Marc Reklau - Love Yourself First!: Boost your self-esteem in 30 Days (Change your habits, change your life Book 4)

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

Boost your self-esteem in 30 Days

How to overcome Low Self-Esteem, Anxiety,

Stress, Insecurity, and Self-Doubt

Marc Reklau

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To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Lets talk about a very important subject. Self-esteem.

Our self-esteem impacts all aspects of our life: our relationships with others, our level of self-confidence, our professional success, our happiness, our inner peace and the success that we aim to achieve in future. Its also the underlying cause of most psychological disorders - not only on an individual level but also on the societal level.

Over the years, Ive seen people making quantum leaps and reaching their greatest goals by just making one single adjustment: Raising their self-esteem.

People with low self-esteem are highly probable to making bad decisions when choosing their partners, projects, or jobs. They are less motivated and less likely to achieve their goals, and their performance is low. If they achieve goals and success, they cant really enjoy them. Their constant need of approval makes them very dependent on other peoples opinions, and they constantly feel they are victims of circumstances. They are usually very hard to themselves and dont deal well with criticism. Low self-esteem causes unhealthy anxiety, depression and many psychosomatic symptoms, including insomnia.

Of course, Im speaking in general terms, and every person is different and has to be examined differently, but those are the characteristics that commonly show up in people with low self-esteem.

People with high self-esteem, on the other hand, have confidence in themselves. They allow themselves to make mistakes without feeling guilty. They are always looking for new ways to learn and growth opportunities. They consider themselves worthy - even when criticized - and have a positive attitude towards themselves and others. They dont feel uncomfortable admitting their mistakes, weaknesses, and vulnerability and live entirely in the present. Having healthy self-esteem basically, means to be happy with yourself and to believe that you deserve the good things life has to offer.

Knowing all the dramatic effects of low and high self-esteem, the question for every one of us becomes how can I get from low to high, from unhealthy to healthy, how can I enhance my self-esteem?

Unfortunately, when we look around us, we see that there is a lot of work to do in the self-esteem area. The reason is that during our childhood and youth we might have developed limiting beliefs that are rooted in our subconscious and while its fun to blame our parents or teachers or everybody else for our low self-esteem, it doesnt really help us to overcome this problem.

We have to take responsibility and become aware that no matter what happened in our past, we are capable of rewriting our story, of building healthy self-esteem. The best is:

There are no secrets to it. It's changing the opinion that you have of yourself by modifying the beliefs you have about yourself, your life, your abilities, and your intrinsic value and the book you hold in your hands will help you with it. It will help you get rid of damaging beliefs like Im a helpless victim and have no power over what happens in my life, Im not good enough, I dont deserve good things in my life, There is something bad in all of us.

If you make the effort and time to work on your self-esteem, the rewards will be awesome:

Higher self-confidence, better social relationships, better work relationships and just making peace with your life are some of them. Criticism from others wont bother you anymore. You will be able to freely express your thoughts, feelings, values, and opinions because your self-worth no longer comes from the acceptance of others. Youll be better able to deal with difficulties, anxiety, depression, and the inevitable hardships that arise. Youll simply experience more happiness and enjoyment in all areas of your life.

Sounds good, right?

How to use this book

There are many ways to use this book. Read the whole book first and get used to the concepts. Some of them will be easy to accept and like, others will be more difficult to accept. Dont worry. You are not the only one this happens to.

Then, read the book a second time and start working. You can start at the beginning and do one exercise after another, or you can just do the exercises you like best, first. Work through the book at your pace and dont let the simplicity of the exercises fool you. Although many concepts and ideas are quite simple, they can improve your life significantly.

Anyways, just reading the book will not be enough. If you want to improve your self-esteem, you also have to put in some work. I promise you it will be worth it.

On a personal note: Work most on the concepts you like least. Yes, you understood right. Work most on the concepts you like least. Those your mind says No way. That isnt true for me. Many times the things you have to learn are the ones you least want to learn, the ones you reject at first. Its a mind thing.

Lets start your journey to raise your self-esteem.Have fun!

Read closely now my friend. This is one of the most important lessons for your self-esteem in this whole book:

When things dont work out as we want, we are often quick to blame God, the universe or other people for it. Im sorry that I have to be the one to tell you this: There is only one person that's responsible for your life, and that is YOU! Not your boss, not your spouse, not your parents, not your friends, not your clients, not the economy, not the weather, not the president. YOU!

Its scary, but at the same time liberating. The day you stop blaming others for everything that happens in your life, everything will change. When you assume control of your life and take full responsibility for it, your relationships will improve a lot. Taking responsibility for your life is taking charge of your life. Instead of being a victim of circumstances, you obtain the power to create your own circumstances or at least the power to decide how you are going to act in the face of circumstances that life presents to you.