Joseph R. Griffin - What do women desire

WHAT DO WOMEN

DESIRE?

Joseph R. Griffin

Copyright 2020 by United State of America. All rights reserved.

Published by Eaglez House.

No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, scanning, or otherwise, except as permitted under Section 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright Act, without either the prior written permission of the Publisher, or authorization through payment of the appropriate per-copy fee to the Copyright Clearance Center, Inc.

Limit of Liability/Disclaimer of Warranty: While the publisher and author have used their best efforts in preparing this book, they make no representations or warranties with respect to the accuracy or completeness of the contents of this book and specifically disclaim any implied warranties of merchantability or fitness for a particular purpose. No warranty may be created or extended by sales representatives or written sales materials. The advice and strategies contained herein may not be suitable for your situation. You should consult with a professional where appropriate. Neither the publisher nor author shall be liable for any loss of profit or any other commercial damages, including but not limited to special, incidental, consequential, or other damages.

ISBN 978-0-470-45799-3

To All Aspiring Men and Women

who want to UNDERSTAND

what a Woman Desire all over the world

WHAT DO WOMEN DESIRE?

C hristians disagree over the meaning of Genesis 3:16. Some say that a wife desires to serve her husband and make him glad that he married her, others say that a wife desires to usurp her husbands leadership role.

This verse describes something basic in the nature of women.

As engineers would have difficulty building bridges based on wrong understanding of cement, couples have difficulty founding marriages based on a wrong understanding of the wife.

Many men treat their wives as if they expected to be usurped at any moment. If women desire to please their husbands, treating wives as usurpers is a cruel injustice which God hates (Job 8:3, Psalm 19:6); Proverbs 21:3 says that God loves justice more than sacrifice; its important to get this right. The verse says:

Unto the woman he [God] said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. Genesis 3:16

God is teaching Eve about herself and explaining what will happen to her and to her daughters unto all generations, its not a command telling husbands to rule their wives.

Lets examine the verse phrase by phrase:

Greatly multiply thy sorrow

Women generally have more sensitive emotions than men, God thereby greatly multiplies sorrow to women, but the Bible also says:

Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

Emotions are the cement a woman uses to build her house.

T heres no logical reason for a woman to dedicate her life to serving her family and building her house, a woman runs on emotion.

Theres no logical reason for children to stay home and obey a fathers commands; the mothers love draws them and helps them understand the fathers love.

Why should church members accept the pastors teaching about sin?

Because of the love of God as shown by the women who draw the body together, helping people see Gods love and the pastors love.

Women build homes through showing love and emotion, women build churches through showing love and emotion, but they cant build home or church unless theyre free to express their emotions.

Many people have been greeted by a dog.

The dogs whole body vibrates with the joy of fellowship, people say that a dog is mans best friend because dogs express so much joy at being with people.

If people appreciate the dogs joy in fellowship, why shouldnt women show joy at being with other Christians?

Men often dislike womens emotions, equating a womans feelings with being out of control or with being illogical.

As some women cant understand their husbands drive for sex and try to cure his desire, some men cant understand their wives emotions and try to cure her desire for companionship and understanding.

God does wonderful things in simple ways;

He ended a battle using a sound. Its like Him to punish a woman by giving her emotions which make it easy for her husband to rule her while using those same emotions to give her the power to build her home and her church.

Men often view emotion as weakness, but I Corinthians 1:27 says that God uses the weak things of the world to confound the mighty.

God did this on purpose, it was not an accident:

A prudent wife is from the LORD. Proverbs 19:14b

Prudence means thinking ahead; the way a wife thinks, that is, her prudence, is of the Lord.

God made women think that way on purpose.

A man shouldnt mess with his wifes mind, the exact mixture of logic and emotion which God gives each woman makes her want to serve her family and build her home, asking only praise in return (Proverbs 31:28b).

Greatly multiply thy conception

If death hadnt entered the world (Romans 5:12) God would have needed fewer children to populate the earth (Genesis 9:1, Psalm 127:3).

Tradition says Eve had 50 children, even today, having 10, 12, or 14 children is only unusual, not extraordinary. If nobody died, how many fewer children would women have had to bear to reach 4-5 billion people in 6,000 years?

God multiplied childbirth so that His creatures could populate the earth in spite of death.

In sorrow thou shalt bring forth children

A woman when she is in travail hath sorrow, because her hour is come: but as soon as she is delivered of the child, she remembereth no more the anguish, for joy that a man is born into the world. John 16:21

Biologically speaking, this is absurd, pain is the most effective and most memorable teaching technique known.

Women suffer great birth pain yet generally forget about it, so much so that women biologists are often surprised at how their birth experiences are so different from what they know about learning through pain and remembering pain.