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Of all the judgments you make in life, none is as important as the one you make about yourself. The difference between low self-esteem and high self-esteem is the difference between passivity and action, between failure and success. Now, one of Americas foremost psychologists and a pioneer in self-esteem development offers a step-by-step guide to strengthening your sense of self-worth. Here are simple, straightforward and effective techniques that will dramatically improve the way you think and feel about yourself. Youll learn:
How to break free of negative self-concepts and self-defeating behavior.
How to dissolve internal barriers to success in work and love.
How to overcome anxiety, depression, guilt and anger.
How to conquer the fear of intimacy and success.
How to find -- and keep -- the courage to love yourself.
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YOU ARE HOW YOU FEELABOUT YOURSELF How we feel about ourselves crucially - photo 1
YOU ARE HOW YOU FEELABOUT YOURSELF

How we feel about ourselves crucially affects virtually every aspect of our experience, from the way we function at work, in love, in sex, to the way we operate as parents, to how high in life we are likely to rise. Our responses to the happenings in our everyday life are shaped by who and what we think we are. Self-esteem is the key to success or failure. Self-esteem has another valueit also holds the key to understanding ourselves and other people. I cannot think of a single psychological problem that is not traceable to a poor self-concept. Positive self-esteem is a cardinal requirement of a fulfilling life.

How do we grow in self-esteem? How do we break the cycle of self-defeating behaviors generated by a deficient self-esteem? These are the questions this book is written to answer.

Dr. Nathaniel Branden

HONORING THE SELF
HOW TO RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM
THE SIX PILLARS OF SELF-ESTEEM

HOW TO RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM A Bantam Book Bantam hardcover edition - photo 2

HOW TO RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM
A Bantam Book
Bantam hardcover edition published March 1987
Bantam paperback edition / November 1988

PUBLISHING HISTORY

All rights reserved.
Copyright 1987 by Nathaniel Branden.
Library of Congress Catalog Card Number: 86-14644.
No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.
For information address: Bantam Books.

eISBN: 978-0-307-79042-2

Published simultaneously in the United States and Canada

Bantam Books are published by Bantam Books, a division of Random House, Inc. Its trademark, consisting of the words Bantam Books and the portrayal of a rooster, is Registered in U.S. Patent and Trademark Office and in other countries. Marca Registrada. Random House, Inc., New York, New York.

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Acknowledgments

I wish to express my appreciation for the many helpful suggestions of my editor, Linda Raglan Cunningham.

I want to acknowledge my wife, Devers, not only for her invaluable editorial assistance but for her innovative work in the field of subpersonality psychology. She has contributed greatly to my understanding of the importance for self-esteem in integrating subselves. In this book, I deal only with the child-self and the teenage-self; in therapy we work also with an opposite gender-selfthat is, a female component in males and a male component in femalesand a mother-self, a father-self, an infant-self, and a higher self.

Preface

Its not easy for me to be in love or to give love, says an attorney, because in my heart I dont feel lovable.

Whatever I do, says a college professor who is also a mother of three, there is always a voice inside me saying, Not enough. Im not enough. Theres not much joy in what I do, always trying to prove myself, just increasing exhaustion.

Whats the point of trying to accomplish anything? asks an unhappy teenager. I always feel as if everyone else knows something I dont knowand cant ever know. Its as if I were born missing something everyone else has.

Happiness frightens me, says a man who has a drinking problem. I have this sense that if Im happy, something terrible will happen. So if things are going too well, I take a drink, and then another, and pretty soon things stop going well, but at least Im not so scaredIm in control, sort ofI know what to expectIm not waiting for lightning to strike.

I know I sleep with too many men, says a woman twice married, twice divorced. For a few minutes, when Im being held, I feel that I matter to someone, that I have value. But thats self-deception and I know it. Afterward, I feel more alone, and I despise myself worse than before, which drives me to the next man. But how do I find a way out? How do I stop? How do I learn to love myself?

How do we grow in self-esteem? How do we break the cycle of self-defeating behaviors generated by deficient self-esteem? These are the questions this book answers.

I began to see that such a book was needed when, while being interviewed following the publication of Honoring the Self, I heard a particular question again and again: Dr. Branden, you have presented a comprehensive picture of the role of self-esteem in human life, and the devastation wrought by a poor self-concept, but in simple everyday terms, what can a person do, without the aid of a psychotherapist, to raise the level of his or her self-esteem? What can we do to believe in ourselves more, trust ourselves more, feel more confident about who we are?

I saw that there was one more book on self-esteem I had to write. This book is not an extension of the theory of self-esteem, but an amplification of its practice. Its basic concern is with the actions, both mental and physical, that advance self-esteem or undermine it.

The strategies for building self-esteem that I recommend in the following pages have been thoroughly tested with thousands of clients in the three decades I have been practicing psychotherapy. On the more personal level, they also have been tested in the arena of my own ongoing pursuit of self-actualization. I have seen my self-esteem strengthen or weaken depending on the degree to which I consistently practiced the principles and practices this book advocates. I do not write as a detached observer, remote from the field of action, but as one who has lived that which I am writing about. These ideas work.

If your goal is growth in self-confidence and self-respect, this book is addressed to you.

However, because the book is action oriented, because it details specific exercises and behaviors in everyday life that raise self-esteem, it is addressed to professionals no less than to nonprofessionals. Psychotherapists know how badly our field needs specific procedures for transforming a poor self-concept. I hope they will choose to experiment in their own practices with the tools this book provides.

Chapter 1
The Importance of Self-Esteem

How we feel about ourselves crucially affects virtually every aspect of our experience, from the way we function at work, in love, in sex, to the way we operate as parents, to how high in life we are likely to rise. Our responses to events are shaped by who and what we think we are. The dramas of our lives are the reflections of our most private visions of ourselves. Thus, self-esteem is the key to success or failure.

It is also the key to understanding ourselves and others.

Apart from problems that are biological in origin, I cannot think of a single psychological difficultyfrom anxiety and depression, to fear of intimacy or of success, to alcohol or drug abuse, to underachievement at school or at work, to spouse battering or child molestation, to sexual dysfunctions or emotional immaturity, to suicide or crimes of violencethat is not traceable to poor self-esteem. Of all the judgments we pass, none is as important as the one we pass on ourselves. Positive self-esteem is a cardinal requirement of a fulfilling life.

Let us understand what self-esteem is. It has two components: a feeling of personal competence and a feeling of personal worth. In other words, self-esteem is the sum of self-confidence and self-respect. It reflects your implicit judgment of your ability to cope with the challenges of your life (to understand and master your problems) and of your right to be happy (to respect and stand up for your interests and needs).

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