Whitmore - Marriage and Intimacy: A Guide to Growing a Happy Relationship Filled with Love and Friendship

Marriage and Intimacy

A Guide to Growing a Happy Relationship Filled with Love and Friendship

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Introduction

Before You Get Started Reading

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I wish to thank and congratulate you for downloading the book How to Grow Sexual Intimacy. This book is meant to serve as a guide for women on how to build and sustain sexual intimacy; a key ingredient to any successful marriage.

You see it is one thing to really love and adore someone yet another to communicate that through action. At any one time, words still remain meaningless without actions. Not to mean however that intimacy is the ultimate expression of love, but it does remain the cutting edge after feelings and those meaningless words settle down.

It is however often easier to blame a failing marriage on finances, career commitments or even parenting, but the unyielding y truth is, lack of sexual intimacy is trending a major marriage killer today. Thanks to Holly Wood, romance novels and past sexual experiences, many people approach marriage with ungrounded perceptions towards sex. Because of this notion, they carry insidious expectations which if they are not met, can spell serious repercussions in any marriage.

Intimacy for starters is not all about what happens in between the sheets; its rather about everything else that transpires before sex. Sexual intimacy is simply the icing on the cake; it is where the ultimate deal is sealed. In essence, how often you want to make love to your partner or how often they want to make love to you lies on a thin line between romance and sex, sexual intimacy!

In reality, men and women view romance and sex through varied lenses. It is imperative to seek to meet your spouses both physical and emotional needs. Make romance a priority in your relationship, create an ambient setting for sex in the bedroom, communicate your commitment and love for them. Bottom line; go all the way for them without holding back.

Continue reading and it remains my greatest hope that the content herein is able to help you improve on intimacy, romance and sex in your marriage. Heres to a Happily ever after for you.

Chapter 1

Seeing Beyond the imperfections

Marriage is not a romance movie

You must admit that when it comes to a romance movie, everything is just flawless. Like boy meets girl, sweeps her so off her feet, falls crazily in love, gets married and lives happily ever after. I mean whats not to love in that fairy tale?

Tell you the truth, though, romance movies dictate an over-simplified version of how things actually really happens. Here everything sort of works itself out in time and the problems are never real, always easy to solve.

Sadly, we all know that real life events dont work that way. It becomes a real story, about real people, with real problems. Sorry to disappoint you but your life is not about to work out like in that romance movie, it shouldnt! You see there will be heartbreaks and trials, these are inevitable, you will triumph and suffer for love and as for that happily ever after, you can bet it wont come cheap.

The good news is that living in reality is incredibly beautiful and liberating. Trying to live your life as that of romantic series and films can easily set you up for disconnect and discontent having to face the reality that your real life love story and marriage will never measure up.

Not to mean however that it is impossible to meet a prince because it is possible to even marry one for keeps. But remember that he will be human, with faults and weaknesses no matter how exceptional and wonderful he is. So I guess at one point, youve just got to drop the crazy metaphor of fairy tale romance to find true love and happiness.

The Utmost Surrender

As a reality check, a marriage is made by two imperfect people despite the idealized version most of us persist to cling onto. There will be many mistakes made, obstacles created and hearts broken; in fact you should know that its only about to get overly chaotic, but hey, thats the beauty of it.

That you encounter bumps and wrinkles along the way; this can only ignite your zeal and resilience. Just as the best leaders have been made through the glaring face of adversity and triumph, so is a resilient marriage.

You are therefore going to need to learn to embrace the mistakes youve made and those of your spouse and instead use them as a learning platform. Love accepts immense imperfections; to love is to surrender to imperfect nature and the inevitable, to fully accommodate.

You are going to need to quit trying so much to fix the other person and instead find inexhaustible ways to complement their flaws. You see fixing is always an inside job and given that all of us are like old houses, fixing one thing no doubt gets another broken.

Pursue therefore the wealth of abundance that comes from inspiring, appreciating and loving genuinely. It is about surrendering to your marriage, to your spouse and finding them perfect through all their imperfections. When we say love conquers all, this includes the imperfections.