H.G. Tudor - Fury

Fury

By

H G Tudor

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Copyright 2016

Fury

By

H G Tudor

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Published by Insight Books

Introduction

Hello and welcome to Fury. What is fury? Fury is defined as a wild or violent anger. Since you are reading this book there is a possibility that you suffer from bouts of fury yourself although I suspect that this is unlikely. It is usually the case that those who suffer from some sort of affliction or disorder fail to recognise that they do. Awareness invariably comes from an external source. Even if they do, they invariably blame shift as they attempt to suggest that their shortcomings are the fault of someone who is entirely blameless. There usually is somebody who is at fault for these flaws. In fact, there are usually at least two. The person who created the problem and the person who does nothing about the issue are the people who are at fault. It is never the person who is the subject of the malign influence who is at fault, no matter how many times we may attempt ourselves to believe to the contrary. Accordingly, those who suffer from fury are unlikely to be reading this book.

It is far more likely that you are the victim of fury and in accordance with your reasoned approach to life you have decided to learn more about this subject with a view to understanding what is the source of the fury and why is it directed towards you? You are the one who has suffered the wild or violent anger and no doubt you have the battles scars to prove it. You no doubt will find an added resonance in a further explanation of what fury is. In Greek mythology, the Furies were three goddesses who executed the curses that had been pronounced upon criminals, tortured the guilty with strings of conscience and inflicted famines and pestilences. The product of those Furies was unpleasant in the extreme. Interesting though the Furies are, this book remains concerned with the concept of fury as a noun. In particular, its emphasis is on the fury that erupts from the narcissist. I am one of those individuals and if you are a regular reader (and if you are not, why not?) you will be familiar with my direct approach. I steer clear of the science that has evolved about me and revolves around me. Whilst there is much value in that, I find it tends to cloud the issue. If you want to read about what the perpetrator has to say about the topic of fury, then you want it in an uncluttered and to the point manner. You will gain most from this precious information being divested in this way. By embracing the no nonsense explanations and examples, drawn from my own experience and those who I have interacted with, then you will learn much about the way the narcissist uses fury to further his or her aims. I also acknowledge the assistance provided by Dr E and Dr O who have enabled me to achieve a greater awareness of the fury that courses through me. Through my sessions with them I have been able to understand why this fury exists, what its purpose is and why I use it? I have always had some understanding of the fury that I possess but I have been afforded a greater insight into its nature and effects through the assistance of the two doctors. They have helped me hone and polish my understanding.

We will be considering such questions as what is fury? How is this fury applicable to the narcissist? What purpose does fury serve for the narcissist? What does this mean for you? Why is the narcissist always in a state of fury? These and other questions will be addressed in my customary style. By reading this and considering the material contained herein you will gain a far better insight into the mind of a narcissist. You will also be aware that we are similar in the way we behave and think. This is especially true when it comes to the issue of fury. What you will read here will resonate with you in respect of your own situation. It may even prove to be the case that the methodology of rage that you recognise within these pages causes you to realise that you are in the grip of a narcissist, whereas before you were unaware that that was the case. The enlightenment can work in a number of ways.

Once armed with this information you can apply it to consider how you might look to escape the fury that is sent your way so often and if that is not possible then you may instead look at the way in which you can manage your situation to deal with the fury in a less damaging and more acceptable manner.

Read on and immerse yourself in the knowledge that follows about the narcissist and fury.

What is Fury?

Fury is the instrument of the narcissist. It is a tool that the narcissist deploys in furtherance of his or her aims. The narcissists toolbox is a thing to behold. It contains many devices, objects and instruments that we deploy in order to secure our objectives. Other people may use these devices in a similar if diminished form but they will not be anywhere near as dangerous and effective as the ones that lurk in my toolkit. Some of these instruments are used to subjugate, others are deployed to control and yet again there are others that will be used for the purposes of manipulation. The placing of fury in this toolbox recognises its use to the narcissist as one of his prime instruments.

In determining what fury is, it will be instructive to start by considering what it is not. Fury is not anger. Anger is below fury on the scale of violent responses. Anger is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure or hostility. It is greater than vexation, it is something more than feeling cross and it is beyond exasperation. Notwithstanding this, it is less than fury. It does not contain the unbridled vitriol that is synonymous with fury. Nor does it contain the violent hostility that one finds with fury. What is most important to know about anger is that it is a normal emotion and thus by comparison, fury is an abnormal emotion, hence why fury sits in our toolkit. Anger is an intense emotional response that is normal in nature and arises as a consequence of real or perceived provocation. Anger in itself is neither good nor bad. It can be used for either purpose and it is down to the manner in which that particular person handles it. An individual may direct it into violence towards another person in order to protect him or herself from a threat. Alternatively, it may manifest in the destruction of property. You as a normal and empathic individual become angry. Indeed, as part of our mission to obtain fuel we strive to provoke anger in you, either through angry gestures or through angry words on your part. This provides us with fuel when you react in this emotional fashion. It is an acceptable and understandable response for an individual to become angry.

It is a normal response to a threat or harm. It also releases pressure that builds up inside a normal person. The expression of anger enables people to dissipate this pressure and thereafter feel spent but better for having been angry, as opposed to suppressing the sensation and allowing the pressure to build even further. Some normal people can only take a small amount of pressure before they blow a fuse whereas other people may be regarded as slow-burners who take a long time before they express anger. In either instance the response is an entirely normal one. People become angry for a host of different reasons, which may include: -

Facing a threat to themselves of their loved ones;

Losing out when money is involved;

Somebody contravenes a principle that is regarded as important to a person;

Being the subject of a verbal or physical assault;

Being treated unfairly but lacking the means to do anything about it;