Jules ModernLover - The Modern Lover: Foundation Guide

A couple of years ago I found myself lying awake in bed in a lavish hotel room at a scenic Colombian beach. The most gorgeous woman I had ever met was sleeping in my arms. We had just had the most amazing love making session, in which she had countless orgasms. It was a marvellous feeling knowing I was the man who made her feel like a goddess. She even whispered to me that I had made her experience feelings she had never felt before.

Hearing the sound of the ocean, feeling her warm, completely satisfied body next to mine, I started smiling. Not long ago, this situation would have been completely different. We would both have been lying here feeling very frustrated and awkward because I was unable to satisfy her. The journey Ive made from being a three minute man to being able to make love for as long as I choose was one of the most fulfilling adventures of my life. I went from barely even knowing three erotic parts of a woman's body (two of these being the left and the right breast) to completely understanding how she works and knowing the secrets to every little spot. I went from not being able to satisfy a women at all, to knowing how to make her scream in pleasure using just my tongue.

That is when I decided to write this book, because I want you to learn these skills as well! I want you to experience what it is like to make love to a woman and to completely and totally satisfy her, not only on a physical level, but at an emotional level as well. I know that there are hundreds of books out there that sell you the same story and the same promises. I know because I have read most of them! And yet, this one is different. It is different because it covers all you ever need to know without all the fluff. I cannot promise a quick fix, but I can promise to provide a set of working steps that will help you to become a modern lover.

I want to get right to the point and share what really works. I have found that most courses out there are either too limited and too disrespectful to women, or on the other hand, much too spiritual, new age and hard to understand for the average guy. Learn from me and reduce the time it takes from ten years to about one month! I have spent ten years of my life dedicated to fixing a dire premature ejaculation (PE) problem. I have spent a lot of money on products that do not work and hours of reading, experimenting and understanding different skills that never paid off. Skip all of this by reading my book and learning what has worked for me and why it will work for you too!

When I was a small boy going through puberty, sex was taboo in our family. We just did not talk about it. I had no idea what to do, how anything worked, and still felt this intense longing for the female body. I was completely obsessed with their curves, the way they moved, the way their eyes had an impact on me, and even more confused by everything else I did not know! Every night I would fantasise in my bed and start rubbing my penis against the mattress until this feeling would totally overpower me and liquid would come out of my penis. The feeling would linger a bit and then go away so I could fall asleep totally relaxed. Sounds like a beautiful story doesnt it?

Of course, there is another side to it. I had no idea what was happening and thought it was something bad or forbidden. When I first saw a magazine showing that a mans penis had to go into the womans body, I was in shock! Is this really how it happens? Imagine getting your sexual education from a magazine.

The taboo was enforced even more when my mother found a naughty magazine I had hidden away and became tremendously disappointed with me. My father was not the kind of man that would have this conversation with me, and so I was left with many doubts and confusing thoughts. At the time, I was sharing a bedroom with my brother, so for me it was all about ejaculating as fast as I could with as little movement and sound as possible. Meanwhile, I was under the impression that what I was doing was forbidden, leading me to feel bad about it even more.

This is the most sure fire recipe for guaranteed premature ejaculation problems. On top of all that, I had some horrible experiences while being with girls and it all got into my head. Oh, the embarrassment and shame of ejaculating with my pants still on. Even just putting on a condom was already enough friction to make me pop.

A lot of my girlfriends left me because of it. They never told me that my poor performance in the bedroom was the problem, but now I know it was! Girls will never tell you premature ejaculation is a problem, they do not want to hurt you. But believe me, it is!

Women want to feel a deep connection with the men they are involved with. This connection that is best achieved through prolonged penetration. When both are present in the moment, a feeling of growing together and becoming one is possible. I discovered many meditation practices that can make both parties feel this strong connection, but more on that in the next book. Remember that for the time being, this is merely the Foundation guide in which we will first work on ourselves.