Braswell - Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy - The Art of No Contact: A Womans Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power

INTRODUCTION

Just about everywoman has been through a breakup at some point during her life. Maybeyour boyfriend just broke up with you and now all you want to do is crawl inbed and tell the world youre out of the country. It doesnt matterif you dated for three months or three years, life as you knew it drasticallychanged and the man you cared a great deal about is no longer a part of yourreality.

You need to know thatevery woman has the ability to reverse a breakup. It doesnt matter whatthe circumstances are as long as you play your cards right from the beginning,know that you can completely change the outcome. Youve probably known at leastone friend who went a little crazy after a breakup. Maybe you were thatgirl. In my book youll learn why you should stop right now in yourtracks if you are in any way trying to convince your ex why he needs you andwhat you can do to shift the power back in your favor.

When I use the word ignoreor no contact Im not using them in a rude, disrespectful or even achildish way. Youve probably heard the term, Silence speakslouder than words. Many women believe the best way to get their pointacross is to verbally express their feelings. However, after a breakup expressingyour feelings is the last approach you should take because during this time aman doesnt want to hear it. And there is nothing you can say that will changehis mind.

The next few chapters willshow you how to manage your emotions and keep calm with your dignity and pridein check. How to create a plan to put your life back on track withoutwasting precious weeks, months or years holding on to the past, and answers to allof your breakup questions. I also tell you the reaction a man is expectingfrom you and how you can deprive him of the ego boost so many women before youhave provided.

We all invest in oureducation to enhance our knowledge of a subject. And knowledge ispower. We should all learn the same about a breakup. Have a planin place. Remember you are the one who controls you and only you. Years and months down the road youll be glad you took the time to teachyourself this skill. And it is a skill! Controlling your emotionstakes discipline and willpower. Theres no way around ita breakup hurtslike hell. Its unfortunate its not a subject taught in school. And onepoint that I believe all women would agree on is that when it comes to datingwe need help. Lots and lots of help.

This book was written forwomen who are overwhelmed by a breakup and need a survival guide to get throughthe next few weeks or months like a pro. This book gives advice on how tokeep yourself in check, so you can get your love life back to the place itneeds to be. Open, ready and willing to receive love.

If youve ever letyourself fall to pieces, cried, begged and groveled to a man to take you backafter a breakup, or if you have ever sought closure, then youve never learned theart or the power of no contact. Now is the time to learn it, liveit and master it.

Handle a breakup the wrongway and you will ruin the chance of a reconciliation. However, handle it theright way and Mr. Ex will question himself for ever letting you getaway. Always remember the power you possess as a woman still reigns supreme. Youhave everything a man wants and always will.

What is your goal? To be able to function? To get through each day? To move on and forget aboutMr. Ex? Or would you like to lure him back by your side? Standyour ground now, play your cards right and reap the rewards later. Remember to always think of your long-term goals and planbackwards.

Letsbegin!