fail, I had more success than the year before. I went from the creepy guy in high school to a guy who intrigued pretty much every woman he met. In recent years, Ive never lacked sexual companions, and today, Im in a relationship that makes me happier than Ive ever been.

Around the age of twenty-three, I made a discovery. Trying to be attractive is actually a pretty damn unattractive thing to do. Attraction is something other people feel toward you, not something you do, so when youre trying to be attractive, youre looking to warp other peoples perceptions. Its manipulative, and when women realize youre doing it, they find it creepy. I learned that you cant control how anyone sees you, or whether anyone likes you, and you shouldnt try. All you can control is how you see yourselfand whether or not you ask out the women you like. Attractiveness isnt something you can work to have; its something you develop as a side effect of living an interesting life. Once I understood that, the way forward became clear. I needed to learn to be direct, authentic, and comfortable with dating, and doing that was just a matter of removing the obstacles on that path. My biggest barriers were a lack of confidence in myself and a lack of social skills. If I could address those problems, I figured Id be golden, and I was right. Of course, those werent exactly small problems to solve.

Youve picked up this book looking for dating advice, and if youre anything like I was, youve pored over endless volumes on this subject and found most of them to be bullshit. Perhaps youve delved into the seduction community, or the work of alpha male evangelists, or the books on achieving dating success through various spiritual movements. Maybe youve just had friends offering you platitudes such as Be yourself. Youre frustrated, and youre probably wondering if The Hot Guyde will be more of the same.

I never expected to give dating advice. Its something I more or less stumbled into when I started answering questions about dating on the Q&A website Quora. I began answering those questions out of boredom, but after several months, hundreds of people were telling me how my advice had changed their lives. My writing got published in the Huffington Post, Time, Lifehacker, Thought Catalog, and elsewhere. People kept asking me where to learn everything I had to say, and all I could do was give them a long reading list, each item of which was only partially applicable to their needs. I was encouraged to write a book that focused on the most important lessons, so I have. Ive designed this book to be the resource I wish I had had when I was younger, and Ive tried to keep it free of all the shit that annoys me most about the dating-advice industry and the self-help genre. This book is structured around problems, solutions, explanations, and exercises that put those solutions into practice. Everything I recommend is based on scientific research, mostly in the fields of cognitive therapy, social psychology, and couples therapy. You will find no misguided appeals to the Law of Attraction, pop evolutionary psychology, neurolinguistic programming, or any such pseudoscience. I also offer references for everything I suggest, so if you care to look into why I recommend what I do, you can read any of my sources for yourself.

Who Is This Book For?

I wrote this book for heterosexual guys whod like to have more success in dating, though come to think of it, most of the insights Im sharing can help anyone in any sort of relationship. Do you freak out about how women judge you? Are you depressed because you think youll be alone forever, and that depression keeps you from meeting women? Do you have bitter, misogynistic views? Are you stinky? This book will help with all of that and more. I also hope that when you finish this book, dating success will be the least of the benefits you enjoy. Its not a guide to getting laid; its a guide to becoming an attractive man, and that entails a lot of personal changes that are incredibly beneficial in their own right. Yes, women will love you, but more important than that, youll love yourself.

The Hot Guyde Approach

There are no pickup lines or routines in The Hot Guyde . Since the root of most mens dating struggles lies in our own self-limiting ways of thinking, the most important component of this book is a collection of clinically effective techniques to address self-defeating thoughts. You will learn how to deal with shame, low self-esteem, fear, laziness, and bad habits.

The next big issue most men face is a lack of social skills. We will discuss at length the mechanisms underlying social interactions as understood by psychologists. The Hot Guyde will teach you to be socially aware and adept. You will be capable of mustering confidence, sensitivity, humor, and sexuality as needed.

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