The Best ORAL SEX Ever
His Guide to
Going Down
Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD
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Fulbright, Yvonne K.
The best oral sex ever: his guide to going down / Yvonne K. Fulbright.
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INTRODUCTION
Open Up and Say Ahhhh
If you've cracked open this book, then your curiosity has been piqued. Oral sex has a way of doing that, beckoning lovers to come get a taste of this. Those who have been there know it's the means to better, higher peaking. Those who haven't been there and those who've been disappointed by earlier attempts know its reputation for inviting sexual release as nothing else can. They hunger for their fill of the same. There's no doubt that going down on her (and him) has taken center stage in the quest for sexual fulfillment. Seems everyone wants more than a mouthful, and who can blame them?
With oral sex a main mode of climax, including multiple orgasms, for lovers, its role in and influence on a sexual relationship is critical. With the perfect mix of having the right person, in the right moment, with all of the right moves, stellar oral sex can make for some of the most memorable sexperiences around. And even when circumstances are a little less than ideal, oral action can still invite some of the hottest sexual exchanges to be had that's how powerful and pleasure-filled the oral act is in and of itself!
No matter what your sexual exchange, becoming an oral connoisseur is where it's at when it comes to reaching new, literally jaw-dropping sexual heights. The challenge for many, however, revolves around how to make oral sex a fine dining experience for both giver and receiver. While your aim is to make giving head the best ever for her, this book is very much about how to make your experience as the giver the best for you too. A pleasure shared is a pleasure doubled, after all. Your ability to not only deliver the most effective techniques around, but to love what you're doing and to totally get into the moment is critical to making her erotic experience the ultimate-ever-had grade.
This book is intended for lovers looking for erotic ideas, couples hoping to deal with their oral sex issues, and individuals seeking to make oral sex on her more palpable or more of a priority in their passion pursuits. Meant for adults of all ages, it's for those of you who need and want to know the information vital to realizing yours and her maximum pleasure potential via what is affectionately referred to as cunnilingus in anything from textbooks to your sex Bible Cosmopolitan. Plus, it answers all of those questions that lovers are too afraid or embarrassed to ask, unless they work up the nerve to email a sexologist, like myself, for advice. After years of helping people as a sex educator and relationship expert, I know well the trials and tribulations lovers grapple with when it comes to oral sex. Those coming to me for confessional have told me shamelessly or shyly that they adore oral sex, they'd love more oral sex, and that they'll never get enough of it. Talk about sexual appetites!
As with any sex act, oral sex mastery comes with time, dedication, practice, and desire. This book sends you well on your way, offering tips and techniques for your oral pleasures, and strategies for barriers that stand in your way. Upon reading The Best Oral Sex Ever: His Guide to Going Down, you'll stand to come away with:
A whole new level of sexpertise when it comes to understanding one of her favorite sex acts, as well as other forms of pleasuring Realistic erotic expectations
Better sex communications skills in letting your needs, concerns, and questions be known
The information and skills needed to take care of your sexual health and hers while doing what you'll do best
Tons of instruction for your erotic arsenal on eroticizing oral sex and realizing orgasm, including her potential for multiple orgasms
Referrals you can turn to for more information
It can't be said enough: Going down on her can offer lovers some of the greatest pleasures and most intimate moments to be had as sexual beings. The experience of launching her into an oral orgasmic orbit is practically beyond words. So the confidence and power trip that comes in knowing that you're an expert in giving oral is like no other ego boost when it comes to your skills set. By the end of this book, you'll be on top of your game, including your abilities to help her feel more than a little sexually satisfied.
As you read through the following pages, it's important to remember that sexual preferences are as numerous as there are people. How to make oral sex an art form for a particular sexual partner needs to be explored and specially tailored to her wants and likes. Some things may work after one or many tries, while some things may not, while other things may work at another stage in the relationship.
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